Idea's For Meeting Chicks?

[danieldex]

dont be embarassed about who you are, if you want to watch movies with your buddy on new year's eve what the hell is wrong with that. the only geeks i dont like are the ones who dont admit they are geeks. just be yourself, that is what most chicks want

 

[pamchenko]

jaeger66 hit it right on the nail...classes are a great way to start because it is a neutral situation whereas trying to pick up chix at the gym or bar are a great way to get shot down cuz they are expecting it... DO NOT PICK UP CHIX AT THE GYM unless u are one of the stronger ppl there...but do go to the gym so you can work on your body for overall health

 

[ArkAoss]

oh and along the lines of russ

If she trys cleanin your ears with her toungue,
That's female speak for "If you don't get in my pants in 5 mins, you won't see the happy side of my face for a month."

 

[SuperGroove]

6'0 220LB? That doesn't sound too shabby. Only being able to bench 115LB? Hmm...maybe you should work out at home before you work out at the gym.


As for meeting girls...I'd love to be in an environment like college. High school's alright...but you have to be a jock and an abusive bad boy to get the girls. So many girls have left me for that kind of guy. Then I hear, "Johnny is being mean to me...but I love him...I can change him...don't ya think I can, Paul?"

Yea. Sure.


How about a waitress? I've gotten waitresses blushing on several occassions. One time...it kinda ended sour.

Me: "What could you do for me, if I slipped you some money? Maybe seat us quicker?"
Her: "Let me get someone who could help you guys out"
Them: "Well...for $20 we could seat you right now"
My friend gives them a $5, they laugh

All night they kept wanting to flirt. We really just wanted to eat. Sigh. Maybe God is punishing me for being that stupid. Them's were hot ladies. Course I just got rejected by someone I really dug that week. That was the last time I actually flirted. That was a year ago! Sigh. Oh wait...Lauren hit me a couple times before school got out. Oh if only she could hit me now...sigh.

Me love you Lauren!
/me crosses finger hoping she reads this and falls madly in love with me.

Oh, GL TREVORK!

 

[I'm Typing]

I weighed 20 pounds more than you did in college. I know I am uglier than you. I had dates all the time. All you have to do is grow a set of cajones and start asking women out. Start slow; make it a point to ask out at least one woman a day. Work your way up to asking out 3 women a day. Just ask. Oh, and make it a point to ask out the best looking women you see--they frequently do not have bf's because men are afraid to ask them out. Go to the mall, the grocery store, the library, any place but a bar. Bars are for losers.

You will get rejected. A lot. But you WILL score, eventually.

 

[bigbootydaddy]

you could stick a coke can in your pants...

 

[Azraele]

Try jogging at your college. If it's anything like the college I went to, you're bound to run (no pun intended) into one.

 

[cyclistca]

Some times I think they should call this the Dear Abbey Forum .

You think you have trouble know just wait until your in you thirties :frown:.

Collage/university is the ideal place to meet people. Try joining some clubs at school. It's also a good way to become a more well rounded person in general. Oh also go for clubs that may actually have women in them . Computer clubs are great but your probably not going to meet many women there.

I don't go out and get drunk (Don't see the appeal),

I certainly do not do it on a regular bases but it is fun even at my age (Mid thirties). People do tend to loosen up a bit.

As for meeting girls at a gym well good luck. I've been working out on and off for several years and have never meet anyone that way.

I guess the key in general is to get out and get exposure. I'm introverted like yourself. Getting out and doing things has helped me to get out of my shell.

 

[Elita1]

TrevorK:

You have gotten some really good advice from a few members that I believe would work for you.
Speaking as a girl, you have already scored some high points by saying you do not like getting drunk. Me senses great maturity! I still think it's perfectly fine to go to bars and have a few drinks and with that outlook you will certainly find a girl with integrity and self-respect.

Going to the gym is an excellent way of meeting people AND doing something good for your body. Do not be concerned about how you look. A woman with true values will see that you are making the effort to live a healthy life and truly appreciate that.

Make friends with People in your classes. Join study groups. Go to student functions. This is how I met my husband.

Be yourself! and be honest. There's no bigger turn-off than a fake.

Don't be negative and down on yourself. Girls pick up on that.

Be a gentleman! friendly, charming and respectful. I don't care what the feminists say; women have an inherent weakness for chivalry. You open the door for a girl and she will appreciate and remember it. And more importantly she will remember YOU!

Above all relax and do not worry about what people say or think. Enjoy yourself!

best of luck,

Elita

 

[TrevorK]

Wow, all these replies have actually really given me some great ideas, and actually helped build the confidence a bit. Since I only got one day left here at work, I'm gonna go ask on of the new Co Op girls out here in an hour or so, never know what could happen, right?

Trevor

 

[I'm Typing]

Don't sh!t where you eat, dude. Unless you don't need the job.

 

[TrevorK]

I'm actually quitting tomorrow, so it's the perfect scenario. If she says no then I don't have to see her again or anything

Trevor

 

[Nevyn522]

TrevorK: GOOD LUCK!

Girls are evil.

Honestly, you can meet girls anywhere... but getting out is definitely a help.

My first girlfriend I had met fencing... but only started to talking to after I got her phone number from her exboyfriend. Turns out he must have been REALLY pissed at me -- a lot of the less-than-kind descriptions of girls I've seen here remind me of her... took me two years to learn, but still... I was in high school, okay??? I learned when I went to college.

The next girl I met when I was walking back from class and had stopped to talk to a (female) friend. As the girl (Sarah) knew the girl I was talking to, she was introduced to me... and then Sarah told me I had to come by her room and fix her computer. Yes, I'm serious. I ended up asking her to dinner (I didn't intend it as a date, just commented that I was going to a restaurant in town, and then invited her... it worked, okay? )

After that relationship failed, I met a girl at play tryouts... I didn't get a part, but I found out she lived four floors above me in the same dorm. A week's worth of talking (I had a bunch of people die at once, so I really needed someone to talk to) and she was mine. :] Yeah, okay, so that one failed to.

I met my current girlfriend (by far the best of the bunch) in a manner similar to the first. I was going to lunch, and saw a friend studying for a test. Went over and talked to her, and the girl sitting next to her introduced herself to me. I ended up talking to my soon-to-be gf for five hours that night (via AIM, and then on the phone), and then talked to her every night for the next two weeks -- which was tough, it was the end of the semester, so I was calling California from New York. When I flew out to Redmond to work over the summer though (yes, for Microsoft... I may not love them, but the awe I get when I give people my resume now was worth renting out my soul for a while... And the free soda is GOOD), I stayed at the airport to meet a plane from California... a lot of hand holding insued before I even asked her out.

So, in summary, the keys to meeting girls are: have friends and talk to them, go out and do SOMETHING so that you'll have something interesting to talk about, and talk to whoever you're interested in -- take the time to get to know them. It might not lead anywhere immediately, and may not ever. But I only knew the girl who introduced me to my second girlfriend because I had talked to her throughout the previous year... when I had a rather major crush on her. See? You'll still profit.

Good luck again!
Andrew