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OS

Lifer
Oct 11, 1999
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Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: jordanz
Some people just sound stupid when they say the whole "shouldn't stoop to her level" phrase. If I was stabbed, should I productively walk to a hospital while being chased by said assailant .. or fight back? Go ahead with your "unchildish non-cavemen like" action.

More or less, you get what you give bitches.

yeah defending your life is a lot like the kids getting a preasent.


assholes don't respect you more if you keep being nice to them

 

waggy

No Lifer
Dec 14, 2000
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Originally posted by: OS
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: jordanz
Some people just sound stupid when they say the whole "shouldn't stoop to her level" phrase. If I was stabbed, should I productively walk to a hospital while being chased by said assailant .. or fight back? Go ahead with your "unchildish non-cavemen like" action.

More or less, you get what you give bitches.

yeah defending your life is a lot like the kids getting a preasent.


assholes don't respect you more if you keep being nice to them


true. but you don't have to be a baby about it either. wich is how the OP is comeing off.

if he does not like it. Then he should be a man and call her. find out if he did something to piss her off or does she just not like them.

if its she just does not like them. then fine. no reason to do anytihng for her (notice i do not say do not buy the kids stuff. they do not deserve it).


 
Nov 7, 2000
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thats not ownage

thats stooping to her level

thats acting like a little bitch, the same thing you criticize her for doing
 

OS

Lifer
Oct 11, 1999
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Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: OS
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: jordanz
Some people just sound stupid when they say the whole "shouldn't stoop to her level" phrase. If I was stabbed, should I productively walk to a hospital while being chased by said assailant .. or fight back? Go ahead with your "unchildish non-cavemen like" action.

More or less, you get what you give bitches.

yeah defending your life is a lot like the kids getting a preasent.


assholes don't respect you more if you keep being nice to them


true. but you don't have to be a baby about it either. wich is how the OP is comeing off.

if he does not like it. Then he should be a man and call her. find out if he did something to piss her off or does she just not like them.

if its she just does not like them. then fine. no reason to do anytihng for her (notice i do not say do not buy the kids stuff. they do not deserve it).


some people aren't worth the time nor the effort to salvage anything.

 

OutHouse

Lifer
Jun 5, 2000
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:thumbsup: great answer. its my default answer now when somebody needs computer help. and even then if they agree to my price i say im too busy, i dont need to be their tech suppor for life.
 

TreyRandom

Diamond Member
Jun 29, 2001
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Originally posted by: Heller91
my aunts been a real bitch towards my family, not giving my kids Chanukah presents like she does every year (i get her kids every year) but i just shrugged it off, shes been giving my side of the family the cold shoulder lately and well... im ****** tired of it.


so she calls my up in a panic and says


I need you go come over right now!
my computer wont start!
omg i have important files on it!

(did't even say hello)

so i said,
$45 an hour, 2 hour minimum.
she said huh?
i said or call up geeksquad she how much they chage)

/click

she hung up.


owned....


was i too crude?

Even if she doesn't agree to pay your hourly rate, you'll probably save money by not having to buy her kids Chanukah presents this year. You win either way!
 

Quasmo

Diamond Member
Jul 7, 2004
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That'll teach her. One year my aunt and uncle gave me a book for Christmas, well fvck them, I sent them a thank you card that said, "Thank you for the book, next year please do not get me a book." I got a plastic shark head the next year. I showed them. (I actually get really nice gifts from them now, so I guess it worked)
 

Perknose

Forum Director & Omnipotent Overlord
Forum Director
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Heller91
my aunts been a real bitch towards my family, not giving my kids Chanukah presents like she does every year (i get her kids every year)
There is absolutely more to this story than you have revealed.

 

waggy

No Lifer
Dec 14, 2000
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Originally posted by: OS
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: OS
Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: jordanz
Some people just sound stupid when they say the whole "shouldn't stoop to her level" phrase. If I was stabbed, should I productively walk to a hospital while being chased by said assailant .. or fight back? Go ahead with your "unchildish non-cavemen like" action.

More or less, you get what you give bitches.

yeah defending your life is a lot like the kids getting a preasent.


assholes don't respect you more if you keep being nice to them


true. but you don't have to be a baby about it either. wich is how the OP is comeing off.

if he does not like it. Then he should be a man and call her. find out if he did something to piss her off or does she just not like them.

if its she just does not like them. then fine. no reason to do anytihng for her (notice i do not say do not buy the kids stuff. they do not deserve it).


some people aren't worth the time nor the effort to salvage anything.


oh i agree.

but i would make a effort. if she gives him the run around. has a pissy reason to not get them something then fine. forget her.

but at least make a effort.
 

SagaLore

Elite Member
Dec 18, 2001
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I think you missed a good opportunity to show her kindness.

I suppose Chanukah is just about presents now?
 
Oct 4, 2004
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Y'know that long thread we had about not doing any free tech support favors for people who exploit our skills?

Yeah, that was mostly about "my wife's boss who doesn't know my name calls me...." or "this guy i know, whose brother-in-law i met at this party 3 years ago calls me for a tech..."

Aunt? Hmm, not sure. Unless she has a long history of wronging you and your family, maybe you were a little extreme.
 

SmoochyTX

Lifer
Apr 19, 2003
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Propose a compromise. Offer to go over, unplug everything, and take her computer to the Geek Squad for her so she doesn't have to do it herself. Make sure you tell her you'll plug everything back up again but she's paying the Geek Squad herself.

<--------- In a pissy mood today and tired of friends asking stupid ass computer questions.

 

Heller

Diamond Member
Jul 10, 2006
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Well i went over and talked to her. She understood were i was coming from. then i decided to go take a look at the comp, since i was hurting my niece's more since they had HW to do tonight and needed to research a bit, AND my aunt was being EL cheapo and didn't want to pay the $80 diagnostics charge geeksquad wanted. so i looked at it, and low and behold, the single stick of memory (256mb ) came loose and just needed to be snapped back in. so i guess im a sucker.
 

beemercer

Senior member
Feb 10, 2006
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You may have been an ass to her, but it is excusable (everyone gets sick of doing free computer work).
 

giantpinkbunnyhead

Diamond Member
Dec 7, 2005
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Originally posted by: Heller91
Well i went over and talked to her. She understood were i was coming from. then i decided to go take a look at the comp, since i was hurting my niece's more since they had HW to do tonight and needed to research a bit, AND my aunt was being EL cheapo and didn't want to pay the $80 diagnostics charge geeksquad wanted. so i looked at it, and low and behold, the single stick of memory (256mb ) came loose and just needed to be snapped back in. so i guess im a sucker.

Thats all well and good, but did you ask her why she acts the way she acts that precipitated your original refusal to help her?
 

Heller

Diamond Member
Jul 10, 2006
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Originally posted by: giantpinkbunnyhead
Originally posted by: Heller91
Well i went over and talked to her. She understood were i was coming from. then i decided to go take a look at the comp, since i was hurting my niece's more since they had HW to do tonight and needed to research a bit, AND my aunt was being EL cheapo and didn't want to pay the $80 diagnostics charge geeksquad wanted. so i looked at it, and low and behold, the single stick of memory (256mb ) came loose and just needed to be snapped back in. so i guess im a sucker.

Thats all well and good, but did you ask her why she acts the way she acts that precipitated your original refusal to help her?

Honestly i Just blew it over my shoulder and ignored her, i cant let me niece's suffer cause there moms an asshole, i love them to much!
 
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