Ok it came back today. In middle of coding, have an XP VM running in the background (using maybe 512MB of ram) notepad++ and the actual app I'm coding. In total I was using maybe 1GB/3.5.
At random I get a serries of errors while in the middle of typing so my keys hit OK before I could read, but one error remained and it said "God Damn error: 666" (no joke, I took a
picture, because ms paint would not even load so I can do print screen). The error was from notepad++ as when I closed it, the the app closed.
WTF is going on? Why isin't all my ram being used? I tested it it's good. I have no viruses or anything of that sort.
I did notice svchost uses up like 600MB of ram, and I closed it and the issues went away. The new svchost is only using 27MB right now. Now that app is not really suppose to be closed or disabled so that's obviously not the solution.