8 partners @ 19 years old

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Ryan
Typical male reaction - gotta love social conditioning :roll: What the fvck does it matter?!?! - in reality, you're intimidated by a girl who has more experience at relationships.

To mask their own insecurities, men often jump to the whore/slut label.

Very insightful :thumbsup:

Sex is sex.. Sometimes it's an "intimate, romantic, special thing", and sometimes it's just pure raw animalistic fvcking.

People, especially young people, try to make it out to be a lot more than it actually is. And we all don't get enough of it.

 

[IWQBMBIWB]

Wow....its a wonder some of you ever get laid.
The girl likes to fvck. Most do.

 

[OCNewbie]

So she's made a few mistakes in her past. Were most of these one-night stands? If so, they were much less meaninful than this actual relationship she's trying to have with you. What's done is done, and cannot be undone. If you like the person she is, then, focus on who she is, not her past mistakes.

 

[IWQBMBIWB]

Originally posted by: OCNewbie
So she's made a few mistakes in her past. Were most of these one-night stands? If so, they were much less meaninful than this actual relationship she's trying to have with you. What's done is done, and cannot be undone. If you like the person she is, then, focus on who she is, not her past mistakes.

Mistakes?

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: IWQBMBIWB

Originally posted by: OCNewbie
So she's made a few mistakes in her past. Were most of these one-night stands? If so, they were much less meaninful than this actual relationship she's trying to have with you. What's done is done, and cannot be undone. If you like the person she is, then, focus on who she is, not her past mistakes.

Mistakes?

Exactly. Why are they necessarily "mistakes"? What if they were encounters that she thoroughly enjoyed and feels no regrets about?

What is it with some of you people who feel that sex is a bad thing if women actually enjoy it?

 

[alocurto]

Originally posted by: beer
So if you have no problems getting girls, why are you going after a girl 6 years younger than you? Doesn't that seem a bit...odd?

 

[iamwiz82]

I had this flashback to the scene in Clerks where Dante finds out about his girlfriend's oral.... errr.... experience.

:laugh:

 

[GhettoPeanut]

if it bothers you know, you're prolly not going to get over it, i'd ditch her.

 

[lightweight]

If you can't deal with the fact that she has slept with people in the past, and you will act weird, then don't get involved in it. I think that you sound pretty insecure with yourself, and should probably get over that if you're going to have any type of successful relationship in the future. Why worry about what she has done in the past when you're living in the present?

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
If you started dating a chick and she told you (after a bunch of dates) that she'd been with 8 dudes (and she's only 19 years old) what would you do?

This is a gnarly situation for me. Its hard for me to respect her. I've been with 5 girls (i'm 25, though, and lost my virginity at 14) but I've turned down at least another 6 or 7, most of whom were really smokin', but I said no because I want to keep it as a special thing. (no comments on the stupidity/lamness of that. Getting girls isn't a problem for me, so i'd rather be picky).

This girl is cute and fun, but I'm really having trouble with this. I can't really even touch her let alone kiss her. I've been able to hide these feelings from her thus for because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Just because I choose the way I do, doesn't mean that I expect everyone to, so I don't want her to think I'm saying that she's an awful person- I just don't know if I personally can deal.

What do you guys think? Its pretty slutty, right?

Oh yeah, and she also said that she felt "guilty" and "embarrassed" but that really doesn't change much for me.

Cliffs-
Cute girl is ninteen and has had sex with 8 dudes. Seems messed up to me. What do you think?

You are such a wuss...

sex is fun and it hurts noone if done safely..

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: miri

Originally posted by: Brutuskend

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
If you started dating a chick and she told you (after a bunch of dates) that she'd been with 8 dudes (and she's only 19 years old) what would you do?

Make myself #9 ?

Quoted for truth

Thats pretty revealing of her, she could have just as easily said shes only been with 1 or 2 guys to.

What makes you so sure the number 8 isn't a fabrication then?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
If you started dating a chick and she told you (after a bunch of dates) that she'd been with 8 dudes (and she's only 19 years old) what would you do?

This is a gnarly situation for me. Its hard for me to respect her. I've been with 5 girls (i'm 25, though, and lost my virginity at 14) but I've turned down at least another 6 or 7, most of whom were really smokin', but I said no because I want to keep it as a special thing. (no comments on the stupidity/lamness of that. Getting girls isn't a problem for me, so i'd rather be picky).

This girl is cute and fun, but I'm really having trouble with this. I can't really even touch her let alone kiss her. I've been able to hide these feelings from her thus for because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Just because I choose the way I do, doesn't mean that I expect everyone to, so I don't want her to think I'm saying that she's an awful person- I just don't know if I personally can deal.

What do you guys think? Its pretty slutty, right?

Oh yeah, and she also said that she felt "guilty" and "embarrassed" but that really doesn't change much for me.

Cliffs-
Cute girl is ninteen and has had sex with 8 dudes. Seems messed up to me. What do you think?

probably been said before, but still...

why is it so cool for a 19 y/o guy to have had sex with 8 chicks
but if a girl does she is considered a slut?

 

[dabuddha]

If she sickens you, then it's not really a question anymore, is it.

Dump her.

 

[Tommunist]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

probably been said before, but still...

why is it so cool for a 19 y/o guy to have had sex with 8 chicks
but if a girl does she is considered a slut?

some people will still think the guy is a slut too - but don't get started with the double standards - it's a two way street.

 

[Scarpozzi]

Trust me, I know women that have been with 35+ men.

If she's been with 8 guys, maybe she started at the age of 16. If you consider she's 19 and dated 2.3333 guys per year since she was 16, that's not bad. Some girls sleep with guys every other weekend.....and her numbers would be much higher.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Tommunist

Originally posted by: moshquerade

probably been said before, but still...

why is it so cool for a 19 y/o guy to have had sex with 8 chicks
but if a girl does she is considered a slut?

some people will still think the guy is a slut too - but don't get started with the double standards - it's a two way street.

double standards run amok, and yes, this is one.

what guy is going to think that guy is a slut? he's so cool - he got into 8 chick's pants.

 

[Tommunist]

Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
Trust me, I know women that have been with 35+ men.

If she's been with 8 guys, maybe she started at the age of 16. If you consider she's 19 and dated 2.3333 guys per year since she was 16, that's not bad. Some girls sleep with guys every other weekend.....and her numbers would be much higher.

she's only been in college a year - just wait!!!

 

[dabuddha]

That's like my friend's beast of a women (see previous thread about this) who claims she's had over 48 different "partners" And of course we all know that's a conservative guess.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Tommunist

Originally posted by: moshquerade

probably been said before, but still...

why is it so cool for a 19 y/o guy to have had sex with 8 chicks
but if a girl does she is considered a slut?

some people will still think the guy is a slut too - but don't get started with the double standards - it's a two way street.

double standards run amok, and yes, this is one.

what guy is going to think that guy is a slut? he's so cool - he got into 8 chick's pants.

I have a friend (who is now married) who slept with over 100 girls before he met his wife.

And he considers himself a slut. Still a very nice guy. It's his choices, his life. But that doesn't affect my friendship with him.

 

[Hammer]

Originally posted by: iamwiz82
I had this flashback to the scene in Clerks where Dante finds out about his girlfriend's oral.... errr.... experience.

:laugh:

... in a row? :laugh:

 

[Tommunist]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Tommunist

Originally posted by: moshquerade

probably been said before, but still...

why is it so cool for a 19 y/o guy to have had sex with 8 chicks
but if a girl does she is considered a slut?

some people will still think the guy is a slut too - but don't get started with the double standards - it's a two way street.

double standards run amok, and yes, this is one.

what guy is going to think that guy is a slut? he's so cool - he got into 8 chick's pants.

depends on the circumstances.

 

[mercanucaribe]

If you can't handle it, move on.

 

[Ilmater]

Some guys care, some guys don't. Depends on the girl for me. Usually, a girl that likes sex that much falls into two categories:

1) HUGE self-esteem issues
2) Orgasms frequently

If it's the former, run. If it's the latter, well, you do what you want, but I'd hit it.

 

[LordMorpheus]

meh. I wouldn't think it's that big of a deal, long as she aint getting with 8 guys while dating you. Everyone is entitled to a history.

 

[shinzwei]

did she sleep with 8 guys? or just been out with 8 guys?