You'll probably find good answers for this on the cdfreaks.com forums. And the review sites like cdrinfo or cdrlabs may be useful. I like Asus ROM drives but I don't even know if they are selling them any more or if they have all the features you need.
I just checked CDRInfo and it looks like the Asus 616A or 616A2 could be just what you need.
.bh.