BigJ

Lifer
Nov 18, 2001
21,330
1
81
It's called a bender. We all do it sometime or another, for various reasons. You'll get your sh!t together and eventually get over it.
 

Zysoclaplem

Diamond Member
Sep 26, 2003
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Ask her out. If she says no, don't do it again.
It takes two to tango, and if she doesn't feel the same way, well just move on. Don't scare her off...lol.
 

Ameesh

Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
23,686
1
0
why are you drinking? booze is not going to solve any problems for you, cut that sh!t out before you become an alcholic
 

leftyman

Diamond Member
Sep 15, 2000
7,073
3
81
Alcohol, the cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems." i forgot which wise man that quote should be attributed to.
 

necine

Diamond Member
Jan 25, 2005
3,631
0
0
you need more alcohol... immediately.

honestly tho, i've been there... get your act together.
 

spacelord

Platinum Member
Oct 11, 2002
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ahhh.. I miss the days of college, finals, and doing an 11 day bender before and during the finals. Did good on my engineering exams too.. really pissed a few Arts and Science friends who spent their time studying their asses off instead of drinking. My liver was strong back in the day...
 

ggnl

Diamond Member
Jul 2, 2004
5,095
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Originally posted by: Ameesh
why are you drinking? booze is not going to solve any problems for you, cut that sh!t out before you become an alcholic

Very true. Next time you feel like drinking, go do something productive instead. A little self-improvement goes a long way in battling depression.

Also, going crazy with the alcohol will most likely just drive the girl further away.
 

lightweight

Senior member
Aug 31, 2004
473
0
71
You're on your way down a long and rocky mountain my friend, because I've been there. Don't stress out about this woman that you think is the woman of your dreams. Face it, you've idealized her.. BIG MISTAKE. She's going to do something that doesn't fit in your idealized view of her and you'll be back her posting about it. Accept things how they are. In the grand scheme of things, there are a lot of women to talk to. Don't place her at the center of your universe, instead make yourself the center of hers.

Edit: Also, stop compulsively drinking because it will not solve any of your problems. It will only add another layer of complexity to your situation.
 

dug777

Lifer
Oct 13, 2004
24,778
4
0
depends.. a glass of red every night is fine, even good for ya...

or if you're a college student, then it's normal

otherwise..no
 

remagavon

Platinum Member
Jun 16, 2003
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Originally posted by: leftyman
Alcohol, the cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems." i forgot which wise man that quote should be attributed to.

Homer Simpson.
 

Bozono

Banned
Aug 17, 2005
2,883
0
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I see your problem. You say you've been drinking every night for six days, when you should be drinking in the mornings and afternoons as well. When you become permadrrunk the answer will come to you.
Just got off a bender myself. I actually lost $400 in my own apartment because of teh dunkenness. Fvck I hope I find it.:|
 

GasX

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
29,033
6
81
Noone else has ever felt that way. You are unique and alone in your angst. There is no person who could possibly comprehend your pain.

Isn't adolescence fun, everybody?
 

HappyFace

Diamond Member
Nov 2, 1999
6,265
5
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Originally posted by: lightweight
You're on your way down a long and rocky mountain my friend, because I've been there. Don't stress out about this woman that you think is the woman of your dreams. Face it, you've idealized her.. BIG MISTAKE. She's going to do something that doesn't fit in your idealized view of her and you'll be back her posting about it. Accept things how they are. In the grand scheme of things, there are a lot of women to talk to. Don't place her at the center of your universe, instead make yourself the center of hers.

Edit: Also, stop compulsively drinking because it will not solve any of your problems. It will only add another layer of complexity to your situation.
Sounds like good advice, even though it will not be easy. Thanks..
 

shimsham

Lifer
May 9, 2002
10,765
0
0
6 days? pffft....rookie.

as for advice: a woman can sense when she has so much control over you. most women find that type of power over a man a weakness on his part, and hence unattractive. nut up. live your own life independent of her, and shell come crawling if she cares about you.
 

meltdown75

Lifer
Nov 17, 2004
37,548
7
81
it happens

edit: i can say that i don't think i've drank that many consecutive days, but... hey. :beer:
 

tweakmm

Lifer
May 28, 2001
18,436
4
0
Originally posted by: shimsham
6 days? pffft....rookie. .



No, but seriously. Don't drink to fill a void or because you feel bad. That will form dangerous reward associations in your brain.
 

Bryophyte

Lifer
Apr 25, 2001
13,430
13
81
Alcohol *seems* like a good way to self-medicate your depression away, until you wake up alone, feeling like sh1t, hung over, and more depressed.
 

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
25,030
5
61
Originally posted by: ggnl
Originally posted by: Ameesh
why are you drinking? booze is not going to solve any problems for you, cut that sh!t out before you become an alcholic

Very true. Next time you feel like drinking, go do something productive instead. A little self-improvement goes a long way in battling depression.

Also, going crazy with the alcohol will most likely just drive the girl further away.

Alcohol is a depressant, it's only making things seem worse than they are.
 
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