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Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Metalloid15
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Probably environment working on - in a way that we can't necessarily yet pinpoint - ones genetic predisposition. Perhaps we could all be gay in the right environment, whereas others become gay in an environment that isn't quite fruity enough for the rest of us to go that way.

Eitherway learned or not it's not something that most people choose to do just for fun. They fight it and they become that way anyway. Most homosexuals don't want to do anything but be left alone with willing partners and I'm sure that society can be blamed for at least a _part_ of why some homosexuals do become deviant (though most don't).

They are not sexual deviants in the sense that a pedophile is since they do not intend to do harm to anybody and a willing partner has no harm done to them. My sense is that so-called god fear people need to leave them alone and pick a more important fight. If you're so worried about homosexuals your life must be pretty darn easy. Personally what two or 8 guys are doing together in the house down the road is the last thing on my mind at night.

Oh believe me, my fight against homosexuality is not my top priority, nor even near the top of my list of important things to do. But if I see an oppurtunity to explain why it is wrong, then I will.

Why is it wrong?
 

Metalloid

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Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Metalloid15
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Probably environment working on - in a way that we can't necessarily yet pinpoint - ones genetic predisposition. Perhaps we could all be gay in the right environment, whereas others become gay in an environment that isn't quite fruity enough for the rest of us to go that way.

Eitherway learned or not it's not something that most people choose to do just for fun. They fight it and they become that way anyway. Most homosexuals don't want to do anything but be left alone with willing partners and I'm sure that society can be blamed for at least a _part_ of why some homosexuals do become deviant (though most don't).

They are not sexual deviants in the sense that a pedophile is since they do not intend to do harm to anybody and a willing partner has no harm done to them. My sense is that so-called god fear people need to leave them alone and pick a more important fight. If you're so worried about homosexuals your life must be pretty darn easy. Personally what two or 8 guys are doing together in the house down the road is the last thing on my mind at night.

Oh believe me, my fight against homosexuality is not my top priority, nor even near the top of my list of important things to do. But if I see an oppurtunity to explain why it is wrong, then I will.

Why is it wrong?

God says so. I usually try to go by what he says, seeing as he is more powerful than me and all that stuff...
 

Metalloid

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Originally posted by: Soybomb
Originally posted by: Metalloid15
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
From everything I've seen and heard over the years (some of us have had actual contact /relationships with homosexual people) I would say that it is not a choice or decision one makes, nor is it any sort of "sin" to be following the inclinations given you by nature. What causes some to be gay? I don't know but I strongly suspect
that something goes wrong with the hormones that the fetus is exposed to in utero resulting in a change in the
person's hardwiring. I do know that nobody willingly volunteers for a live that is often filled with both internal and external torment and that most gays want the same things that the rest of us want, people who love them, decent educations and jobs,to live quality lives. I don't care what other people do in their bedrooms as long as they understand and respect my "no thanks".

And as far as the "God" thing goes, I find it amusing how in any given situation humans will reach for/invent a toool in order to bash that which they do not understand or that which threatens them. The better question for this thread might be,why exactly does the idea of other people living differently than you do threaten you so?

Not to be rude, but I most certainly didn't "invent" God (don't know why you put quotations around his name) because I am afraid of gay people. God was here long before us, and he created some rules for us. One of those rules happens to be: Homosexuality is wrong. AND IT IS!!!!!!
You didn't invent god but many believe he was invented to explain the otherwise seemingly inexplicable. People don't like not having answers. But I don't like to get too much in my beliefs I'm just curious how you would look at animals that exhibit homosexual behavior? Is satan just a busy guy who gets his evil groove on by having some gay dolphins or bi chimps going at it, or is that just unimportant and ignored since they aren't people?

There is no way that God was invented by anyone. He created us (altough I guess some people still believe in evolution). He even actually used to speak to people (wow I bet that was freaky).
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Metalloid15

God says so. I usually try to go by what he says, seeing as he is more powerful than me and all that stuff...

You have made no conclusive argument, you've simply parroted some half-truth from a book. Give me a convincing argument why homosexuality is a) wrong and b) detrimental to our society.
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Metalloid15

There is no way that God was invented by anyone. He created us (altough I guess some people still believe in evolution). He even actually used to speak to people (wow I bet that was freaky).

We create our God every waking minute of our lives. You cannot think that your image of the Diety is somehow not influenced by your culture or your upbringing?
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: achiral
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
For some reason, Christianity seems to be unable to deal effectively with sexuality in just about any form. Homosexuality is nothing more than a sexual preference, it is neither "good" nor "bad"; the fact that it is shunned in Western society is purely cultural, due in part to the Christian prohibition against it. Other cultures throughout history have dealt with the subject in a much more enlightened manner.

well gee, i don't know, God destroyed a whole city because people were practicing sodomy among other things. and since most gay men will be practicing sodomy in a sexual relationship, i'd say the bible does say something about homosexuality. there are actually plenty of references against homosexuality. i do think it's pointless to harp on this one sin however because i believe all sin is hated by God no matter how man would categorize and rank it.

A God that is willing to destroy a city based on sexual preferences and activities is not a God that I want anything to do with.
 

Metalloid

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Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Metalloid15

God says so. I usually try to go by what he says, seeing as he is more powerful than me and all that stuff...

You have made no conclusive argument, you've simply parroted some half-truth from a book. Give me a convincing argument why homosexuality is a) wrong and b) detrimental to our society.

a) I will tell you once more, it is wrong because God says it is. He created sex for a husband and wife ONLY.
b) It is detrimental to our society because it teaches people that it is ok to just do whatever you want and not obey God.
 

Metalloid

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: achiral
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
For some reason, Christianity seems to be unable to deal effectively with sexuality in just about any form. Homosexuality is nothing more than a sexual preference, it is neither "good" nor "bad"; the fact that it is shunned in Western society is purely cultural, due in part to the Christian prohibition against it. Other cultures throughout history have dealt with the subject in a much more enlightened manner.

well gee, i don't know, God destroyed a whole city because people were practicing sodomy among other things. and since most gay men will be practicing sodomy in a sexual relationship, i'd say the bible does say something about homosexuality. there are actually plenty of references against homosexuality. i do think it's pointless to harp on this one sin however because i believe all sin is hated by God no matter how man would categorize and rank it.

A God that is willing to destroy a city based on sexual preferences and activities is not a God that I want anything to do with.

Reading the story of Sodom and Gomorrah might help you to understand.

"1 The two angels arrived at Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gateway of the city. When he saw them, he got up to meet them and bowed down with his face to the ground. 2 "My lords," he said, "please turn aside to your servant's house. You can wash your feet and spend the night and then go on your way early in the morning."
"No," they answered, "we will spend the night in the square."
3 But he insisted so strongly that they did go with him and entered his house. He prepared a meal for them, baking bread without yeast, and they ate. 4 Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part of the city of Sodom-both young and old-surrounded the house. 5 They called to Lot, "Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with them."
6 Lot went outside to meet them and shut the door behind him 7 and said, "No, my friends. Don't do this wicked thing. 8 Look, I have two daughters who have never slept with a man. Let me bring them out to you, and you can do what you like with them. But don't do anything to these men, for they have come under the protection of my roof."
9 "Get out of our way," they replied. And they said, "This fellow came here as an alien, and now he wants to play the judge! We'll treat you worse than them." They kept bringing pressure on Lot and moved forward to break down the door.
10 But the men inside reached out and pulled Lot back into the house and shut the door. 11 Then they struck the men who were at the door of the house, young and old, with blindness so that they could not find the door.
12 The two men said to Lot, "Do you have anyone else here-sons-in-law, sons or daughters, or anyone else in the city who belongs to you? Get them out of here, 13 because we are going to destroy this place. The outcry to the LORD against its people is so great that he has sent us to destroy it."
14 So Lot went out and spoke to his sons-in-law, who were pledged to marry his daughters. He said, "Hurry and get out of this place, because the LORD is about to destroy the city!" But his sons-in-law thought he was joking.
15 With the coming of dawn, the angels urged Lot, saying, "Hurry! Take your wife and your two daughters who are here, or you will be swept away when the city is punished."
16 When he hesitated, the men grasped his hand and the hands of his wife and of his two daughters and led them safely out of the city, for the LORD was merciful to them. 17 As soon as they had brought them out, one of them said, "Flee for your lives! Don't look back, and don't stop anywhere in the plain! Flee to the mountains or you will be swept away!"
18 But Lot said to them, "No, my lords, please! 19 Your servant has found favor in your eyes, and you have shown great kindness to me in sparing my life. But I can't flee to the mountains; this disaster will overtake me, and I'll die. 20 Look, here is a town near enough to run to, and it is small. Let me flee to it-it is very small, isn't it? Then my life will be spared."
21 He said to him, "Very well, I will grant this request too; I will not overthrow the town you speak of. 22 But flee there quickly, because I cannot do anything until you reach it." (That is why the town was called Zoar.)
23 By the time Lot reached Zoar, the sun had risen over the land. 24 Then the LORD rained down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah-from the LORD out of the heavens. 25 Thus he overthrew those cities and the entire plain, including all those living in the cities-and also the vegetation in the land. 26 But Lot's wife looked back, and she became a pillar of salt.
27 Early the next morning Abraham got up and returned to the place where he had stood before the LORD . 28 He looked down toward Sodom and Gomorrah, toward all the land of the plain, and he saw dense smoke rising from the land, like smoke from a furnace.
29 So when God destroyed the cities of the plain, he remembered Abraham, and he brought Lot out of the catastrophe that overthrew the cities where Lot had lived.


Lot and His Daughters
30 Lot and his two daughters left Zoar and settled in the mountains, for he was afraid to stay in Zoar. He and his two daughters lived in a cave. 31 One day the older daughter said to the younger, "Our father is old, and there is no man around here to lie with us, as is the custom all over the earth. 32 Let's get our father to drink wine and then lie with him and preserve our family line through our father."
33 That night they got their father to drink wine, and the older daughter went in and lay with him. He was not aware of it when she lay down or when she got up.
34 The next day the older daughter said to the younger, "Last night I lay with my father. Let's get him to drink wine again tonight, and you go in and lie with him so we can preserve our family line through our father." 35 So they got their father to drink wine that night also, and the younger daughter went and lay with him. Again he was not aware of it when she lay down or when she got up.
36 So both of Lot's daughters became pregnant by their father. 37 The older daughter had a son, and she named him Moab; he is the father of the Moabites of today. 38 The younger daughter also had a son, and she named him Ben-Ammi; he is the father of the Ammonites of today."


God destroyed the city because these people were doing horrible things. They were raping women, men, and they even wanted to have their way with the angels!!!
 

Metalloid

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Originally posted by: LaLaLand
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: LaLaLand
WRONG

Do you have a point you were trying to make, or are you just being an ass?

I have a point.

Being a homo is wrong.

Point made.

Oh in that case I agree. I didn't quite understand what you meant the first time.
 

BDawg

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Look, I have two daughters who have never slept with a man. Let me bring them out to you, and you can do what you like with them.

Gay sex is baaaad...but giving your daughter as geisha girls is good? American GI, me love you long time!

36 So both of Lot's daughters became pregnant by their father.

I'm having trouble with the Bible's morality...
 

datalink7

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Originally posted by: Metalloid15
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Metalloid15

God says so. I usually try to go by what he says, seeing as he is more powerful than me and all that stuff...

You have made no conclusive argument, you've simply parroted some half-truth from a book. Give me a convincing argument why homosexuality is a) wrong and b) detrimental to our society.

a) I will tell you once more, it is wrong because God says it is. He created sex for a husband and wife ONLY.
b) It is detrimental to our society because it teaches people that it is ok to just do whatever you want and not obey God.

So, it's wrong because God says so, and God says so because it is wrong?

 

Woodchuck2000

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I know I'm going to regret posting in this thread, but hey...

I'm a non-christian from a very christian family. I've given up on the whole idea of christianity simply because of people like the christians in this thread (the 'homosexuality is a sin, ergo the devil tries to make it happen' brigade. There are so many people out there claiming to be christian who simply won't question their views. I always used to believe that there was a reason why god made laws and that there was some sort of logic behind them.

The point is that all the christians that have posted here have simply said; 'It's a sin, you'll go to hell for it.' No-one's questioned why it's a sin. No-one will concede that they might actually be wrong, they're completely inflexible. I can't bear to be associated with a religion that acts like that and degenerates into "My 'christianity' is better than yours" arguments.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: Metalloid15
Reading the story of Sodom and Gomorrah might help you to understand.

Ok, so I read the story, and have a couple of opinions:

6 Lot went outside to meet them and shut the door behind him 7 and said, "No, my friends. Don't do this wicked thing. 8 Look, I have two daughters who have never slept with a man. Let me bring them out to you, and you can do what you like with them. But don't do anything to these men, for they have come under the protection of my roof."

The act of men having sex with men warrants the death and destruction of an entire city, but pimping out your virgin daughters is ok?

Lot and His Daughters
30 Lot and his two daughters left Zoar and settled in the mountains, for he was afraid to stay in Zoar. He and his two daughters lived in a cave. 31 One day the older daughter said to the younger, "Our father is old, and there is no man around here to lie with us, as is the custom all over the earth. 32 Let's get our father to drink wine and then lie with him and preserve our family line through our father."
33 That night they got their father to drink wine, and the older daughter went in and lay with him. He was not aware of it when she lay down or when she got up.
34 The next day the older daughter said to the younger, "Last night I lay with my father. Let's get him to drink wine again tonight, and you go in and lie with him so we can preserve our family line through our father." 35 So they got their father to drink wine that night also, and the younger daughter went and lay with him. Again he was not aware of it when she lay down or when she got up.
36 So both of Lot's daughters became pregnant by their father. 37 The older daughter had a son, and she named him Moab; he is the father of the Moabites of today. 38 The younger daughter also had a son, and she named him Ben-Ammi; he is the father of the Ammonites of today."


God destroyed the city because these people were doing horrible things. They were raping women, men, and they even wanted to have their way with the angels!!!

Lot offered his daughters to them so that they could have sex. Not only that, but they also had sex with him later on, indicating that incest is seemingly ok with the Bible. The story doesn't, however, explain why homosexuality is bad; it merely indicates that God disapproves enough to warrant the destruction of the city. I am a rational person, and the explanation that it is wrong "because God says so" is not good enough; it's like when you were a kid and were told "no, because I'm your mother".
 

BDawg

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Originally posted by: LadyJessica
Well, it's settled: homosexuality is bad, but incest is good.

Perhaps Metalloid is too busy "offering" his daughters to respond.
 

Moonbeam

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All the Bible proves is that the same bigoted morons who are around now were around then too.
 

AUMM

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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Originally posted by: Zakath15
Originally posted by: Cuda1447

As long as they don't teach Homosexuality is ok, then yes let them be a teacher. If they can be trusted (just like if anyone can be trusted) then I trust them with my kids.

:Q

Heaven forbid they teach your kids to be tolerant!

Shall we teach our kids to be tolerant of murder as well?

Oh, man, I love you. And not in that sicko disgusting sinful Jesus hating homosexual way. The Sin of murder is nowhere near comparable to homosexuality.

You do realize it was hatred and intolerance that killed Jesus the Christ, don't you?


All sins are equal. Murder is = to Homosexuality is = to theft is = to adultery. A sin is a sin. According to the bible.

so according to christianity if i steal a candy bar or brutally murder someone its all the same?
 

linster

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Man, can't believe I read this whole thread. However, here are my views. I work in science so it is scientifically influenced.

Sexual preference is a human trait. Like all traits it is variable. Nature promotes diversity in traits. Why? Diversity increases the chance of survival in the event of a drastic environmental change. Looking at it in this light, homosexuality is just nature increasing diversity in sexual behavior. It is no different than you preferring blonds or your friend preferring brunettes. You may argue, how are homosexuals increasing the chance of species survival if they can't reproduce? Nature doesn't think that far ahead. Let's say something cataclysmic happens and somehow sexual reproduction is no longer possible in humans and opposite sex relationships are no longer selected. Well, homosexuality is already there and the homosexual couple is 1 step ahead of the heterosexual couple in this new environment. Sure, for the species to survive, other mutations must be there for homosexual reproduction. The chances of that happening are very remote so humans would probably be doomed anyway. However, with homosexuality being there, the chances of survival is like one in a million as opposed to one in a billion if homosexuality is not there. The numbers are strictly arbitrary of course; however the chance of survival is higher.

Whether it is genetic or environmental no one knows at this point. Chances are it is probably a little of both. Now the genetic part is most likely non-Darwinian like some of you were arguing about in the thread. Most likely it involves around many genes so the recessive and dominance isn't as easy to figure out. There's probably a genetic propensity that is influenced by the environment.

As to the religious aspect of the thread, I?ve always found religious arguments a waste of time and 100% of the time it ends up going nowhere. Why? Well, in a debate the two sides should start out with the same facts but this isn?t so between a religious person and a non-believer. This usually becomes very apparent when ?God says so? surfaces and this doesn?t take long. You either believe or you don?t, faith in God is just that. Nothing you say can change what the other side believes in or doesn?t believe in. It?s a waste of time in my opinion.
 
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