Beautiful looking girl in class...

[SOSTrooper]

I'm taking a summer class (astronomy) and there is this really hot hispanic girl sitting next to me. Now she is wayyy out of my league (tho im not half bad looking ) but she LOVES to start conversations with me. Such as the other day she said "Oh I saw you driving on the street to school, I was right in front of you, you drive a truck right? ...etc" Then today we're suppose to turn in an extra credit report and she did not do hers, but luckily (and stupidly) I got another copy just in case... Now she needed this so I offered her so she'll have an easier time passing the class. But then, she doesnt say 'bye' to me, she just walks away. I know she's just using me to pass the class, but is it right to help her even tho she's 'too good' for me? I'm pretty sure she has a bf cuz c'mon, she's hot. Should I continue to help her? Final is Wednesday, if she asks me to help her study, should I?

 

[Beau]

Oddly similar to the "Girl..So..Hot.." thread.

Must get pics though

 

[hoihtah]

what the heck is beautiful looking girl?

she's either beautiful ... or good looking.

no?

and how many posts before someone asks for pic?

 

[hoihtah]

damm... i was too slow.

 

[Descartes]

"Oh I saw you driving on the street to school, I was right in front of you, you drive a truck right? ...etc"

Uhh, she wouldn't say that unless she wanted a piece. It wouldn't be right of you to deny her, so... go forth...

 

[Beau]

Start charging her a Booty-for-Brains fee

 

[LordMaul]

Ditch the Bitch.

 

[snow patrol]

pics?



It sounds like she could be using you just to get ahead in the class, but you never know. The not saying bye thing is a bit odd. If she asked you to help her study after hours, I think you should go for it just so you can suss her out a little better if nothing else.

Learn a few spanish phrases or something

 

[toant103]

hhahaha, yeah.

PIC

 

[SOSTrooper]

K well I dont have a pic, probably never will, lets just say she's not as hot as Christina Aguilera (for those who think she's hot that is) or Jennifer Lopez (like wise), but good nonetheless.

Have any of you help ppl pass classes and get nothing in return? I mean I'd help ppl and I wouldnt expect anything in return, but I dont like the idea of ppl using me just cuz I can get them to pass the class. But if she's a good looking one, should I make an exception?

 

[Scipionix]

Originally posted by: SOSTrooper
I'm taking a summer class (astronomy) and there is this really hot hispanic girl sitting next to me. Now she is wayyy out of my league (tho im not half bad looking ) but she LOVES to start conversations with me. Such as the other day she said "Oh I saw you driving on the street to school, I was right in front of you, you drive a truck right? ...etc" Then today we're suppose to turn in an extra credit report and she did not do hers, but luckily (and stupidly) I got another copy just in case... Now she needed this so I offered her so she'll have an easier time passing the class. But then, she doesnt say 'bye' to me, she just walks away. I know she's just using me to pass the class, but is it right to help her even tho she's 'too good' for me? I'm pretty sure she has a bf cuz c'mon, she's hot. Should I continue to help her? Final is Wednesday, if she asks me to help her study, should I?

Uhh, you shouldn't help her cheat no matter what. Oh, and if you have to ask, you're being used. You are far too horny.

 

[SOSTrooper]

Uhh, you shouldn't help her cheat no matter what. Oh, and if you have to ask, you're being used. You are far too horny.

I mean, I'm in no way horny, but I'm sure most of you would think about going out with a good looking girl that sits next to you. Its just the way we guys think, doesnt mean that we're all horny outside (even tho we are inside). And I'm just helping her study and help her write a better note card (we can use note cards for the test).

 

[isasir]

Maybe I misread, but based on the details you provided, where exactly are you being used by her?

What I read in your paragraph was

a) She's hot.
b) She's friendly.
c) She didn't do an extra credit report, so you volunteered yours to her.

I didn't read anything about her asking to have yours, or her asking for homework help, or anything that'd let me believe that she'd ask you to help her pass the class, or how you're so smart etc.

I think you're just convincing yourself you have no chance with her, tho' I don't think she's hinted either that she's interested in anything beyond conversation. It just seems like you're blowing this way out of proportion.

 

[oblizue]

Just use some common sense. Would you help her if she was fugly? Yes? Then go ahead and help, but just keep it at that. Don't place the girl on a pedastal. And just because a girl is a 9.9 (no such thing as a 10) doesn't mean you can't get her. Start thinking positively about your abilities and know that you can bag a hot chick.

 

[MainFramed]

pics????? i would say move forward with her

 

[iamme]

Just ask her to meet you and study outside of class. Even if you have no chance, you brush up, by teaching someone else the material (always helps me remember) and be seen with a hot chick

Why pass up a chance?

 

[SOSTrooper]

Ok now I'm not a very good storyteller, I cant seem to concentrate at one point throughout a paragraph. But yes she asked if she can have my extra credit, she said that she needed help for her last test (tho I did not offer to help cuz I was already convinced that she's using me), and the fact that she automatically joins me for a group (even tho she can turn the other way for another group) led me to think of different things that I cant seem to put to words right now. Now my actual question is, Is it worth it to help someone like I described. I can get A LOT of studying done if I do it by myself, but if she asks for help, is it worth it? I know I will get absolutely nothing in return, but what would you do? Now I know I sound very desperate cuz this isnt even an important subject, much rather than a preference of decision making toward a girl that I may seem to be 'bragging' to some of you, but I just need a straight answer of 'what would you do?' TIA and Sorry for those who are offended.

 

[SWirth86]

Originally posted by: LordMaul
Ditch the Bitch.

Screw her(not literally, figuratively). Do you like being used? Do you have low self-esteem? Tell her to study at like the student center at a certain time, and then just dont show up. The day of the final, when she asks where you were, just say that you had to (insert meaningless chore to lower her self esteem here). Of course, if she really wanted to get in your pants, youre screwed now

 

[ZeroBurn]

grow yourself a pair.

"hey, do you want to catch a movie or coffee sometime?"

if she says she's too busy or doesn't like coffee, she don't like you. dump her and move on, don't forget to show her your A on the next exam.

if she does like you, she'll say yes even if she doesn't like coffee or movies. and believe me, she'll make the time. see where it goes from there, summer's only a couple weeks, you'll find out if she likes you after then. and hell, if she doesn't now maybe after a couple times out she'll grow to love your charming personality.

stop obsessing over this and just ask her, no woman in your life will ever just walk up to you and declare their love for you out of nowhere, this is about as close as it gets.

 

[J3anyus]

Originally posted by: RishiS
Maybe I misread, but based on the details you provided, where exactly are you being used by her?

What I read in your paragraph was

a) She's hot.
b) She's friendly.
c) She didn't do an extra credit report, so you volunteered yours to her.

I didn't read anything about her asking to have yours, or her asking for homework help, or anything that'd let me believe that she'd ask you to help her pass the class, or how you're so smart etc.

I think you're just convincing yourself you have no chance with her, tho' I don't think she's hinted either that she's interested in anything beyond conversation. It just seems like you're blowing this way out of proportion.

That sounds about right to me.

 

[fr]

If you really think she's trying to use you, then avoid her.

 

[rbhawcroft]

be nice to her, and normal, and see if anything comes of it, unless her personality is unsuitable for that in which case just dont help her out and then see what happens

 

[Therapist928]

Pics?! Man you guys shouldn't blame him for being horny because it's pretty obvious you're just a pack of horny bastards too.
What's he gonna do? Pull out a digital camera in the middle of class and take a picture of her, just for you guys?
Geesh

 

[BigJohnKC]

I just came here to say...


PICS?

 

[Hoeboy]

bah. you're already screwing yourself over by playing this mind game. stop thinking "what if" because ultimately it won't be the fact that she's using you and screwing you over, it's gonna be you messing with your own head trying to figure her out. lay it all out on the table and ask her out. that'll give you a straight answer on whether or not she's using you. or if you don't have the balls to do it, then don't "wonder" so much. you can be a nice guy and help her out but make her go out of HER way to study with you. and if you study with her, don't think she's using you (even though she might be) or the fact that she's hot. do it because you're a nice guy.

you barely know this girl and you're stressing yourself already. although chicks are good, worry about "me" first.