Originally posted by: CADsortaGUY
I happen to think this excercise is unproductive as it allows people to dwell on the negative and we already have too much of that in our society. If you don't like a service or product - don't buy/use it and move on.
Oh, and don't forget to be thankful/grateful that we all have the freedom to use these goods/services some like to whine about. Sure, not everything is great or near perfect but dwelling on the negative won't get you very far.
IMO ofcourse...
There is a certain pragmatic wisdom to what you have to say. For totally ignorant people this is good advise but, of course, as with all deep issues there is a paradox that is only resolvable at a level of higher understanding.
Assume for a moment that everybody on earth suffers from negative self esteem and that it is so extreme that to consciously be aware of it would be completely overwhelming and lead into instant psychosis and loss of identity, with all the negative consequences of having no self and no real self either. You will have to assume this because you can't actually experience it all at once for the reasons I just said, not to mention the fact that this truth is walled in by the most extensive armor in the universe.
Now assume that those feelings of inferiority were total lies, that while everybody feels totally worthless, in fact there's not one single thing wrong with them, only feeling there is, feelings that were inculcated and are based on lies.
So, given a world full of self haters who are totally unaware of their self hate, and also, naturally totally aware that those feelings are actually lies, it is far better to be optimistic rather than negative. You will only fool yourself more you don't feel bad, strengthen your armor against how you really feel, and you will be supporting the notion there's nothing wrong with you anyway. This is better than believing and succumbing to the ficking lies that you are worthless.
The problem, of course, is that, while it is possible for some of great faith and little ego to surrender their lives to God, via some religion or another, it doesn't happen very often.
Alternatively, one can go into the negative all the way, allow it all the way out, and relive the traumatic situations that put it in place, see what the lies actually were, and know on a personal and total way that they were lies. Such a person ceases to exist in the ordinary way. Such a person becomes a different kind of being, a person who Knows He's OK, a person totally free of the ego, just like the religious saint, but without a need for faith.
So the good part of a positive attitude is that it has positive effects, but negative ones in other dimensions.
Personally, I think the time has come for the rubber to meet the road, for humanity to get into therapy instead of religion. It is much easier to feel the worst person in the world when you know it's a lie and you don't delude yourself with phony positive thinking.
Of course this is my counter-opinion, but one which includes a much deeper understanding.