Guys...Would this bother you?

[nietsni3]

getting marriage or getting a serious relationship, it dont matter to me because both things have the same direction.

i dont advocate the idea of breakign up. if OP breaks up on his own becasue of this reason, he is the one to blame for hastiness, not his GF for sluggishness inn the relationship.

 

[Jzero]

I'd be concerned, but you really gotta ask her how she feels. At 21 she probably doesn't want to have to feel obligated to spend all of her time with her bf, so it could just be nothing to worry about.

 

[nietsni3]

Originally posted by: Jzero
I'd be concerned, but you really gotta ask her how she feels. At 21 she probably doesn't want to have to feel obligated to spend all of her time with her bf, so it could just be nothing to worry about.

yep, taht s what i want to say. peopel dont have to spend together all of their spare time to be a couple because even after getting marriage you still want some private time to spend for your own, your friends, relatives other than with your family. peopel who require too much from their GF/BF jsut make their GF/BF feel imprisoned. and the more they feel that, the more they want to get away. but if you jsut let them free on their own, you will become generous in your BF/GF's eyes and they will like to get stick to you.

 

[dolph]

you're done. move along

 

[FiberoN]

Originally posted by: eigen
YES,she either is cheating or wants to break up. Either way try to nail her as many times as possible before the breakup goes down.

 

[TheShiz]

Originally posted by: LostHiWay

Originally posted by: KarenMarie

Originally posted by: nietsni3
i dont see any reason to. i think she is still at the age of loving to hang out, playing wiht friend, having fun (like i do, cuz i am at the same age, so i know)... but that s nothign wrong at all. i mean she is not ready to get marriage yet. maybe she just takes the relationship not too serious, but you cant blame her at all because she is still young and need more time to enjoy life before starting to think seriously about building a family. just make it straight, you are 3 years older than her, which means you have had chance to enjoy that 3 years BEFORE her. i dont care if those 3 years were full of fun or miserable to you, but if you force her to start getting serious at the same time with you while your ages are not the same, you are trying to steal away 3 years of her life. u knwo what i am saying, like you force your child to study like there is no tomorrow in order to catch up with those who were 3 years older than him.

ummm.... not sure, but I don't think the OP is looking for marriage. I think he just wants to see his g/f more than once a week and doesn't want to feel like he is being put behind everything and everyone else.

Yeah! No marriage!! I just want to see my girlfriend more than once a week like other normal people.

are you her first serious relationship? people usually don't know how to end those, I seriously sense she wants out, but doesn't know how to tell you, so she pulls this thinking you will eventually get fed up and break up with her, so she doesn't have to do it.

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: hevnsnt

Originally posted by: eigen
YES,she either is cheating or wants to break up. Either way try to nail her as many times as possible before the breakup goes down.

Excellent advice!!!!!!

Agreed. I would only add to that by saying be sure to use a condom.