Now this is coming from me, an OFFICIAL COLLEGE COUNSELOR!
I have read all the comments and I have come up with the following points...
1) blanconino, you are not telling the full story. I have seen many students like you come in with this problem. Your transcripts Are Not due to one semester. The transcripts I see are usually decorated with some "D?s" and "F?s? but also with "W?s" "I?s" and "IP?s". So people who are reading this forum, please give me some credit for what I'm talking about and look more closely to this argument. I don't know if blanco will try to lie just to win this argument but you cannot go on academic probation just for one semester. The computer will deny you if there is more to it than that. And yes, the kind of people who walk in my office are partiers with their cap tipped backwards, goatee, & saggy pants. I?m glad that he at least admitted that.
2) there are a few quite talented scholars like acemcmac and mugs that can carry a life like that and still maintain good grades. But they are the lucky few. The majority of the people cannot do that. 9-12 units without working is what the average student can handle. These are stats. Why do you think we developed a computerized "registration hold" for all campuses? Because we are trying to prevent you from f---king up your transcript to the point that other schools don't even want to talk to you. Once you get any of the above letters in your transcripts, they are there to stay & other schools will look at them!
3) forget about what you're counselor told you about the homework hours. Here is another statistical fact for the average person...
a) if they are working 40 hours a week, then 1 class (three units) should be taken for that semester.
b) if 30 hours working, then 1-2 classes (three - six units).
c) if 20 hours working, then 2- 3 classes ( six - nine units).
d) if 8-10 hours working, then 3-4 classes (9-12 units).
4) if I was that counselor I would have done the same for that semester. If you would do well, I would allow you to take one more class the following semester. The goal is to find what your limit load is because we fully understand that everybody is different. In your case, the counselor wants you to do TWO semester's. Just by that I see red flags with your story.
5) blanconino, I can understand your frustration, but she is in the right. You must be in your early twenties and you are new to the college game. Like all guys in their twenties, you want to finish college fast, get the job, and make the bling-bling. Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way.... that's fantasyland stuff! The reality is that it takes many years to complete an education. It took me 11 years to complete my master's degree, then another year to find a job. That's what the majority of people have to go through.
Stop being in such a rush and play the game smart. Especially that you are planning to transfer to a four-year college you need the Best grades as possible. You Need to meet more than the minimum requirement for a good school to accept you.
Even if it takes you until the age of 40, remember that you still have 25-30+ years to work. People are living longer and therefore working at least to their late sixties to early seventies. Another statistical fact and I am witnessing that myself at my own job.
If your parents are giving you beef to get out of school fast so that you can move out, you tell them what I said. And remember? PATIENTS IS THE KEY!
Nuff said, God has spoken!