it's obvious that you are bitter about the scumbag that is your sons biological father. it's obvious to the rest of us that this experience has colored your reading of MichaelD's post.
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
My son received zero phone calls/visits from his father this past year and not a single card,gift or penny in support.
I hope that gives you a nice, fat woodie MichaelD.
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
And what would a little Wanker like you know about real men?Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
My son received zero phone calls/visits from his father this past year and not a single card,gift or penny in support.
I hope that gives you a nice, fat woodie MichaelD.
Sorry that your son's father is a scumbag. That's neither my fault nor my problem. Would you like some cheese with that whine?
I see my son as often as possible, I call him 1x/week, I send him cards for all the major holidays and his birthday. I am a DAD.
MichaelD, you so envy other "scumbags" who get over without paying court ordered
child support that it drips from your posts.
Your ex remodeled her house? unless she makes the kid live in a tent in the yard, the boy
benefits from all of that.
What the hell...now you are saying that he is a good dad only because the court told him so?? By the fact that he calls, sends cards, visits etc.. it shows that he is going out of his way to be a dad to his kid. Now you say that he envies other scumbags?? You are soooo stupid. I guess thats what happens when you don't know any real men who take responsibility.
Like Micheal D, Geekbabe has had a bad experience with her childs other parent. It's understandable why she would look at it from the females perspective just like most of you guys look at iot from his.
IMO both are venting and both have been on the short end of the situation.
Maybee one day you will grow up to be one. Hope does spring eternal you know!Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
And what would a little Wanker like you know about real men?Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
My son received zero phone calls/visits from his father this past year and not a single card,gift or penny in support.
I hope that gives you a nice, fat woodie MichaelD.
Sorry that your son's father is a scumbag. That's neither my fault nor my problem. Would you like some cheese with that whine?
I see my son as often as possible, I call him 1x/week, I send him cards for all the major holidays and his birthday. I am a DAD.
MichaelD, you so envy other "scumbags" who get over without paying court ordered
child support that it drips from your posts.
Your ex remodeled her house? unless she makes the kid live in a tent in the yard, the boy
benefits from all of that.
What the hell...now you are saying that he is a good dad only because the court told him so?? By the fact that he calls, sends cards, visits etc.. it shows that he is going out of his way to be a dad to his kid. Now you say that he envies other scumbags?? You are soooo stupid. I guess thats what happens when you don't know any real men who take responsibility.
Like Micheal D, Geekbabe has had a bad experience with her childs other parent. It's understandable why she would look at it from the females perspective just like most of you guys look at iot from his.
IMO both are venting and both have been on the short end of the situation.
I would know about real men because my Dad was one. What a stupid question. There are some guys out there who actually know how to treat their wives and children. I happen to be in an awesome family.
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Maybee one day you will grow up to be one. Hope does spring eternal you know!Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
And what would a little Wanker like you know about real men?Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
My son received zero phone calls/visits from his father this past year and not a single card,gift or penny in support.
I hope that gives you a nice, fat woodie MichaelD.
Sorry that your son's father is a scumbag. That's neither my fault nor my problem. Would you like some cheese with that whine?
I see my son as often as possible, I call him 1x/week, I send him cards for all the major holidays and his birthday. I am a DAD.
MichaelD, you so envy other "scumbags" who get over without paying court ordered
child support that it drips from your posts.
Your ex remodeled her house? unless she makes the kid live in a tent in the yard, the boy
benefits from all of that.
What the hell...now you are saying that he is a good dad only because the court told him so?? By the fact that he calls, sends cards, visits etc.. it shows that he is going out of his way to be a dad to his kid. Now you say that he envies other scumbags?? You are soooo stupid. I guess thats what happens when you don't know any real men who take responsibility.
Like Micheal D, Geekbabe has had a bad experience with her childs other parent. It's understandable why she would look at it from the females perspective just like most of you guys look at iot from his.
IMO both are venting and both have been on the short end of the situation.
I would know about real men because my Dad was one. What a stupid question. There are some guys out there who actually know how to treat their wives and children. I happen to be in an awesome family.
No it wasn't, it was a valid question. I asked what would a little Wanker like you know about real men and you answered that you father was one. Good for you, consider yourself lucky!Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Whether or not I learn from my Dad's example has nothing to do with not knowing about real men like you originally accused me of. That was just stupid.
Originally posted by: ncclaw
I am 25 years old. My parents divorced when I was 1, and I always lived with my mother. My father never lived more than 15 minutes away, and I saw him all the time. He paid the court mandated child support of $50 a week until I graduated from college. that money wasn't anywhere nearly enough. my mom always made more money than my dad did anyway though, and i never asked him for anything else, so it worked out in the end. just remember if you make a big deal about money, then your kid will eventually think that is the most important thing in the world. more than likely they will start to equate love with money, and it can cause a rift in the relationship.
ideally, there shouldn't have to be court mandated child support. on the other hand, there shouldnt be greedy ex wives who spend child support on vacations or other things that should go to the kid. in the end its just the principle of the support, not the actual numbers that count.
just don't complain about the money to the kid. my dad complained about it all the damned time. as a result we arent as close as i would like to be. my dad would complain that he wasnt giving more money because he didn't have more of a say on how i was raised or what i did in my life. i said he wouldn't get the input into life decisions without more money. you can go round and round in circles over it. its obvious you care about your child. speaking from personal experience, nothing good can come from the kid hearing parents complain about support.
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
No it wasn't, it was a valid question. I asked what would a little Wanker like you know about real men and you answered that you father was one. Good for you, consider yourself lucky!Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Whether or not I learn from my Dad's example has nothing to do with not knowing about real men like you originally accused me of. That was just stupid.
What really was stupid is saying that Geekbabe wouldn't know what a real man was. How te fsck would you know? Based on the fact that her son's father is a deadbeat? That's just one person in her life (or that was in her life) To assume she doesn't have any responisible men in her life now is just you leveling a cheap shot at her because you don't like her opinion. That IMO makes you a little Wanker and it's not something a real man would do!
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
And what would a little Wanker like you know about real men?Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
My son received zero phone calls/visits from his father this past year and not a single card,gift or penny in support.
I hope that gives you a nice, fat woodie MichaelD.
Sorry that your son's father is a scumbag. That's neither my fault nor my problem. Would you like some cheese with that whine?
I see my son as often as possible, I call him 1x/week, I send him cards for all the major holidays and his birthday. I am a DAD.
MichaelD, you so envy other "scumbags" who get over without paying court ordered
child support that it drips from your posts.
Your ex remodeled her house? unless she makes the kid live in a tent in the yard, the boy
benefits from all of that.
What the hell...now you are saying that he is a good dad only because the court told him so?? By the fact that he calls, sends cards, visits etc.. it shows that he is going out of his way to be a dad to his kid. Now you say that he envies other scumbags?? You are soooo stupid. I guess thats what happens when you don't know any real men who take responsibility.
Like Micheal D, Geekbabe has had a bad experience with her childs other parent. It's understandable why she would look at it from the females perspective just like most of you guys look at iot from his.
IMO both are venting and both have been on the short end of the situation.
Sigh... I say I'm sorry to MichaelD, I was sitting here reading this thread imaging my ex someplace bragging about how he'd fixed me good/put the screws to me and I just saw red and lost it.
Originally posted by: chasem
It would be neato if you could put a check in the bank every month and give it to the kid when he is 18. assuming the (EX!)wife could support the child in the mean time
Originally posted by: EagleKeeper
If the ex is expecting a check from you or some third party based on your tax refund, you should make sure that she gets a copy of the tax return and the payment check for her records. You may wish to send the form on the same day that you choose to mail Uncle his $$$.
She could generate trouble without knowing the facts first and leave you to attempt to straighten out the mess on your $$.
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Geekbabe, stop trying to stick up for women. MichaelD's ex was a bitch. And there in lies the difference between you and her-you raise your child, she doesn't. She's a golddigging whore, you aren't. Don't confuse the two, and don't try to stick up for some cvnt.
Originally posted by: DonVito
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Geekbabe, stop trying to stick up for women. MichaelD's ex was a bitch. And there in lies the difference between you and her-you raise your child, she doesn't. She's a golddigging whore, you aren't. Don't confuse the two, and don't try to stick up for some cvnt.
Jesus - it takes NOTHING to unleash the inner woman-hater in some of you assholes. MichaelD has said nothing to warrant calling this woman a "cvnt" or a "golddigging whore". This payment was ordered by the court, so the person to blame is not her but the judge.
You guys give me the creeps. Don't blame all women because you can't get laid.
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Originally posted by: DonVito
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Geekbabe, stop trying to stick up for women. MichaelD's ex was a bitch. And there in lies the difference between you and her-you raise your child, she doesn't. She's a golddigging whore, you aren't. Don't confuse the two, and don't try to stick up for some cvnt.
Jesus - it takes NOTHING to unleash the inner woman-hater in some of you assholes. MichaelD has said nothing to warrant calling this woman a "cvnt" or a "golddigging whore". This payment was ordered by the court, so the person to blame is not her but the judge.
You guys give me the creeps. Don't blame all women because you can't get laid.
Right. If MichaelD thinks this is offensive, I'll take it out. However, you either aren't admitting that there are golddigging whores and cvnts that live off their father's child support, or you're never seen one of these women. If you want to call me an asshole, fine.
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Originally posted by: DonVito
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Geekbabe, stop trying to stick up for women. MichaelD's ex was a bitch. And there in lies the difference between you and her-you raise your child, she doesn't. She's a golddigging whore, you aren't. Don't confuse the two, and don't try to stick up for some cvnt.
Jesus - it takes NOTHING to unleash the inner woman-hater in some of you assholes. MichaelD has said nothing to warrant calling this woman a "cvnt" or a "golddigging whore". This payment was ordered by the court, so the person to blame is not her but the judge.
You guys give me the creeps. Don't blame all women because you can't get laid.
Right. If MichaelD thinks this is offensive, I'll take it out. However, you either aren't admitting that there are golddigging whores and cvnts that live off their father's child support, or you're never seen one of these women. If you want to call me an asshole, fine.
I'm 48 yrs old and am sad to say that over the years I've seen more women in my position than I have of the gold digging,live off the child support money variety. Most of the women I know also work fulltime jobs,married or divorced.