Fat chicks

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
All my life it's been my curse to be with men who, though they might love me for my personality, prefered women who were my direct opposite in height,weight,hair/eye coloring.What I weighed never mattered because no matter what I did you couldn't change a 5ft 9 inch tall pale skinned irish girl into a 5ft tall 100 pound brown eyed brunette with a 34 DD bra size.

Would they tell you that? Or do you just think that's what they preferred?

oh most men aren't shy about telling you what they'd prefer. It's usually done under the guise of wanting to be totally "honest"

Also,once you sleep with a guy steadily,you automatically lose many attractiveness points.

One of my exes told me he usually goes for brunettes instead of blondes, but that's the most "honesty" ive ever gotten about preferring something other than me. Wow, that sounds bitchy. And I don't think you become less attractive once you sleep with a guy, especially if he really cares about you.

The woman you haven't boned is always hotter,more exotic and much,much more exciting to think about than the woman you already have.

Once you can have somebody pretty much anytime you want,they lose points big time.

Well that's the thing. If you hook up with some random guy then he'll lose the "thrill of the chase" and wanna move on to the next girl. But if a guy really cares about you then he won't be thinking about every other girl he hasn't done and he won't find you any less attractive. If anything he should find you more attractive, because he knows what you can do and what you're like in bed, and that thought alone should turn him on

People think about/fantasy about the things/people they cannot have and sometimes those things/people look much more attractive than the things/people they do.Sometimes,they actually think about those other people while they're having sex with you because as good as you are, the allure of the unknown is exciting,it's just human nature.

Of course,acting on those impulses is a whole another story,if somebody truly loves you they will find non-cheating ways to get their need for excitment met.

Sure, everyone fantasizes about what's out there. But it sounds to me like you're saying it's inevitable that, once you sleep with someone, they are going to want those fantasies and those "unknowns" more than they want you, and that seems to be a problem. A need for excitement could be to use handcuffs one night or do it in a restaurant bathroom or something, not wanting every other person thats out there just because he's had you and not them.

What kind of car do you drive ?

Ever see a really hot sports or luxury car that really turned you on, that made you sigh with longing as you climbed back into your trusty honda civic ?

That longing for that sports car doesn't mean you don't value your civic or that you're going to trade it in... but it is something to fantaze about as you drive your trusty beater.

Having dreams and fantasies makes life fuller and it's just a fact that though you might value the things you have once you have them,the newness and excitement will wear off,it's inevitable.With people though hopefully that initial excitement can be replaced with a solid,stable affectionate love.

 

[MAME]

5'5" 135 was the heaviest

but she was a 34 d

 

[Proletariat]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
All my life it's been my curse to be with men who, though they might love me for my personality, prefered women who were my direct opposite in height,weight,hair/eye coloring.What I weighed never mattered because no matter what I did you couldn't change a 5ft 9 inch tall pale skinned irish girl into a 5ft tall 100 pound brown eyed brunette with a 34 DD bra size.

Would they tell you that? Or do you just think that's what they preferred?

oh most men aren't shy about telling you what they'd prefer. It's usually done under the guise of wanting to be totally "honest"

Also,once you sleep with a guy steadily,you automatically lose many attractiveness points.

One of my exes told me he usually goes for brunettes instead of blondes, but that's the most "honesty" ive ever gotten about preferring something other than me. Wow, that sounds bitchy. And I don't think you become less attractive once you sleep with a guy, especially if he really cares about you.

The woman you haven't boned is always hotter,more exotic and much,much more exciting to think about than the woman you already have.

Once you can have somebody pretty much anytime you want,they lose points big time.

Well that's the thing. If you hook up with some random guy then he'll lose the "thrill of the chase" and wanna move on to the next girl. But if a guy really cares about you then he won't be thinking about every other girl he hasn't done and he won't find you any less attractive. If anything he should find you more attractive, because he knows what you can do and what you're like in bed, and that thought alone should turn him on

People think about/fantasy about the things/people they cannot have and sometimes those things/people look much more attractive than the things/people they do.Sometimes,they actually think about those other people while they're having sex with you because as good as you are, the allure of the unknown is exciting,it's just human nature.

Of course,acting on those impulses is a whole another story,if somebody truly loves you they will find non-cheating ways to get their need for excitment met.

Sure, everyone fantasizes about what's out there. But it sounds to me like you're saying it's inevitable that, once you sleep with someone, they are going to want those fantasies and those "unknowns" more than they want you, and that seems to be a problem. A need for excitement could be to use handcuffs one night or do it in a restaurant bathroom or something, not wanting every other person thats out there just because he's had you and not them.

What kind of car do you drive ?

Ever see a really hot sports or luxury car that really turned you on, that made you sigh with longing as you climbed back into your trusty honda civic ?

That longing for that sports car doesn't mean you don't value your civic or that you're going to trade it in... but it is something to fantaze about as you drive your trusty beater.

A wise person speaks. Listen to her folks she's got some intelligence.

 

[Landroval]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Doboji

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: JDub02
as long as she looks good, i don't care what the scale says.

my g/f is 5'6" 120 .. she's thin without being anorexic looking ... now if she were only a little taller (i'm 6'3" .. 5'8"-5'10" is my ideal)

Hey, I'm 5'2 and I dated a guy who was 6'7. Awwkkwaaard...

I'm 6'5" my current GF is 5'1"

I love it

-Max

I always think it's so cute when the height difference is crazy like that, but I couldn't deal with it. My neck actually started to hurt from looking up so much hahah. Of course tall men usually have big...nevermind.

Small, bent penises?

 

[shilala]

They ain't fat until they lift their arm and there's no armpit.

 

[ILoveLamp]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
What kind of car do you drive ?

Ever see a really hot sports or luxury car that really turned you on, that made you sigh with longing as you climbed back into your trusty honda civic ?

That longing for that sports car doesn't mean you don't value your civic or that you're going to trade it in... but it is something to fantaze about as you drive your trusty beater.

Having dreams and fantasies makes life fuller and it's just a fact that though you might value the things you have once you have them,the newness and excitement will wear off,it's inevitable.With people though hopefully that initial excitement can be replaced with a solid,stable affectionate love.

Well maybe you're the trusty honda civic and I'm the hot sports car. HA. Just kidding. I don't think you can compare a sexual relationship to wanting a better car. I'm not saying that initial excitement should always be there, I'm just disagreeing with the fact that a woman loses "attractiveness points" or however you put it just because she slept with the guy. Has your man actually TOLD you that you're not as attractive to him anymore as you once were because he can fvck you whenever he wants?? If so, dump him now.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
What kind of car do you drive ?

Ever see a really hot sports or luxury car that really turned you on, that made you sigh with longing as you climbed back into your trusty honda civic ?

That longing for that sports car doesn't mean you don't value your civic or that you're going to trade it in... but it is something to fantaze about as you drive your trusty beater.

Having dreams and fantasies makes life fuller and it's just a fact that though you might value the things you have once you have them,the newness and excitement will wear off,it's inevitable.With people though hopefully that initial excitement can be replaced with a solid,stable affectionate love.

Well maybe you're the trusty honda civic and I'm the hot sports car. HA. Just kidding. I don't think you can compare a sexual relationship to wanting a better car. I'm not saying that initial excitement should always be there, I'm just disagreeing with the fact that a woman loses "attractiveness points" or however you put it just because she slept with the guy. Has your man actually TOLD you that you're not as attractive to him anymore as you once were because he can fvck you whenever he wants?? If so, dump him now.

Obviously the text based medium we're communicating in here isn't working because you aren't hearing my posts in the way I intend.

It is HUMAN NATURE to find the unknown and different much more exciting and attractive than the known and familar.It doesn't mean that you don't love your current partner or that you're going to act out on those impulses, a wise person understands that no matter how excitying that new person looks, that in time they're going to be just as familar to you as your current partner.... and that unless you're really lucky they most likely won't have the other qualties that you love about your current SO.

 

[Proletariat]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
What kind of car do you drive ?

Ever see a really hot sports or luxury car that really turned you on, that made you sigh with longing as you climbed back into your trusty honda civic ?

That longing for that sports car doesn't mean you don't value your civic or that you're going to trade it in... but it is something to fantaze about as you drive your trusty beater.

Having dreams and fantasies makes life fuller and it's just a fact that though you might value the things you have once you have them,the newness and excitement will wear off,it's inevitable.With people though hopefully that initial excitement can be replaced with a solid,stable affectionate love.

Well maybe you're the trusty honda civic and I'm the hot sports car. HA. Just kidding. I don't think you can compare a sexual relationship to wanting a better car. I'm not saying that initial excitement should always be there, I'm just disagreeing with the fact that a woman loses "attractiveness points" or however you put it just because she slept with the guy. Has your man actually TOLD you that you're not as attractive to him anymore as you once were because he can fvck you whenever he wants?? If so, dump him now.

Dude, new things lose their luster after a while. If you haven't understood that yet, you will in the future.

 

[ILoveLamp]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
What kind of car do you drive ?

Ever see a really hot sports or luxury car that really turned you on, that made you sigh with longing as you climbed back into your trusty honda civic ?

That longing for that sports car doesn't mean you don't value your civic or that you're going to trade it in... but it is something to fantaze about as you drive your trusty beater.

Having dreams and fantasies makes life fuller and it's just a fact that though you might value the things you have once you have them,the newness and excitement will wear off,it's inevitable.With people though hopefully that initial excitement can be replaced with a solid,stable affectionate love.

Well maybe you're the trusty honda civic and I'm the hot sports car. HA. Just kidding. I don't think you can compare a sexual relationship to wanting a better car. I'm not saying that initial excitement should always be there, I'm just disagreeing with the fact that a woman loses "attractiveness points" or however you put it just because she slept with the guy. Has your man actually TOLD you that you're not as attractive to him anymore as you once were because he can fvck you whenever he wants?? If so, dump him now.

Obviously the text based medium we're communicating in here isn't working because you aren't hearing my posts in the way I intend.

It is HUMAN NATURE to find the unknown and different much more exciting and attractive than the known and familar.It doesn't mean that you don't love your current partner or that you're going to act out on those impulses, a wise person understands that no matter how excitying that new person looks, that in time they're going to be just as familar to you as your current partner.... and that unless you're really lucky they most likely won't have the other qualties that you love about your current SO.

I see what you're saying, i just dont TOTALLY agree. I think it's human nature to be curious about the things you havent experienced yet or be attracted to soemthing different, I just dont agree that you always have to look outside the person you're with to see those things. And I think once you become more comfortable with someone the initial excitement starts to end, but I don't think you become less attractive, unless the person gets bored with you, in which case it wasnt meant to be in the first place.

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: Skoorb
If she's 5,8 I would not be willing to go out with her beyond 150, no matter what. If she's "shapely", then I'd initiate interest at 140.

That's general, because I have seen some attractive girls with the 5,8/150 sort of dimension, but the problem is that you VERY RARELY see a face-hot chick who's got some lbs to lose. Generally their entire body is in line with itself.

That is pretty much my opinion also.

150lbs is A LOT for a girl imo. If she was 6"5 or so that wouldn't be that much but HOW many 6"5 girls do you see about?!

But 150lbs andd not fat is possible. Shapely and fit yes but most are not like this!

Up to 100-140lbs is fine for girls from 5"2-5"9 imo. Either way I'd like a healthy girl.

Koing

 

[SacrosanctFiend]

The girl I'm dating right now is 5'4" 110lbs. I don't think I would go with anything about 5'6" 125lbs.

 

[Geekbabe]

I'm 5ft 9,the lowest I've gotten to is 122 pounds and at that weight I had almost no chest and was starting to get that too sharp,too angular look.If I were to attempt to met the weight requirements of many of you here I'd probably die of malnutrition.

 

[mwmorph]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I'm 5ft 9,the lowest I've gotten to is 122 pounds and at that weight I had almost no chest and was starting to get that too sharp,too angular look.If I were to attempt to met the weight requirements of many of you here I'd probably die of malnutrition.

well, at 5'9, 135 is pretty good. 122 is very skinny.

 

[Boze]

I've seen some girls with extra weight that were still incredibly hot hot hot hot like a five-alarm fire. However... the same said girls, when they trimmed up even more, were so smoking hot it was absolutely ridiculous. This is really one of those things that has to be judged on a case-by-case basis...

 

[crabbyman]

Maybe you smell like bologne. It happens.

You are officially my new sig! Thanks!

 

[ILoveLamp]

I'm 5'2 and have been between 110-130lbs, and in my opinion I look best at about 125, which is pretty normal, but according to all you bastards I'm a whale.

 

[crabbyman]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I've had the misfortune of ending up with several guys men who, though they might love me for my personality, prefered women who were my direct opposite in height,weight,hair/eye coloring.What I weighed never mattered because no matter what I did you couldn't change a 5ft 9 inch tall pale skinned irish girl into a 5ft tall 100 pound olive skinned,brown eyed brunette with a 34 DD bra size.

Maybe it's just human nature... that the woman you don't have looks way better than the one you've got.

I would go for you... by irish is that red haired? Pics!

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
I'm 5'2 and have been between 110-130lbs, and in my opinion I look best at about 125, which is pretty normal, but according to all you bastards I'm a whale.

keep in mind that many of those listing their "requirments" here have up till now only dated their hands and 2D images from magazines, neither of which weigh much at all.

 

[Boze]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
I'm 5'2 and have been between 110-130lbs, and in my opinion I look best at about 125, which is pretty normal, but according to all you bastards I'm a whale.

It sounds like you're in the target range of what's considered a healthy weight...

The smallest girl I ever dated (I'm 6'2", 210 lbs.) was 4'9" and weighted 80 lbs. She was an itty bitty tiny little wisp of a woman... she had A cup boobies, but she was so cute and bubbly, I couldn't keep my hands off her...

On the opposite, the biggest girl I ever dated was 6' even and about 160 lbs.; although given a choice, I would take the little ladies any day of the week... I just love a petite woman.

 

[ILoveLamp]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
I'm 5'2 and have been between 110-130lbs, and in my opinion I look best at about 125, which is pretty normal, but according to all you bastards I'm a whale.

keep in mind that many of those listing their "requirments" here have up till now only dated their hands and 2D images from magazines, neither of which weigh much at all.

Hahahaha :thumbsup:

 

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp
I'm 5'2 and have been between 110-130lbs, and in my opinion I look best at about 125, which is pretty normal, but according to all you bastards I'm a whale.

:camera:'s?

You can PM me... I'll be selfish.

 

[psydancerqt]

i feel fat after reading what guys expect a girl to weigh. i know i've gained recently and that i could lose some pounds... but when i was in the best shape and kind of a twig i was 120... that was back in my high school days... i'm 5'3"

 

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: psydancerqt
i feel fat after reading what guys expect a girl to weigh. i know i've gained recently and that i could lose some pounds... but when i was in the best shape and kind of a twig i was 120... that was back in my high school days... i'm 5'3"

:camera:'s?

You can PM me... I'll be selfish.

 

[ILoveLamp]

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: psydancerqt
i feel fat after reading what guys expect a girl to weigh. i know i've gained recently and that i could lose some pounds... but when i was in the best shape and kind of a twig i was 120... that was back in my high school days... i'm 5'3"

:camera:'s?

You can PM me... I'll be selfish.

Newbie question...what does PM mean?

 

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: ILoveLamp

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: psydancerqt
i feel fat after reading what guys expect a girl to weigh. i know i've gained recently and that i could lose some pounds... but when i was in the best shape and kind of a twig i was 120... that was back in my high school days... i'm 5'3"

:camera:'s?

You can PM me... I'll be selfish.

Newbie question...what does PM mean?

YGPM

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