Stop calling. You've left your message- she knows you want to talk...don't be desperate...or at least don't act like it.
And there are plenty of cute girls @ UW.
If there are then there are not any in any of the clubs or classes I've been in. :|
Nah, I've dealt with his bullshit plenty. I just don't think it's ever ok, under any circumstances, even as a joke, to encourage someone towards giving up on life.
Trident, you're what, 20? I'm not much older than you. I don't have a ton of experience dating either, but right now it's not something that worries me. Would I like a girlfriend? Yeah sure, it'd be nice, but I right now I'm young, single, have a job, and just want to have fun. I don't stress/worry because I know being happy with myself will lead me onto being happy with another person. Once you focus on other things (school for you, in my case my job), things will get better. It takes time, but you will grow.
We have a lot to look forward to in life, and things WILL fall into place, though it may not seem like it. You are being too hard on yourself with this trying to find a girlfriend routine. One heartbreak doesn't mean you should 'give up' on life; keep moving on. It's very hard, I know, and sure you'll feel shitty for some time; but everybody goes through things like this, it's part of maturing into an adult.
Seriously Trident? Go fuck yourself and stop being an attention whore.
Fuck, everyone's an attention whore. Sometimes I really think so. What makes you think otherwise? Deep down inside everyone wants a lot of attention, don't you?
Finding someone else. I read an amazing post in another forum (Rottentomatoes) by an Australian woman who broke up with someone, it was very sad but she then hooked up with someone else and she said that it was absolutely perfect. She said that there was not one thing that she'd want to change. So, yes, it is possible for it to totally work out with someone else after a relationship with someone that turns out really wrong. But testimonials like that aren't very common! :$
That's a pretty heavy post. Kudos! :thumbsup:Get a dog and walk it.
Cant tell you how many girls I met walking my golden in Ryunion Canyon when I lived in LA.
What did you do when you are a kid that made you happy? Model cars? Bicycling? Go back to a passion you has when you were a kid.
A few years ago I was going trough a difficult period in my life. We were having trouble concieving and work was awful for both my wife and I.
We ended up changing where we lived, what we did for work, how we managed our free time.
By removing the big stressors we were able to concieve and spend more time together. I Also started working on cars again because it made me happy when I was young.
First thing you should do is stop caring about what internet trolls think of you.
How about being a big brother to a less fortunate kid? This year I sponsered two families and helped get them out of poverty. If you make a difference in peoples lives you will feel it too. So much of our virtual world is fake. Go back to REAL LIFE.
LOL, reminds me of a band's album on which they write "we'd kill people, but it's illegal so we make music instead."Thats the problem with ALL children.
You think HE'S bad? I see worse every day at college. I'd boot some asses if I didnt think I'd get stuck in jail overnight.
You have to remember, Tridentboy has never had any kind of relationship with any other human being...ever. It's not a matter of getting dumped and moving on, he's never gotten far enough to get dumped.
This is fundamentally the problem then. Long distance romances are very difficult. Even if they are off on the right foot, they're bound to go bad. Hell, it happened to me. Some of you may know the song by the Velvet Underground, "The Gift." This hapless guy Waldo is separated from his girlfriend who has gone away to college. He can't afford to travel to see her so he mails himself in a package. She has a tough time opening the box, all the while she's explaining to her roommate that the guy she's dating now is so much more a man than Waldo (Waldo can't hear, he's just ecstatic thinking of how delighted his girlfriend is going to be when she sees what's inside), finally in her frustration she has at the box with a knife, end of Waldo.To those who said I should see her in person, she lives 3 hours away. There's always been that distance.
I remember when he posted about not feeling sadness about his grandmother's death and not going to her funeral.
A later thread, he was pissed b/c his grandmother didn't leave him any money when he believed he was his grandmother's favorite grandchild. He wanted a super-duper laptop for non-school purposes and wanted his mother to buy it for him with money that his grandmother gave her.
Again, I have no sympathy for such a self-fish little prick. And he wonders why he has no friends and can't meet a girl. Then gets all depressed that some girl that he wasn't dating or romantic with, wants nothing to do with him.
And sure there are no cute girls in Seattle. Who cares, they'd all walk away after having a conversion with you.
Tricking him into eating those is pure cruelty.
I agree. When you're a douchebag to everyone and think you're better than everyone including his own family, who would want to be around someone like that. His ugly personality, laziness, excuses for everything and unwillingness to change leaves him at where he is now. No sympathy here.
Catcher in the rye and Perks of being a wallflower will be your friends for now.
Read The Catcher in the Rye. A very quick read. It was alright. I understood it mostly. Although I am interested in some kind of short analytical essay on the book to see what maybe I didn't see up front (I couldn't tell if this book was very symbolic or not. Those things are not always apparent.).