Empathy quotient

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lxskllr

No Lifer
Nov 30, 2004
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Many people underestimate how unpredictable, uncaring and even dangerous some animals can be. They prefer animals because pets can be dominated, domesticated, don't talk back and are dependent on you for survival, so you have more of a sense of control over them. You don't have any obligation to be empathetic to them.

:Shrugs: I've stopped the car to remove snakes from the road, and one time a snapping turtle that didn't like me one one bit, and would have loved to take a piece of me home for dinner. Pretty much the only animal I don't like is dogs, but I won't go out of my way to cause them harm.
 

Nograts

Platinum Member
Dec 1, 2014
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:Shrugs: I've stopped the car to remove snakes from the road, and one time a snapping turtle that didn't like me one one bit, and would have loved to take a piece of me home for dinner. Pretty much the only animal I don't like is dogs, but I won't go out of my way to cause them harm.

The difference between me and you is not only would I squash whatever was unlucky enough to be on the road at the time, I'd probably laugh at the guy flying over my windshield who was trying to remove said critter :awe:
 

MongGrel

Lifer
Dec 3, 2013
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I imagine mine is pretty high actually, I have gone out of my way to help critters a lot.
 

lxskllr

No Lifer
Nov 30, 2004
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The difference between me and you is not only would I squash whatever was unlucky enough to be on the road at the time, I'd probably laugh at the guy flying over my windshield who was trying to remove said critter :awe:

Probably through your windshield. One other thing I didn't mention is my desire to die with my hands around someone's neck. You would do quite nicely ;^)
 

AMCRambler

Diamond Member
Jan 23, 2001
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I think the real answer is I just dislike humans. One of the only questions I immediately felt strongly about was "I prefer animals to people". A majority of the rest fall under 'shit I don't care about'.

Maybe I'm the eternal optimist here but I think you just haven't met the right people yet. In my life I've found that the way my peers acted in high school and grade school made me want to feel that way about people. Once people mature though that clique behavior seems to disappear. I was always an open friendly guy in school but never one for keeping up with what the latest clothes should be or ever worried about trying to act grown up before I was. As a result I was not cool, didn't go to parties, experiment with drugs, etc. I enjoyed being a kid and doing kid stuff. Playing video games, sports with my friends, etc.

Now I find that being that open friendly guy is actually what people want to be around. They don't care if my hair is too long or my clothes are not trendy, they like that they can talk to me and I listen to what they say and understand their point of view.

There are still people out there that never outgrew that adolescent you don't fit in behavior but I find the vast majority of people don't act that way. And the other thing I've found is sometimes it's these strange unconventional people that you might think you should avoid are the most interesting people you'll ever meet or talk to. The best thing you can do is stop worrying about projecting confidence and what others think of you. Get out of your own head and you'll find people are generally more accepting than you think.
 

nickbits

Diamond Member
Mar 10, 2008
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These low scores are a bit disturbing. I'm wondering about how you guys are answering these questions. For instance "does it bother you to see an animal in pain?" That should be strongly agree. If not I think you might be a psychopath. "As a child would you ever cut up worms to see what would happen?" Strongly disagree guys. I used worms for fishing and I'd cut them in half to make the bait last longer. Never to see the worm suffer. Seriously wtf are you guys answering?

Animals in pain- slightly agree. It bothers me but not that much unless it was my fault then it would.
Worms- Never did that so strongly disagree.
But the one I really can't relate to was " I get upset if I see people suffering on news programs." I've talked to so many people that get worked up over stuff they read/hear. It doesn't phase me one bit.
 

jagec

Lifer
Apr 30, 2004
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11, LOL.

I didn't even think that my answers were that insensitive. I'm just blunt.

I doubt that anyone would characterize me as an aspie, though.
 

n7

Elite Member
Jan 4, 2004
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35/80, though there are a lot of question i found tough to accurately answer.
 

Zodiark1593

Platinum Member
Oct 21, 2012
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It's as if most people have native hardware support for that stuff, while a few of us have to run it all in a software emulation mode that we also have to write ourselves.

Goddamn binning. Perhaps being able to emulate that stuff is a good indicator of intellect.

Also, I scored 12. Makes sense. I prefer keeping a small group of friends that I understand reasonably well so as to better imitate proper empathy, and the women I ask out are always friends first for the same reason (though by the time I understand a woman well enough to approximate her responses, It's usually too late).

Now, when the boston bombing was shown on the news, my parents were nearly up in arms. I merely stated my surprise the death toll was so low, and got some rather strange looks in return. Meh, oh well. Haters gonna hate.
 
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disappoint

Lifer
Dec 7, 2009
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I have to shake my head at people who think this test is about being empathetic to animals by not running them over with motor vehicles. It's about being empathetic to human beings. Understanding people, even when you don't see eye to eye, and being respectful of people's differences of opinion can go a long way...but in my opinion there should be caveats*.

To be fair, sometimes I am more able to be empathetic than I actually practice being. This test does not take that into account.

*One caveat would be what about a situation where being empathetic would not be the best option for helping another person out? If someone has a self destructive habit should you encourage them? Of course not. But your method of dissuasion may seem on the surface unempathetic when it's actually the opposite.
 

HamburgerBoy

Lifer
Apr 12, 2004
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17. I've had basically no friends since elementary school and have never been able to communicate effectively outside of my family. If my parents weren't hardcore psychiatry-is-evil conspiracy theorist types I'd probably be a diagnosed aspie.

These low scores are a bit disturbing. I'm wondering about how you guys are answering these questions. For instance "does it bother you to see an animal in pain?" That should be strongly agree. If not I think you might be a psychopath. "As a child would you ever cut up worms to see what would happen?" Strongly disagree guys. I used worms for fishing and I'd cut them in half to make the bait last longer. Never to see the worm suffer. Seriously wtf are you guys answering?

I answered slightly agree to animal suffering. It makes me a little sad but I'm not going to cry over it or be traumatized, unless it's something particularly awful. I never cut up worms but I used to salt them along with snails, pull the legs off of spiders, etc so I answered slightly agree to get the point across. I think most of my low score has to do with hating social situations and not knowing how to talk well verbally.
 

Nograts

Platinum Member
Dec 1, 2014
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You're taking a stroll through the woods one day at your secluded log cabin. On your walk you hear the faint whimpering sounds of what sounds like a small dog coming from a nearby bush. You remove a large branch covering the sounds and discover a young boy who appears to be about 10 years old. He has clearly fallen from a high branch and has been there for several hours. He is shaking violently, in shock and with minor hypothermia. He has broken both legs and has arterial bleeding in one, staved off by the weight of the branch. Clear fluid is leaking from his ears indicating his brain has swollen and he is in an out of consciousness. Blood is mixed with tears around his mouth indicating intestinal bleeding. You know it will take over two hours for emergency personnel to arrive at your location, and the boys odds of survival are slim. You carry a revolver in your pocket.

What do you do?
 

Jeff7

Lifer
Jan 4, 2001
41,596
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- I prefer animals to humans. - depends. Am I looking for assistance with a circuit problem, or just something to quietly keep company in the same room?

- I really enjoy caring for other people. - for a time. I prefer to do it when the goal is getting someone back to a state of self-sufficiency.

- I am at my best first thing in the morning. - If stabbing people in the face is the goal, yes, I could be at my best in that case.

- I like to do things on the spur of the moment. - Only for inconsequential things, like driving 10 minutes to get something at Tim Hortons.

- I often start new hobbies, but quickly become bored with them and move on to something else. - I do get bored quickly of something new, but as a result, I don't start many new things because I'll be "done" with it quickly. Answer to this is...?

- Other people often say that I am insensitive, though I don’t always see why. - What if I do see why? Like a blind bull in a china shop: It knows it's screwing up constantly, but it can't get out, and it lacks the ability to improve its situation substantially.

26/80?




..Once people mature though that clique behavior seems to disappear.
...
What I've seen is that a lot of behaviors in high school and college persist into the real world. The stakes just get higher.
 
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HamburgerBoy

Lifer
Apr 12, 2004
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You're taking a stroll through the woods one day at your secluded log cabin. On your walk you hear the faint whimpering sounds of what sounds like a small dog coming from a nearby bush. You remove a large branch covering the sounds and discover a young boy who appears to be about 10 years old. He has clearly fallen from a high branch and has been there for several hours. He is shaking violently, in shock and with minor hypothermia. He has broken both legs and has arterial bleeding in one, staved off by the weight of the branch. Clear fluid is leaking from his ears indicating his brain has swollen and he is in an out of consciousness. Blood is mixed with tears around his mouth indicating intestinal bleeding. You know it will take over two hours for emergency personnel to arrive at your location, and the boys odds of survival are slim. You carry a revolver in your pocket.

What do you do?

If he has already been suffering for a long time and is barely conscious, it would be a total waste to put him out of his misery at that point.
 

Jeff7

Lifer
Jan 4, 2001
41,596
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Goddamn binning. Perhaps being able to emulate that stuff is a good indicator of intellect.
It also takes its toll. So many tiny unwritten rules to try to figure out on the fly and passably emulate. It's often easier to stay quiet and out of the way.


Now, when the boston bombing was shown on the news, my parents were nearly up in arms. I merely stated my surprise the death toll was so low, and got some rather strange looks in return. Meh, oh well. Haters gonna hate.
Looking at human history, people have constantly been horrible to each other, such that this is the most peaceful era in modern history. That means each incident's impact seems more severe.
We've just developed more efficient tools for destruction, as well as the means of distributing the necessary information and materials.
 

88keys

Golden Member
Aug 24, 2012
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27.....

And I was feeling like I might have unintentionally biased the test in the other direction with my answers.

But then again I guess I shouldn't be surprised.

The older I get; the less patience I seem to have with some people.... particularly the dumb ones.
 
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