8 partners @ 19 years old

[CravenTacos]

When i was 22, i dated a girl who had been with 18 guys that she could recall. I made the mistake of asking how many guys she went down on....she's probably still counting. But damn she knew what she was doing!!

 

[DainBramaged]

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
If you started dating a chick and she told you (after a bunch of dates) that she'd been with 8 dudes (and she's only 19 years old) what would you do?

This is a gnarly situation for me. Its hard for me to respect her. I've been with 5 girls (i'm 25, though, and lost my virginity at 14) but I've turned down at least another 6 or 7, most of whom were really smokin', but I said no because I want to keep it as a special thing. (no comments on the stupidity/lamness of that. Getting girls isn't a problem for me, so i'd rather be picky).

This girl is cute and fun, but I'm really having trouble with this. I can't really even touch her let alone kiss her. I've been able to hide these feelings from her thus for because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Just because I choose the way I do, doesn't mean that I expect everyone to, so I don't want her to think I'm saying that she's an awful person- I just don't know if I personally can deal.

What do you guys think? Its pretty slutty, right?

Oh yeah, and she also said that she felt "guilty" and "embarrassed" but that really doesn't change much for me.

Cliffs-
Cute girl is ninteen and has had sex with 8 dudes. Seems messed up to me. What do you think?

ur a ho

 

[jspeicher]

boner FTW

 

[ViciouS]

I dated a chick that at 17 hooked up with 13 and she lost her virginity at 15:Q. She is not done sowing her wild oats, that or she is always going to be easy, so keep her as a booty call but dont take the B1TCH to seriously.

BTW I dated that girl for 3 ½ years and its NOT WORTH THE HEARTACHE, you can?t make a hoe into a house wife.

In the end your gonna do what your going to do, but don?t get mad if you find out she had the train ran on her a few times. And wait till you start finding out some of the guys who have banged her, THEY ARE ALL OVER TOWN!


Good Luck.

 

[dfi]

Originally posted by: Ryan

Originally posted by: JonnyBlaze

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower

Originally posted by: Ryan

Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Honestly, a woman that is able to give her body away so freely is likely a bit unstable and has a whore-ish mentality.

This has been my experience, it may not be true for others.

What is wrong with a woman who actually LIKES sex?!! If this had been a woman complaining about her boyfriend - the issue woudl be almost non-existant because it's whats expected of men. It's all social conditioning, and the objectification of women - the need have a "pure woman" is bullsh!t.

Wait a second here man. Its "social conditiong" also to say that ANYONE, male or female, ought to just have sex, (or at the least that it is ok to just have sex) because its fun or pleasureable. Sure, nature tells us that we have to do it. But as thinking creatures (especially ones that have a goal of being with someone for life) we should be able to control those urges. I expect the same out of myself, and am not saying only she or only women should limit their partners, but men as well. I am not, however, dating men, so that was not part of my argument.

Why is it bulls!t to want someone who would treat the act as special as you do?

its the social conditioning that makes you think it matters. having sex with someone doesnt change who you are.

Ding ding ding! We have a winnar!

So your actions have no reflection on your character? Brilliant!

Or, maybe you can gleam something about a person's character and values from their actions, and perhaps even compare those perceived values with your own, to determine whether you want to associate with said person.

Or maybe that's just my own crazy notions.

 

[Hyudra]

LoL, 8 partners. Math shows that you'll be dumped in under 3 months, and she will find someone else.

 

[Rage187]

8 aint crap; thats barely my senior year.

 

[rgwalt]

Well, it comes down to whether or not you can deal with it. If you can't, tell her to hit the bricks.

R

 

[ViciouS]

Originally posted by: ViciouS
I dated a chick that at 17 hooked up with 13 and she lost her virginity at 15:Q. She is not done sowing her wild oats, that or she is always going to be easy, so keep her as a booty call but dont take the B1TCH to seriously.

BTW I dated that girl for 3 ½ years and its NOT WORTH THE HEARTACHE, you can?t make a hoe into a house wife.

In the end your gonna do what your going to do, but don?t get mad if you find out she had the train ran on her a few times. And wait till you start finding out some of the guys who have banged her, THEY ARE ALL OVER TOWN!


Good Luck.

OMG i thought you said 18 LOL! 8 aint sh!t man!

 

[CraigRT]

honestly that is sadly fairly normal this day and age. not saying i like that at all, i'd prefer it to be more like in the 2 range, 3-4 max for sure... but sadly that stuff seems to be totally common at least from what I've seen.

 

[Chrono]

Originally posted by: Ryan
Typical male reaction - gotta love social conditioning :roll: What the fvck does it matter?!?! - in reality, you're intimidated by a girl who has more experience at relationships.

To mask their own insecurities, men often jump to the whore/slut label.

but you're gay... how do you know?

 

[Ricemarine]

Just make sure she doesn't give you an STD

 

[silverpig]

Girls are allowed to like sex too you know...

Think about it, if girls never had sex, none of us guys would ever get any. It honestly doesn't matter to me how many guys she's been with, so long as she's got a clean bill of health, and, if we're in a relationship, that I'm the only one she's doing.

 

[miri]

Originally posted by: Brutuskend

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
If you started dating a chick and she told you (after a bunch of dates) that she'd been with 8 dudes (and she's only 19 years old) what would you do?

Make myself #9 ?

Quoted for truth

Thats pretty revealing of her, she could have just as easily said shes only been with 1 or 2 guys to.

 

[deftron]

PICS@(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(!)!



(and phone number too, if you're feeling generous)

 

[Damn Dirty Ape]

Originally posted by: Phlargo
I totally understand your position here.

I had a girlfriend when I was 19 (who was 17 at the time) who had been with like 6 guys and I felt really weird about it. I gave it some time and in the end, felt just fine. Give it some time if she's worth it. Otherwise, move on, grow up and realize that there probably won't be many more virgins in your life.

Btw... virginity is way overrated.. Who wants a girl who doesn't know what she's doing? The worst thing is a girl who is totally uncomfortable with her body and can't enjoy anything. I'd much rather have a girl who at least has some experience with herself and knows how to 'enjoy'.

would'nt it be nice to take the young girl who knows nothing sexually and teach her the ways of the sexual encounter, keep and marry her, and know that all you guys do, you taught her?

 

[yourdeardaniel]

dump her
she might have STDs

 

[webcammie]

I admit 8 partners at the age of 19 is a bit much. But if you have fun with her and you enjoy her company, her past should not hold so much weight. And keep in mind, she is a pretty girl (as you claim her to be) and pretty girls have MANY MANY options. Some have better control while other are easily fooled by guys who are just out to "hit it and quit it". She might just be the latter and is looking for something real. Give her a chance, you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain, in my opinion.

 

[dquan97]

pic?

 

[TNTrulez]

Hit it and maker her #9.

 

[Sentinel]

Isn't this the easy way in?

 

[vshah]

i'm 19 and i've had 2...but i'm a guy.

 

[Theguynextdoor]

If you have as much bait as you claim go find another fish.

You also sound like you're trying to get us to justify you keeping her. If you like her, go ahead and try to make it work...

 

[DaFinn]

I only have SEX on days that begin with T:
Thanksgiving,
Tuesday,
Thursday,
Today,
Tomorrow,
Thaturday,
Thunday?
Every Thucking day!

 

[Harriet Tubgirl]

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
If you started dating a chick and she told you (after a bunch of dates) that she'd been with 8 dudes (and she's only 19 years old) what would you do?

This is a gnarly situation for me. Its hard for me to respect her. I've been with 5 girls (i'm 25, though, and lost my virginity at 14) but I've turned down at least another 6 or 7, most of whom were really smokin', but I said no because I want to keep it as a special thing. (no comments on the stupidity/lamness of that. Getting girls isn't a problem for me, so i'd rather be picky).

What do you guys think? Its pretty slutty, right?

Oh yeah, and she also said that she felt "guilty" and "embarrassed" but that really doesn't change much for me.

Cliffs-
Cute girl is ninteen and has had sex with 8 dudes. Seems messed up to me. What do you think?

i think it's pretty messed up that you're a 25 year old man dating a 19 year old girl.