first date

[daveymark]

I don't know if you should discuss politics until you really know the person. People get offended too easily. Not that you would care if you were secure about yourself, but that is a subject for another thread.

If anything, this should be considered a practice date. You really need more practice so you don't have to overanalyze the situation as much as you do. Get this under your belt, and make sure you're looking for other opportunites with other women. It's the only way you'll start to feel more comfortable with yourself, and when you're comfortable, she's comfortable. I can already tell there's going to be a few awkward moments on this date. I know it's cliche, but you need to try to be yourself. Pretend she's a guy, and talk about things that interest you.

 

[HardcoreRobot]

Dont forget, we are going to need a date by date breakdown of exactly how much money you are throwing at this girl in hopes she will have sex with you.


Oh wait, wrong OP.

Anyways, the OBVIOUS solution is to meet up for a matinee movie ~ 4 or 5ish. And plan to grab a bite after flick. Then you will be comfortable in each others presence, hungry, AND have at least one guaranteed thing you can talk about. Good luck, I wish many boobies for you.

 

[sniperruff]

Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
Dont forget, we are going to need a date by date breakdown of exactly how much money you are throwing at this girl in hopes she will have sex with you.


Oh wait, wrong OP.

Anyways, the OBVIOUS solution is to meet up for a matinee movie ~ 4 or 5ish. And plan to grab a bite after flick. Then you will be comfortable in each others presence, hungry, AND have at least one guaranteed thing you can talk about. Good luck, I wish many boobies for you.

it's almost 12 and you talk about a movie at 5???

 

[effee]

Take her on for a 1 on 1 date..IMO people along when your having a date sucks

 

[bobbybe01]

Originally posted by: effee
Take her on for a 1 on 1 date..IMO people along when your having a date sucks

Maybe on date 3 you could have other people...

 

[frankierx]

Originally posted by: daveymark
I don't know if you should discuss politics until you really know the person. People get offended too easily. Not that you would care if you were secure about yourself, but that is a subject for another thread.

If anything, this should be considered a practice date. You really need more practice so you don't have to overanalyze the situation as much as you do. Get this under your belt, and make sure you're looking for other opportunites with other women. It's the only way you'll start to feel more comfortable with yourself, and when you're comfortable, she's comfortable. I can already tell there's going to be a few awkward moments on this date. I know it's cliche, but you need to try to be yourself. Pretend she's a guy, and talk about things that interest you.

I appreciate your valuable input. I will not discuss politics yet, however I should at least call her Tuesday evening to chat with her inorder to get to know her a bit more and see if we can hold up another conversation.

Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
Dont forget, we are going to need a date by date breakdown of exactly how much money you are throwing at this girl in hopes she will have sex with you.


Oh wait, wrong OP.

Anyways, the OBVIOUS solution is to meet up for a matinee movie ~ 4 or 5ish. And plan to grab a bite after flick. Then you will be comfortable in each others presence, hungry, AND have at least one guaranteed thing you can talk about. Good luck, I wish many boobies for you.

I appreciate your ideas also. I get out at work 3ish Sunday, so that leaves me some time to catch a movie before 6pm with her, although like a previous poster mentioned I should be myself and at least ask what she wants to do as in if she is hungry and wants to get something to eat before the movie.

Originally posted by: sniperruff

Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
Dont forget, we are going to need a date by date breakdown of exactly how much money you are throwing at this girl in hopes she will have sex with you.


Oh wait, wrong OP.

Anyways, the OBVIOUS solution is to meet up for a matinee movie ~ 4 or 5ish. And plan to grab a bite after flick. Then you will be comfortable in each others presence, hungry, AND have at least one guaranteed thing you can talk about. Good luck, I wish many boobies for you.

it's almost 12 and you talk about a movie at 5???

Actually She and I already talked on the phone for the first time and agreed to go out next Sunday evening instead.

 

[Koing]

Enjoy your date dude

And yeah just try to be at ease. I'm sure you will do great. Ask about her family and what her parents do. That usually gets talking etc.

Koing

 

[DurocShark]

Let me just say that it's pretty awesome for the girl to tell you where she wants to take you. Most of the girls I dated were "Wherever you want to take me.." Bah!