Originally posted by: GrantMeThePower
If you started dating a chick and she told you (after a bunch of dates) that she'd been with 8 dudes (and she's only 19 years old) what would you do?
This is a gnarly situation for me. Its hard for me to respect her. I've been with 5 girls (i'm 25, though, and lost my virginity at 14) but I've turned down at least another 6 or 7, most of whom were really smokin', but I said no because I want to keep it as a special thing. (no comments on the stupidity/lamness of that. Getting girls isn't a problem for me, so i'd rather be picky).
This girl is cute and fun, but I'm really having trouble with this. I can't really even touch her let alone kiss her. I've been able to hide these feelings from her thus for because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Just because I choose the way I do, doesn't mean that I expect everyone to, so I don't want her to think I'm saying that she's an awful person- I just don't know if I personally can deal.
What do you guys think? Its pretty slutty, right?
Oh yeah, and she also said that she felt "guilty" and "embarrassed" but that really doesn't change much for me.
Cliffs-
Cute girl is ninteen and has had sex with 8 dudes. Seems messed up to me. What do you think?
Almost ALL guys claim they could of, then later talk about should of, and do it in the premise of a special thing.
Fact is if it was a 'special thing' you wouldn't be here, you'd already be on your way.
She is probably not a whore, just sexually active, not knowing when she lost her virginity it's hard to say...but if you are 25 and dating since 14...I have no idea how you can only have been with 5 chicks.
I can understand only 1-2 during the pre 18 years for a guy...but even then at 14 I'd but that to 3-4 chicks...unless a serious steady was involved.
She is feeling "guilty" and "embarrassed" because of you made her feel that way.
Something you have to understand...people like sex, it's really simple to have...however, many think it's this holy grail due to the fact that they don't get out much. If you are dating, you aren't screwing every person you meet. Yet, I'd say easily every 2-3 months if 'getting to know' someone sex will happen and you may continue dating a few to several months/years or it may fizzle quickly.
I am not promoting people that have one night stands weekly. It's easy to do about every night really if you are not looking to marry the chick. For the record the ones I wouldn't think about marrying have been the most fun.
Be a man, not a kid thinking Polly Pureheart.
Send me her phone number and I will let you know what you are missing.