Idiot hit our car

Sphexi

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So our landlord shows up to do some work today, and gives us a note that was left on our car, from "Ashley". No last name, no other info other than that and her phone number. Apparantly she's a new driver, has no idea how to back out of a parking space, and put a wicked dent in our passenger side door.

She doesn't want us to go to the insurance company as she's a new driver. Now, up here there's only one insurance company, and they're pretty straightforward. For something like this they'd jack her rate up by 10% for a year, and if she goes a year with no further issues they'd drop it back down. That's maybe $100+ a year at worst for her, compared to the possible grand it'll take to fix our door. She wants to pay for it herself, which is a big no-no.

Basically she wants us to call her with an estimate and we'll "work it out", which to me means she'll try to weasle out of it. We're going to file anyways on Monday, but before then we'll do our best to get as much info on her as possible, and if she shows up at the building again, a picture of her car (she's a guest here I think).

Seriously though, how hard is it to back out of a spot and not hit somebody? I can understand maybe nicking the back corner of their car as you start to turn, but she started to turn when her front end was next to our door, that's just retarded.

Pics and poorly drawn recreations to follow.



Update:

Spoke to her on the phone, turns out she's only got her learners (up here you get your learners, then your driver's license, then have to have a magnetic "N" on your car for two years so people know you're new), and was driving her mom's car when she wasn't supposed to. So not only is she not fully licensed, but was driving without an adult in the car who was. She's 20 or something, basically begged us to report it as a hit and run and she'd pay our deductable (and our insurance goes up and we're a party to fraud), or to let her pay for the estimate, which is going to be $1k+, on a payment plan to us.

Answer was no to both, we told her flat out that we were going to report it to insurance as is and give them any info we had, and encouraged her to come clean on it. At that point she started going on and on about how this would effect her job (shouldn't because she can't drive by herself anyways), and that unless the repair was under $300 or so she couldn't afford it anyways. So not only can she not afford to pay for it, but wants to be on a payment plan or some stupid crap.

Tomorrow the wife is going in to file a police report, we know it's a local mobile number, they already said that they'll get the info from the company and pass it on to insurance, she also said that she was going for her full driver's test next week and really wants to pass. At this point I really don't want her on the road, and now she's cost us a fair bit of money that she made very clear she couldn't afford to pay back unless we give her several months to do so, which isn't going to happen. So I'll let the police and the insurance company do their thing, fix our car, and go from there.

Update:

As promised, pics of damage on car, and a map of the recreation.

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Recreation

As you can see, they had the last spot before the tree, which means on their right side there was at least 7-8 feet until the tree, and behind them about 20-25 feet to the building. Instead of waiting to turn, they started turning right as they were backing out, and when they started to scrape our car, they obviously didn't stop, as there's scrapes over 14 inches long...they just kept going until they were finally free.

Update: 4/18

Had the car looked at by insurance on Monday, came back with an estimate of $1700-ish for a full replacement of the sheet metal and painting, plus labor and taxes and all that. Obviously we still just pay the deductible of $300, and at any point in the future if we find her they'll re-open the case and we get the money back. We're still waiting to hear from the cops, but aren't holding our breath. By the way, we have up to two years to go in and have the work done on the car, we pay the deductible to the mechanics/body shop, so we could still get the money from her, or choose to not go through with it, plenty of time to work it out.


Update: 4/24

Didn't want anyone to think I Goosed them, even though not much has happened. Cops haven't gotten back to us, either taking their sweet time or haven't found anything, we'll probably contact them in a few days to see what's been happening. The body shop we use for these types of issues (scratches and minor dents) has ordered the parts and won't have them until early May, so we're just kind of chilling for now. We've asked around a little bit, being very quiet about it though, trying to see if we know anyone who knows anyone who's heard anything, the whole 6-degrees kind of thing, just seeing if we can find out any new info. She would've had to have told her friends about it, and I'm sure they've mentioned it, and this isn't a huge town so we might know some of the same people.

Obviously, if we do find out anything interesting, I'll be sure to update it promptly, unlike some douchebags. Otherwise I'll simply post pics of the new panel once it's on the car in a few weeks and move on with my $300 poorer life.
 

rh71

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Why do you automatically think she's trying to weasle out of it? She can pay you the estimate/quote you get to have it fixed. Yes, it's more of a problem than having to report it and just have her insurance company price it and give you a check, but it's not a huge deal like you're making it out to be. People, including you, do no-nos all the time.
 

Jugernot

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Originally posted by: rh71
Why do you automatically think she's trying to weasle out of it? She can pay you the estimate/quote you get to have it fixed. Yes, it's more of a problem than having to report it and just have her insurance company price it and give you a check, but it's not a huge deal like you're making it out to be. People, including you, do no-nos all the time.

And we pay the price for it too.
 

mb

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Let's say her rate is high.. say $1,500 a year. A 10% increase is $1,650, only $150 more. Unless you think there's $150 or less in damage done to your car, file the claim because she's just gonna dick you around when you get an estimate that's way more than she thought it would be. In the end it'll just be a big hassle, so
Fuck, don't hesitate, just call your insurance co.
 

UpgradeFailure

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Feb 29, 2004
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Originally posted by: rh71
Why do you automatically think she's trying to weasle out of it? She can pay you the estimate/quote you get to have it fixed. Yes, it's more of a problem than having to report it and just have her insurance company price it and give you a check, but it's not a huge deal like you're making it out to be. People, including you, do no-nos all the time.

And a week after he gets the repair and finds out theres another problem, who does he turn to? She's long gone, no paper work to back up any claims, etc. Spend months waiting to go to small claims?

File with insurance, ge a police report.
 

dethman

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if she's willing to pay, i don't see the problem. other than you being a jerkoff of course.
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: Jugernot
Originally posted by: rh71
Why do you automatically think she's trying to weasle out of it? She can pay you the estimate/quote you get to have it fixed. Yes, it's more of a problem than having to report it and just have her insurance company price it and give you a check, but it's not a huge deal like you're making it out to be. People, including you, do no-nos all the time.

And we pay the price for it too.

Case by case basis - depends on the person, imo. If it were some punk kid in a gang neighborhood I would not hesitate of course.

Originally posted by: UpgradeFailure
Originally posted by: rh71
Why do you automatically think she's trying to weasle out of it? She can pay you the estimate/quote you get to have it fixed. Yes, it's more of a problem than having to report it and just have her insurance company price it and give you a check, but it's not a huge deal like you're making it out to be. People, including you, do no-nos all the time.

And a week after he gets the repair and finds out theres another problem, who does he turn to? She's long gone, no paper work to back up any claims, etc. Spend months waiting to go to small claims?

File with insurance, ge a police report.
It's funny how she wasn't long gone to begin with...
 

mb

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Originally posted by: dethman
if she's willing to pay, i don't see the problem. other than you being a jerkoff of course.

I would rather pay $100-200 more for a year for insurance than pay $1,000+ to have his car fixed, unless this girl plans on hitting a lot more cars.
 

Baked

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Is she hot? Pics? Maybe you two can work something out that doesn't involve money.
 

Modelworks

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Get a police report.
Then its up to you if you want to involve the insurance company.
If you don't and she decides not to pay, your left with no proof of anything other than a damaged car.
 

Kaolccips

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F*ck THAT! REPORT IT!!

This same thing happened to me once on something that was kind of my fault. The guy was apparently drunk or something so he didn't want to file a report because the cops would be called. A few weeks later we find out he filed a report of his own later on, so he ended up not getting into trouble and we did. If we would have filed he would have been the one getting into trouble and not me.
Thats what I get for trying to help someone out.

This guy used the SAME excuse "Well work something out!"
Guess what he never called, and never showed.
 

Capt Caveman

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Originally posted by: mb
Originally posted by: dethman
if she's willing to pay, i don't see the problem. other than you being a jerkoff of course.

I would rather pay $100-200 more for a year for insurance than pay $1,000+ to have his car fixed, unless this girl plans on hitting a lot more cars.

More like $200 a year for six years. Her insurance company is not going to lose any money due to her carelessness.
 

jamesbond007

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At least you have a name and number to work with. A couple of my friends have been unfortunate enough, including myself, to get some good dings in their doors, bumpers, etc and yet the dickweeds that hit our cars have the audacity to leave no note. I am also stuck with a good size dent in my rear passenger door that looks to be caused by door or something. Luckily, the white paint that was left on my car was easily scraped off, so it's not quite as noticeable as before.

File a claim through insurance, no doubt. No way in hell are you being the 'jerkoff' in this case. This is what insurance is for and maybe next time, she'll have a little more common sense to work with when backing out. People who try to work under the insurance clouds are just asking for trouble in the long run.

Best of luck,
~Travis
 

cdmccool

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Originally posted by: mb
Originally posted by: dethman
if she's willing to pay, i don't see the problem. other than you being a jerkoff of course.

I would rather pay $100-200 more for a year for insurance than pay $1,000+ to have his car fixed, unless this girl plans on hitting a lot more cars.

How do you know it's only 10% more? Maybe this is the second or third time this has happened in a year, and the increase to her insurance would be more than just paying for the damage she caused out of pocket.
 

UpgradeFailure

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Originally posted by: cdmccool
Originally posted by: mb
Originally posted by: dethman
if she's willing to pay, i don't see the problem. other than you being a jerkoff of course.

I would rather pay $100-200 more for a year for insurance than pay $1,000+ to have his car fixed, unless this girl plans on hitting a lot more cars.

How do you know it's only 10% more? Maybe this is the second or third time this has happened in a year, and the increase to her insurance would be more than just paying for the damage she caused out of pocket.

Well then if it's her 3rd time I say she should pay up and maybe learn a lesson here.
 

DeviousTrap

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Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: mb
Originally posted by: dethman
if she's willing to pay, i don't see the problem. other than you being a jerkoff of course.

I would rather pay $100-200 more for a year for insurance than pay $1,000+ to have his car fixed, unless this girl plans on hitting a lot more cars.

More like $200 a year for six years. Her insurance company is not going to lose any money due to her carelessness.

Yup, I dont know any insurance companies that'll hike up your rates for an accident and then just drop them after 1 year.

I'm actually surprised my some of the responses here; as rare as they may be, there are still some honest people in this world. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and get an estimate. If she's willing to pay, take the check, if not report it. If it's $500-1000 of damage I would probably do the same as her and offer to pay out of pocket.
 
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Report it.

I have worked in claims, and heard callers talking about how they decided to "work it out" with the other party and they would d!ck around and keep stringing them along on it. Finally they had it and would call us. Well we would love to help, but unfortunately after 6 months from the DOL (date of loss) you are generally SOL for getting any insurance company to handle it. I wouldn't even take the CHANCE at something happening later to my car from the wreck that isn't covered because I didn't file the initial claim.

Look at it this way. She made the mistake not the OP, so why should the OP have to possibally pay out of pocket at a later date (due to damages not seen initially) because he was "a nice guy" and didn't file a claim. The OP has to cover his a$$, and protect himself. If you can help somebody else while keeping yourself covered then all the better, but OTOH if that's not the case and either you protect yourself or "are a nice guy" my vote will always be protect yourself.
 

mb

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Originally posted by: DeviousTrap
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
Originally posted by: mb
Originally posted by: dethman
if she's willing to pay, i don't see the problem. other than you being a jerkoff of course.

I would rather pay $100-200 more for a year for insurance than pay $1,000+ to have his car fixed, unless this girl plans on hitting a lot more cars.

More like $200 a year for six years. Her insurance company is not going to lose any money due to her carelessness.

Yup, I dont know any insurance companies that'll hike up your rates for an accident and then just drop them after 1 year.

I'm actually surprised my some of the responses here; as rare as they may be, there are still some honest people in this world. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and get an estimate. If she's willing to pay, take the check, if not report it. If it's $500-1000 of damage I would probably do the same as her and offer to pay out of pocket.

If it's her first accident then ya never know. I got in an accident when I was 16 and my insurance didn't go up even though it was reported to both the insurance co and the police. Then again, that was 8 years ago so I don't know what Erie does now for first timers.
 
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