I got her number! *UPDATE!*

[fragarific]

what's w00t?

 

[Nutcase99]

Call her up tonight and start a friendly chat with her, then ask her if she would like to go out to dinner or something sometime. Start off slow but thats just my opinion

WOOT!

 

[cxim]

get some chalk, go to your room, write on the wall...

I am a dufus 100 times

Then call her.

Girls /women are people just like us. Look at her like a person, not a 'date' not anything else... do you want to know her ? or do you want to use her ?

& use can be for emotional needs & not only sex... as long as you think /feel .. use her... Mother Nature will pee on your foot & it will be raining .. the rain will be your tears because you screwed up .. & you won't even know why....

 

[stonythug]

The thing that most guys learn to late and that allows jocks in high school to get chicks is that no matter what girls like confidence. Of course there is no 100% and there are always exceptions, but almost always confidence is better than insecurity. If you like her then you have to show her, you can't want her to know that you like her. You can want her to know it all day and it won't get you squat. Don't go all gung ho and ask for the friday night date if you're not ready for that pressure or you think it would be too quick. Ask her to do something on a Saturday afternoon, nothing big, just to hang out or go to a movie. That way you can talk and it's not a date like environment. Then depending on how things go you could maybe ask her out on a date or to get together and work on homework or something. Girls want to know that you're interested and asking for her number really isn't enough. You don't have to slobber on her face or anything but saying hi to her and smiling is a good start. You just have to realize that you are going to meet girls that you like. Some will like you back and some won't, but almost always the only way to find out is to hang yourself out there. If you don't risk anything, even if a girl does like you, she could take it as a sign of you not liking her "that much". Girls love it when guys embarass themselves, not because they like seeing you look foolish, but they like seeing your feelings for them overcome any shame or embarrassment you might feel. I don't know, carpe diem. my 2 cents

 

[RGN]

call her dammit.















well, don't call HER dammit. I mean call her now, or ASAP.

 

[TheOverlord]

<<If I remember though, getting dates in high school involved a lot more BS. >>
-red dawn (previous thread)
this is so true...HS is all BS i wish it would end i'm sick of it

<<YOU THINK TOO DAMN MUCH!>>
-vi_edit
i have learned this the hard way...
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Ok heres a my 2 cents:

Seriously dont think about it so much...logic and love don't mix period. The best time i ever had on a date, well the only date ive ever really asked a girl to (yes im a sad geek i admit), was completely spontaneous. It was a friday night, and i was talking to her online (again im a geek) and we she mentioned how she hated not getting out to do things all the time. So i just asked her right then if she want to go out to eat and see a movie the next day...and it was a great time. Had i thought about it the moment would have been lost and i'd never had the fun i did. So quit thinking, get off the AT forums, and call her NOW.

 

[nippyjun]

I didn't have time to read all the reaply's here but, I'd recommend you don't say &quot;hi, do you want to go on a date&quot;. Don't use the word date. Just see if she wants to go shopping or for lunch.

 

[Bluga]

OMG, you waited for half year?

 

[Fearlss1]

give me her number I will call her and tell her you want her but you are alittle shy... .. lol jk and good luck
CALL HER DAM!T!!!!!! NOW BEFORE YOU LOOSE HER!@!!@!@!@!@
L@@K You had better be calling her NOW!

 

[DannyLove]

give it 3 days

 

[Multi]

3 days is the standard time

 

[SuperGroove]

it's been 9 days. Okay...so what's the general consensus? Call her and just chat? Call her and ask for date? Too late? Here's why I never called on the third day.

In class, she likes to sit on the couch with her three friends. It's a tight squeeze, so everybody's touching each other. Of the three friends, there are two girls and one guy. The guy is a junior and is dating a senior, who happens to be in the class as well. One day his girlfriend had to miss class for a student assembly meeting. Well...I guess that was enough for him, cause the two starting going to town with the flirting. Okay...maybe I think calling it flirting is a bit excessive. Playing with each other's hair, throwing gloves at each other are things friends do...right? How about the fact that she laid her head on his shoulders for a large portion of class? Nothing?

Oh...and everytime I ask if she likes the guy(well I haven't asked her since november), she tells me, &quot;I hardly know the guy...we just met at the beginning of the year&quot;.


Can ya see why I don't call now? OH...btw...her other friend...I'm kinda confused with. One day she just starting dancing in front of me and asked, &quot;So I heard you're dropping Spanish&quot;? I told her that I was thinking about it...and then she said oh and left. She's been pretty nice to me since...I've never talked to her before, didn't know her name until roll call at the beginning of the semester. So it's maybe either the friend likes me...lauren talks about me...or I'm just thinking way too hard.

So...I didn't drop spanish. I wonder why(my friend says me staying in Spanish might be too obvious...but I've been in Spanish since 1st grade) Well when Lauren realized that I hadn't dropped Spanish, she came over to sit and talk with me. I started talking to her...asked her where she worked and spaced out. I got sucked up in those beautiful eyes. So I don't know where she works.

Umm...well we continued to talk until she saw her friend, the one who danced in front of me. She said &quot;yeay!&quot; enthusiastically and told me she would come back to talk and walked over to say hi. Then the guy and the girl who were going out came in. She's never sat by me since. To make things worse, I hate the guy and the girl she sits with. The girl who danced in front of me is okay...she's really funny and all. The guy and the girl like to make fun of me whenever they can...embarassing me in front of the class when I forget to stress an accent. I just want to punch them in the head. They don't like me much either and never have. I think that's why Lauren doesn't sit by me...doesn't want to let them know that she might actually enjoy my company. Maybe I'm a paranoid android.


Still call?

 

[kami]

Yes. And again, you are thinking too much. You really don't have much to lose so do it...NOW.

 

[AgentOrange]

The absolute worse thing that could happen is you get rejected! It happens to EVERYONE at some point and time.Ever heard the phrase &quot;nice guys finish last&quot;? Well it should be &quot;shy guys finish last&quot;.So as Nike says &quot;Just Do It&quot;!

 

[DannyLove]

slap youself........CALL HER, chat, do whatever, than ask her to go to the movies or something, start off cool, (or should i say groovy ) dont be to forward, come on dont you watch blind date? dont you see how other stupid people are.....represent your name, bust down with your super grooviness! i love that word....

 

[GL]

Like somebody already mentioned - you think too much. Put that brain to rest and put the body to work and move your ass to phone her or something. It's not like this is a life or death situation (although I know how it feels it does). Play it out to be nothing big and if something big comes out of it, it'll be a nice surprise - otherwise it wasn't such a big deal right?

-GL

 

[SuperGroove]

So there I was...asking for help with my homework. All was going well until there was nothing left to discuss on the homework. What was there to ask? Here was my chance.

Me:&quot;Do you like Pieter(name made up)?&quot;
&quot;He's going out with so and so&quot;
Me: &quot;so and so(my friend) likes so and so(cheerleader), and so and so(cheerleader) has a boyfriend? So?&quot;
&quot;We're just friends for now...we hardly know each other&quot;
Me: &quot;Oh...okay just wondering&quot;

Today? I see them on the couch...cuddling...and he gave her a ride to the other end of school(I can walk that far...why can't they?) Anyways...trying to come in the friend angle...and now I'm depressed. The dude's girlfriend got dumped and now the two(girl I liked and the guy who gave ride) are going out, or so everyone says.

 

[thereds]

You shoulda called when you had the chance.

 

[mylam]

good for u

 

[VoodooExtreme]

<< good for u >>



Are u drunk?

 

[cipher00]

Geez. Such angst. U are talking an hour or two, not a lifetime. The worst thing is a &quot;no&quot;, and if ya haven't gotten one yet, u sure will someday. Life's too friggin' short, and ppl play games. Do yourself a favor: get on it or get over it. Worrying about it just causes ulcers. (Good luck, whatever u choose )

 

[Cheapster]

It's not too late to call. Just grab your n*ts, dial the phone and tell her you would have called her before but you were a little nervous. She asks why, you tell her you'd like to take her out simetime but wasn't sure how. It's all over then guy. As they say, sh*t or get off the pot.

 

[SuperGroove]

I did call, guys! Jeez... I wouldn't be so down if it weren't for the fact that this isn't the first time I've not gotten a chance. Lesse...there were many attempts in 8th grade, Freshmen year...junior year...and now this year.


I'm such a loser Hey...the movie Loser was on TV today. Was that movie about me? Hmmm

 

[warcleric]

Once you realize that they are all evil, you will be much better off. Women are spawn of satan and you should be cautious when dealing with them. They might take your soul <and half your stuff> when you arent looking.

 

[Fausto]

What uplifting advice. I'll assume you are kidding.

SG, if I may be so bold as to sum up the collective advice you have been receiving. The worst thing that can happen is rejection. But if you don't go for it, you'll never know what the outcome could have been. I met my wife 12 years ago, she was the first/only woman I ever had the guts to walk right up to and introduce myself. Imagine if I'd chickened out and gone home? You just never know. If you get shot down, move on. Things will happen when you meet the right person.

Fausto