I'm in LOVE

[cerebusPu]

hey meatball,

never never get sucked into it. its fine and dandy to feel teh emotional high of being in love. but when you dont know what she feels about you....dont make any investments or sacricices or proclaim your love. its a cruel world out there and a wrong step can get you hurt.

funny thing is..Im giving you this advice right after i got rejected last night. it took me a good hour to stop thinking about it and most of it was spent sleeping. heh.

john t

 

[urameatball]

<< hey meatball,

never never get sucked into it. its fine and dandy to feel teh emotional high of being in love. but when you dont know what she feels about you....dont make any investments or sacricices or proclaim your love. its a cruel world out there and a wrong step can get you hurt.

funny thing is..Im giving you this advice right after i got rejected last night. it took me a good hour to stop thinking about it and most of it was spent sleeping. heh.

john t >>

sorry to hear that... but you know what they say when someone rejects you right? &quot;she doesn't know what she's missing out on&quot;




<< Is she your meatball? >>

well, since you put it that way, I guess its logical

 

[hoihtah]

congratz...

now don't mess up the goods.

 

[Urinal Mint]

urameatball

Dude, I know exactly where you're coming from, because I had that same warm feeling last night when I was making out with my date at the dueling piano bar. I don't think I've ever been kissed like that... wow.

&quot;makes ya feel kinda funny, like when ya used to climb the rope in gym class!&quot; - Garth Algar

 

[KiltedFool]

With the proper outlook, lust and infatuation can mix to give the illusion of love. Enjoy the possibility, but keep your wits about you.

And congratulations you have also hosted a remake of &quot;Nef Attack&quot; in your thread, intentionally or not.

KF

 

[kittykatt]

Make sure you share with her how you love her so much that you go on message boards boards discussing personal things. Im sure she's going to see youre one &quot;cool dude&quot; when she sees the potential of dating someone who finds true acceptance in the anonymity of the internet. You sound like quite a catch.

Personally, i dont date guys that get caught up in boards like this. Its a pretty evident sign of insecurity to go looking for emotional reassurance from strangers. Hopefully you try for real life friends to talk to one day because this isnt healthy. :frown:

 

[Doboji]

Kittykat-

I don't go for stuck up chicks, who discriminate against someone who can enjoy and benefit from sharing some of themselves on the internet. It's fine that you don't feel comfortable doing it... but don't down other people who do.

Frankly I see no reason why you bothered wasting yours, the original poster, and the rest of our time with such an assanine comment.

-Max

 

[urameatball]

<< Make sure you share with her how you love her so much that you go on message boards boards discussing personal things. Im sure she's going to see youre one &quot;cool dude&quot; when she sees the potential of dating someone who finds true acceptance in the anonymity of the internet. You sound like quite a catch.

Personally, i dont date guys that get caught up in boards like this. Its a pretty evident sign of insecurity to go looking for emotional reassurance from strangers. Hopefully you try for real life friends to talk to one day because this isnt healthy. :frown: >>

you'd be amazed how much I talk to my (true) friends about EVERYTHING that happens in my life. Its that I'm feeling so good that I just gotta keep talking about it. And my friends are so tired of me talking about this girl (among other stuff) that I figure some other people might wanna hear (hehe).

and generally, I consider myself secure, and I'm not seeking emotional reassurance from anyone (sorry for those who are seeking to reassure people with emotional reassurance ). I think you'll understand if you knew me better .

the way I see it, I like telling stories... and a lot of my friends like listening to my stories. so it works out

 

[kittykatt]

<< Kittykat-

I don't go for stuck up chicks, who discriminate against someone who can enjoy and benefit from sharing some of themselves on the internet. It's fine that you don't feel comfortable doing it... but don't down other people who do.

Frankly I see no reason why you bothered wasting yours, the original poster, and the rest of our time with such an assanine comment.

-Max >>



Okay, and thats fine for you. And if your &quot;woman&quot; wants to be the subject of conversation between a bunch of internet champs then thats fine for her. But to call my comments assanine is a bit overboard. They are comments which are based off of my feelings, not yours. Believe it or not, people think different and have the right to do so. I feel i have the right to comment on the fact that the girl has no idea she is being talked about online, and that it can easily be viewed as a huge sign of distrust.

So for those i offended with my &quot;assanine comment&quot; then i apologize. I just thought this thread could use the input of a female poster. Im going to shut up now to make doboji happy since he doesnt want to smash the make believe image in his mind of how some girls actually think and expect a private relationship to remain private.
?^? <--i just learned that so thanks for the first oppurtunity...

Katt

 

[kittykatt]

<< ...I think you'll understand if you knew me better .

the way I see it, I like telling stories... and a lot of my friends like listening to my stories. so it works out >>



Agreed. Id understand if i knew you better. And that works for you, but my input to the thread is more for the girls side. As a girl, i would absolutely hate to hear my boyfriend or potential boyfriend goes home every night to talk about me. Dont get me wrong, im not a control freak. I could understand talking among friends about stuff, but the internet is an open forum where everyone can anonymously wear their heart on their sleeve and overexpose their life. As a personal choice for you then thats your business, but since the girl has no idea its going on then i feel bad for her.

Of course im giving a perspective that represents only me so take it as you wish. And to give you more background, im one of those people that is absolutely disgusted by people who post scans or pics of their friends, girlfriends or strangers for people to download here. So i guess you can consider me an &quot;internet prude&quot;.

Katt

 

[Doboji]

KittyKat-

It'd be one thing if some guy came on here, and was discussing specifics of a relationship problem. And even that so long as he doesnt give out names is perfectly acceptable. But coming on here to express his admiration and attraction to someone he's not even in a relationship is not even woth a wayward glance. And if you think this view is universal to women... I suggest you take a very serious look around at other women... and see if they would mind a boyfriend ANONYMOUSLY sharing his feelings about you ANONYMOUSLY to ANONYMOUS people on the internet...

There have been no names mentioned... I don't understand how this situation bothers you. And your comments about not getting involved with someone who gets involved in internet forums was just pitiful. I suspect that some of the most intelligent, succesful charming people get involved here, and you, my dear, are missing out big time!

Let me also state this.. I don't date women who expect every aspect of our relationship to remain hidden from outside view. Yes some and alot of things are sacred and should not be discussed... however I WILL discuss how much I like my Girlfriend or person I am dating, and I will even occasionally ask for indirect advice. If you or the girl I'm with doesnt like it... they can deal with it, or they can move on.
I've been in a relationship where the chick doesnt want me saying anything about &quot;us&quot;... too damn bad... a relationship is not about having everything the way YOU want it.

-Max

 

[kittykatt]

?^?=refer to bottom


<< ... And if you think this view is universal to women... >>


And where have i said its universal to women? Since you need help on the language still, then the word ?^?&quot;I&quot; (yes, its a word and its a letter) ?^?refers to the person speaking. ?^?It doesnt represent a group, a faction, a clan, a sex, a species or everyone. My views were stated as , &quot;Personally, i think...&quot; so that should be an indication that im not making a blanket statement.


<< I suggest you take a very serious look around at other women... and see if they would mind a boyfriend ANONYMOUSLY sharing his feelings about you ANONYMOUSLY to ANONYMOUS people on the internet... >>


Okay, since youre a research expert and discovered what women do and do not want then that is wonderful. I know the feelings of people around me, but obviously you've found the contrary so thats fine. Your female friends enjoy being the subject of internet posts while mine do not. Its up to the individuals so who cares. ?^?
What i write is the view of one person.


<< ...Let me also state this.. I don't date women who expect every aspect of our relationship to remain hidden from outside view. Yes some and alot of things are sacred and should not be discussed... however I WILL discuss how much I like my Girlfriend or person I am dating, and I will even occasionally ask for indirect advice. If you or the girl I'm with doesnt like it... they can deal with it, or they can move on.
I've been in a relationship where the chick doesnt want me saying anything about &quot;us&quot;... too damn bad... a relationship is not about having everything the way YOU want it. >>


?^?At what point did i say that there is a sacred bond in a love/infatuation/stalker relationship where you must keep everything absolutely quiet. It is the choices of the people involved. If she doesnt mind then fine this thread is good to build the guys ego. But if she does mind... well, we dont know that. So my whole thing is that to ?^?me (?^?&quot;me&quot; referring to katt. not all womankind as you're sure to misinterpret it to) it isnt a good sign of respect to be the subject of a thread like this. But again, that is *ME. And as ?^?I said earlier, ?^?I am an internet prude so im giving a prudes point of view.



?^?Amazing Fact: Did you know that disclaimers and overexplanations wouldnt be necessary if people would be intelligent enough to figure stuff out on their own?

 

[Doboji]

<< Did you know that disclaimers and overexplanations wouldnt be necessary if people would be intelligent enough to figure stuff
out on their own? >>



First of all you represented your opinion as a &quot;female posters point of view&quot;... I argued that you are silly to think you can speak for all female posters.

Secondly your post was very inflammatory towards the poster... borderlining on calling him a loser.. for a very harmless post. It's one thing to be prudish yourself... it's another to criticize and berate someone else based on your own narrow minded views... I'll let it drop now before we both get ourselves banned...

-Max

 

[urameatball]

hey kittykat and doboji,

this is supposed to be a happy thread.

anyway, I started this thread without any intent of revealing who I'm talking about... so basically, it could be anyone. I don't see any difference between this thread and another thread called &quot;my best friend is such a great person&quot;.

KittyKat, I see what you're trying to say, but I was thinking that as long as I keep everyone anonymous, it'll just be like reading another paperback novel. Personally, I see no harm done.

 

[HowardStern]

<< you ever have this feeling

Who was that gay guy from survivor... :| >>


Richard Hatch.

 

[Doboji]

urameatball...

I actually find KittyKat's.... fiesty, hard headed stubborness....





Sexy as hell...

-Max

 

[PlunX]

I know what you're talking about, urameatball.

 

[HowardStern]

<< you ever have this feeling

Who was that gay guy from survivor... :| >>


Richard Hatch

 

[urameatball]

<< I know what you're talking about, urameatball. >>

really? you must be psychic

 

[urameatball]

<< urameatball...

I actually find KittyKat's.... fiesty, hard headed stubborness....





Sexy as hell...

-Max >>

you do too? hehe.

 

[kenthuang]

Got a pic of the girl ??

 

[emonkey]

oops. bf will get mad. im on his comp.

 

[Doboji]

ummmmm

Emonkey = kittykat?!



-Max

 

[urameatball]

<< ummmmm

Emonkey = kittykat?!



-Max >>

uh... I'm confused too!

 

[Circlenaut]

My 200th post.