Good one, thebestMax!
I have been relatively prudent concerning who I am intimate with. Let's just say that I can count the number on one hand and that they were all men I felt love for. Not bad for a woman in her 30's who has been married twice, I think.
Of course, part of the reason the number has stayed low is because when I was younger, two of my best girlfriends were so active that there wasn't anyone left over for me... In fact, my friendship with one ended when she suggested she should sleep with Mr Isla because I am the only person he has ever been with and she felt he needed more experience...
I did tend to live vicariously through my wilder friends but after that I decided it was fine to just be me.... and I think sex without love is not a good thing.