- Jul 11, 2001
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An Anandtech "member" who I didn't know PMed me in early April. He was curious about me. I replied, and over some 2 1/2 months we kept a conversation going. Usually long posts, and there are some 110 such posts. I usually replied very quickly to him over those 2 1/2 months, riffing off his previous reply. He often took a week or two to reply, sometimes much sooner. One day in June he said something that ticked me off, he made an assumption about me that I disagreed with and I replied with "dude, you're bent." He didn't respond and a couple months later I wanted to read parts of our voluminous conversation for information I didn't remember -- we'd discussed movies, technology, a lot of stuff he knew about and he'd suggested many things to me. So, I visited our PM in the middle of August to discover that my private conversation partner had essentially deleted all his posts. He replaced the content of all of his posts with "..."
I responded with an angry rebuke, but figure he never read it, just a few words it was, or he didn't care and didn't read it. That doesn't matter, the damage was done.
I think this is very unfair. I can understand in the forums being able to edit your posts. However, in a PM situation I don't think you should indefinitely be able to do that. Perhaps for a few hours or a day or two, but not indefinitely. I belong to many forums, but post here the most by far. I joined a forum for a product I bought a couple weeks ago and you can edit your posts but after a day or so I noticed that the option to edit your posts disappears. I think that should definitely be in effect for PMs (here, or anywhere). If I'd had any idea this might happen I would have quoted all my PM partner's (often very long) posts, and unless the forums change, will do that in the future with PMs if I have any concern about it. I'm once burned twice shy on this. I'm also curious if anything can be done about this. Perhaps his posts are out there in a backup. I know, maybe no recourse, but I think my suggestion for not allowing PM posters to edit their posts after, say, a day has great merit!
I responded with an angry rebuke, but figure he never read it, just a few words it was, or he didn't care and didn't read it. That doesn't matter, the damage was done.
I think this is very unfair. I can understand in the forums being able to edit your posts. However, in a PM situation I don't think you should indefinitely be able to do that. Perhaps for a few hours or a day or two, but not indefinitely. I belong to many forums, but post here the most by far. I joined a forum for a product I bought a couple weeks ago and you can edit your posts but after a day or so I noticed that the option to edit your posts disappears. I think that should definitely be in effect for PMs (here, or anywhere). If I'd had any idea this might happen I would have quoted all my PM partner's (often very long) posts, and unless the forums change, will do that in the future with PMs if I have any concern about it. I'm once burned twice shy on this. I'm also curious if anything can be done about this. Perhaps his posts are out there in a backup. I know, maybe no recourse, but I think my suggestion for not allowing PM posters to edit their posts after, say, a day has great merit!
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