"hire a PI, i didnt read was to long"
*Ahem!*
"LOL that's hilarious. Now half the geeks don't believe you're a girl with a bf, but some nerdboy having some laughs."
That's exactly what I was wondering: Is this person gay or something. It reminded me of that short story I read . . . I figured the author was gay 'cuz he kept referring to his partner as "someone". LOL! (Don't pick on this statement. It's just a side note. I'm not about to start some debate and then give reference to the story and make you realise that the story was about his father accepting his relationship.)
Call Cheaters the TV show (I like that show)
I heard about this show. I would love to see it! However, I can't seem to find what network airs the show. Please let me know!
Well, SuepaFly, you really don't want to be looking to folks here, as almost all are guys. They are more than likely to side with your man completely.
"So I put my foot down and tell him that its 3:30am and no one is waiting and make him to go to bed. But he already started dialing. But before he says anything, he hangs up and passes out. By this point I'm fairly annoyed and get up and leave. But not before I look at his cell phone (I know, I know) and the person he dials has a female name. Very interesting."
Okay, I have to be fair here: Do you and your bf have some contract going on where neither can have friends of the opposite sex? I ask 'cuz it sounds like it with your post. In real life, I know some people like that. And it's really disturbing to me. We lost some friends because they committed themselves to these kinds of relationships. My sis for instance knew some French guy who's now in the NBA. He came to the USA as a student and was pretty poor. They were cool friends and we occasionally met for social gathering and stuff. He was interested in my sis, but she wasn't interested. However they were cool as friends. He was a poor student but got help from us all. Then he finds this chick and they quickly get married. Suddenly he gives up on all of his friends. He abandoned his fellow French speaking tight male friend. My sis almost never tears, but she teared about this guy. Weird. Anyway, it was terrible. It was some contract they had that he would not be contacted by any female friends and she'll not be contacted by any male friends. So my sis didn't know this . . . she calls, and then she gets this really rude remarks from the gf. And then the insult and injury came when he threw off all of the friendship and told her off. (This all happened before he got drafted.) Pathetic. A similar situation happened with people I know. It's quite disgusting in my view.
"My question, whats the chances that this isn't exactly what it seems and maybe it was an innocent phone call. And what should I do?"
Basically, this is probably unwarranted at the moment. If it were a secret, he wouldn't do it in front of you. If he did it in front of you, then it isn't a secret after all and he doesn't fear or respect you. But you haven't given us a reason to believe that you caught him with a lady in the past, so I think that this is unwarranted. Trust him to some extent (not completely without he earning the trust, though) or don't bother being in the relationship.
P.S.: You can always hire a P.I., though. I'm available for your service at anytime. I can you my quotes if you're interested.