Originally posted by: zerocomm
aren't christians proof enough?
Originally posted by: zerocomm
aren't christians proof enough?
Excellent post, Zenmervolt - my thoughts exactly. I was interested to see who would post what I thought, and who would become suddenly defensive and claim "no way! I'm not conformist in any way at all! I don't rely on anything or anyone and I don't do anything anyone else does!"Originally posted by: Zenmervolt
In a basic sense I think that people are pack animals, however we're not blind followers. It's pretty much accepted in Psychology that people like to have a group to which they belong. However, I don't think that most people are followers to such an extent that they will go along with their group if the group is doing somthing that they find truly abhorent. Also, there will always be a few iconoclasts who are out there on their own.
ZV
Originally posted by: zerocomm
aren't christians proof enough?
Originally posted by: Zenmervolt
In a basic sense I think that people are pack animals, however we're not blind followers. It's pretty much accepted in Psychology that people like to have a group to which they belong. However, I don't think that most people are followers to such an extent that they will go along with their group if the group is doing somthing that they find truly abhorent. Also, there will always be a few iconoclasts who are out there on their own.
ZV
Originally posted by: zCypher
I think that naturally, we conform, but conciously we often try to move away from the idea of being conformists. For an easy example, a ricer might be conforming to the ricer community/ideals by ricing it up - but will likely claim he's being "different" than the others, or that he's not doing it because he thinks it's cool and others do it. I think the same idea applies to many things in life. Maybe my example wasn't so great . . .
Interesting perspective, Moonbeam. Say, you're getting close to 10k posts. Congrats. Or... er... my condolences?Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Conformity is caused by fear, the fear of being put down. We were all manipulated as children by our need for love. Me were given a Faustian bargain, conform and get your needs met, or die. The fear of being different is the fear of dying. It's not for everybody. But as you replace the need for external validation with self understanding and self love, you acquire the power to be who you were meant to be, who you really are. When you don't need and therefore don't worry about what others think about you because you give yourself your own approval, you will find yourself different without effort. Conformity and non-conformity can be opposite sides of the same coin. Rebellion is just a reaction to being challenged with withdrawal of support and taking the challenge without the extra step of supplying the self affirmation. Conforming or rebelling, it's all the same thing. The truly different are different from within.
Originally posted by: Zenmervolt
In a basic sense I think that people are pack animals, however we're not blind followers. It's pretty much accepted in Psychology that people like to have a group to which they belong. However, I don't think that most people are followers to such an extent that they will go along with their group if the group is doing somthing that they find truly abhorent. Also, there will always be a few iconoclasts who are out there on their own.
ZV
Originally posted by: hdeck
Originally posted by: zerocomm
aren't christians proof enough?
the same could be said about any other religion...
Elaborate?Originally posted by: Squisher
One of the most interesting classes I've ever had was a social psychology class. Take one and firnd out just what kind of lemmings we really are.
The neatest one was the experiment involving the suposed electricution of a subject in another room.
Originally posted by: zCypher
Elaborate?Originally posted by: Squisher
One of the most interesting classes I've ever had was a social psychology class. Take one and firnd out just what kind of lemmings we really are.
The neatest one was the experiment involving the suposed electricution of a subject in another room.