Dating a younger guy.

[ndee]

Originally posted by: Xiety

Originally posted by: ndee
when I was 19, I had a kinda-girlfriend who was 24.... it totally rocked in every aspect if you know what I mean

oh yeah sweeden has beautiful women

and ndee, PICS or BAN! for you!

that's SWITZERLAND

Well, I have a BAN then too hot for ATOT

 

[WobbleWobble]

I once dated a 24 y/o girl when I was 19... that was fun.

I like older women, they know how to run relationships. I just sit back and enjoy the ride

 

[GTaudiophile]

I briefly went out with a girl whom I met through AIM. I was 19, and she was 23 and living near Nürnberg.

Here are a few PICS I took when I visited her in December 2000 (some of the best days of my life):

Candy at her computer.
Candy with her cat.
A street entrance to the famous Christkindlesmarkt.
Me drinking Gluhwein.

(Taken with my old Canon PowerShot S10.)

 

[isaacmacdonald]

I'll never understand girls liking the youngin's but I can't complain. When I was a freshman in college my first gf was a senior. Her current boyfriend is a second year college student and she's got to be around 25. Now that I'm the age she was when we were dating, I look back and wonder. At this age, I can hardly imagine being able to sustain an intimate conversation let alone a relationship with a college freshman.

but hey, if young, non threatening guys do it for ya, more power to you.

 

[cheapgoose]

Originally posted by: Dezign
My attraction to young-looking males is going to get me into trouble one of these days. *sigh*

...

Hi !

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: DrPizza
19-23? nothing wrong with that.... go for it, if the two of you get along well together.

I agree. People put way too much emphasis on age at the younger levels.

My girlfriend is 18, I'm 22.. It's not really even a big deal, doesen't even matter.

 

[huesmann]

When your age difference starts getting up in the double digits you can start to worry. Until then just sit back and enjoy.

 

[Ciber]

Is "cuddling" your *secret* word for wild monkey sex?

 

[lowtech1]

A good friend of mine dated a guy that was 17 when she was 21. They are now maried & have a kid. As for me, I'm 35 & currently dating a 25 year old Asian nurse

 

[IEatChildren]

I know the secret about chicks liking younger guys... But I'll get killed if I tell anyone

God damn cougars give out way too much information sometimes

 

[MAME]

me = 20
gf = 24

now
me = 21
gf = 25

 

[eofeapr]

I liked older gals since I was teenager, or was it before even that ??? hmmm ,,,

AHH ,,, you guys are not that far apart in age and if it's working out then just go for yours !!!

 

[BoberFett]

Uh oh, competing AWs.

http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview.cfm?catid=38&threadid=1179924

 

[JBT]

Its totaly chill its barrely any time at all. older chicks rule!!! see how it works out I bet it'll be good.

 

[gUEv]

Im 18 and just got out of a long term relationship with a girl who was 23. We lived togeether, loved eachother, but I recently packed up my stuff to move to Hollywood (I am not a star eyed actor, btw). Anyways it was fine, as long as you get along and can relate to eachother, age shouldnt matter. Granted, it was interesting being with a 21 yo girl when i was 16, but i guess i was just lucky

edit: also i guess the main advice is to try and stay away from 21+ venues and events (obviously). I am kinda hyper sensitive maybe, but it makes me (maybe him too) feel like a little kid when you cant get in somewhere. This should be pretty easy unless you absolutley have to drink alcohol in certain public places.

 

[jonmullen]

I personlly like older girls...more mature.

 

[simms]

Originally posted by: jonmullen
I personlly like older girls...more mature.

My girl is 19, I'm 18...

 

[Martin]

Cougar!

 

[Locke]

I'm 23, my girlfriend is 18 :beer:

 

[SarcasticDwarf]

uh-oh, <---runs from Dezign

 

[alkemyst]

hmmm 1) going from club to Brother Bear is a little wierd for a date change, but I like cartoons so it may have been something I would do too...however a 19yo guy just cuddling is extremely wierd...

I wouldn't worry about any 19 yo guy wierded out by a 23 yo. The stigma is usually reserved for women past 30....almost anyone would hit a under 30 yo even half good looking.

I think the age thing is more of a 'mileage' thing though, an older woman = more partners usually and most guys think all women should be virginal until they start dating them.

I have dated late thirties when I was early 20's and 18-19 when I was 30...plus a ton of combinations in between except for someone my own age. My wife is 10 years older and I have no problem with it....kids may not happen because of that, but who knows. Everyone thinks she is 'too young' for me

 

[kalster]

Originally posted by: MAME
me = 20
gf = 24

now
me = 21
gf = 25

did u calculate that all by yourself?

 

[BD231]

It's not all that crazy to come accross a young guy "wise beyond his years". Ask yourself just how much his appearance is really blinding you, if he's cool to be around what's the problem?

Only time will tell though, and it would only be fair of you to give him a shot as your not that much older than he is.

 

[Aharami]

im gonna call the cops on yo ass

 

[imported_Tomato]

GAH.

I just dropped him off at his dorm (will be picking him up again at 10:30pm after his show), and am still not sure how to feel about the conversation we just had...

"So, my birthday's coming up in a month... I'll be 19 on December 7th..."

"...19?"

"19."

"I thought you were already 19?"

"I meant I'll be 19 this year..."

I'm dating an 18-year-old.



But... he's smart, he's kind, he makes me laugh, and he's freakin' adorable, so... we'll see how it goes... (ugh... stupid slow Internet... I'll try this again from work tom)...