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Alkaline5

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Jun 21, 2001
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Originally posted by: richardycc
this reminds me, what is the statutes of limitation statutory rape? my friend wanna know.

I'm no lawyer, but my understanding is that for some serious crimes there is no "expiration date". Most sex crimes qualify as "serious." So your friend could be in hiding for a quite a while.

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Also a question for those of you that seem to think this relationship is appropriate: what country/society do you consider yourself a part of? In America age difference tends to be questioned mainly when only one of the people in the relationship is in their teens. I definitely consider this particular relationship twisted.
 

FoBoT

No Lifer
Apr 30, 2001
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Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
I mean, what do you guys think of a 22 year old dating a 14 year old? i mean, am i the only guy that thinks this is fvked?

i think that girls parents don't give a crap about their kid and that guy is a child molester in the making
 
Jan 31, 2002
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Originally posted by: Booster
C'mon, people, do you live in a cave or what? It's the new millennium! There aren't any boundaries or taboos any more. Nothing matters... So who cares.

Right, you're the guy who mentioned in another thread that 20 + 14 = OK.

- M4H
 

Vette73

Lifer
Jul 5, 2000
21,503
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Originally posted by: caitlion
Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
one of my friends that is a girl says her ex boyfriend is dating a 14 year old. She is 17 and her ex is 22. Her and her ex are still in contact. The 22 year old was talking about the 14 year olds feet and stuff and im like what the hell does the the guy have for her feet. I mean, what do you guys think of a 22 year old dating a 14 year old? i mean, am i the only guy that thinks this is fvked?

i dont think he should have even dated the 17 year old :-/


Thats what I was also thinking.

She needs to report him, as it seems he is juts getting into younger and younger girls... i.e

 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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depends a lot on the couple.....Are these people sexually active or are they doing the hang out at arcades and mall type dating?

When I was 17, my buddy set me up with a friend of this girl he was messing around with. His girl was 16 or 17 so I assumed her friend as also....they were pro-models he met at the beach while he was surfing, both girls looked older than us though (more 21-23 than 16-18) but I don't give a crap about age really so I didn't ask, I figured if *I* was too young she'd bring it up...she was 'well' developed and pretty smart also (she had private tutors as she was a pro-model and travelled mostly so no regular schooling was possible, she did some acting also)....anyways we start making out and it getting heavy at a park we were hanging out and drinking at, turns out she was only 13 or something...I am glad nothing happened too majorly, but if we would have been able to find a place to go and it wasn't so cold that night...who knows what would have happened. (the only reason I found out is she really liked the 1966 Mustang GT I had, and she made some joke as we were making out about how I'd drive her or something and then said something like 'when I am old enough to drive this is what I want'...

Our passion came to a screeching halt...she was sort of tearing up and trying to show me her fake id and claim she just couldn't own a car and travel, it'd be pointless....I called her on the fake id because her friend used her's to score our drinks. It was just upsetting and she was flailing now and crying asking what difference it makes, at that moment too her friend and mine came back from whereever they took off to saying it was too cold and we should go head to the bar by the beach him and I hung out at (surf bar sort of) and get a booth. Her friend got all pissed at me thinking I did something to her and then the immaturity came out a bit.

My friend at first thought she was lying, but his g/f confirmed it and apparently she had dated alot of older guys and none of them knew either that she was that young....and neither of them were virgins 'so it's not a big deal, you aren't going to be misleading us'

it was though, my friend wasn't sure if his g/f was really as old as she said either then and they were banging each other non-stop since they met, not that it mattered to him though, we were both out clubbing constantly picking up mostly older women (21+) because back in the late 80's most h/s girls weren't as easy as they are now.

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PowerMacG5

Diamond Member
Apr 14, 2002
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<Playing Devil's Advocate>If there's grass on the field......</Playing Devil's Advocate>

Just to clarify, I don't live by this philosophy.
 

AlienCraft

Lifer
Nov 23, 2002
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Originally posted by: caitlion
Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
one of my friends that is a girl says her ex boyfriend is dating a 14 year old. She is 17 and her ex is 22. Her and her ex are still in contact. The 22 year old was talking about the 14 year olds feet and stuff and im like what the hell does the the guy have for her feet. I mean, what do you guys think of a 22 year old dating a 14 year old? i mean, am i the only guy that thinks this is fvked?

i dont think he should have even dated the 17 year old :-/


 

Krakerjak

Senior member
Jul 23, 2001
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She is a tad young for him.
Some people need to get used to the fact that the average american loses their virginity at the age of 16, and that people this age are becoming sexually active earlier and earlier. Obviously these young girls, considering their age, don't see the situation the same way as the 20+ year old here and don't limit their dating options to those within their age groups.


Not everywhere in the world it's not (and it might not be illegal everywhere in the US, either).
While I agree with you that it's wrong, yours and my personal feelings on the matter do NOT equal law, nor do they equal the cultural norm worldwide.
Interesting, but true. Probably the reason 3/4 of the people think its bad is because society (ours) has taught them to think that.
 
Jan 31, 2002
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Originally posted by: Krakerjak
She is a tad young for him.
Some people need to get used to the fact that the average american loses their virginity at the age of 16, and that people this age are becoming sexually active earlier and earlier. Obviously these young girls, considering their age, don't see the situation the same way as the 20+ year old here and don't limit their dating options to those within their age groups.


Not everywhere in the world it's not (and it might not be illegal everywhere in the US, either).
While I agree with you that it's wrong, yours and my personal feelings on the matter do NOT equal law, nor do they equal the cultural norm worldwide.
Interesting, but true. Probably the reason 3/4 of the people think its bad is because society (ours) has taught them to think that.

It's not that the girls are having sex at 16, 14 - or whatever - it's that the guys they're doing it with are 20, 22, or older. Can't these assholes get girls their own age, or do they have to stoop to having sex with children. Yes, these are children. I don't know any culture that would consider 14 a "fully privledged adult".

- M4H
 

CrowDog

Golden Member
Jun 7, 2001
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In prison he would be considered a Rape-O (sex offender). They would put him in protective custody for his own safety......

The analogy of the 30rr old women with a 50yr old man means nothing...thier both adults. At 14 you are still a child.....hes a Rape-O and needs to be protected from people like me.....people that would kill him if givin the chance...
 

It's not that the girls are having sex at 16, 14 - or whatever - it's that the guys they're doing it with are 20, 22, or older. Can't these assholes get girls their own age, or do they have to stoop to having sex with children. Yes, these are children. I don't know any culture that would consider 14 a "fully privledged adult".

- M4H
Just about everyone but America's?
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Krakerjak
She is a tad young for him.
Some people need to get used to the fact that the average american loses their virginity at the age of 16, and that people this age are becoming sexually active earlier and earlier. Obviously these young girls, considering their age, don't see the situation the same way as the 20+ year old here and don't limit their dating options to those within their age groups.


Not everywhere in the world it's not (and it might not be illegal everywhere in the US, either).
While I agree with you that it's wrong, yours and my personal feelings on the matter do NOT equal law, nor do they equal the cultural norm worldwide.
Interesting, but true. Probably the reason 3/4 of the people think its bad is because society (ours) has taught them to think that.

It's not that the girls are having sex at 16, 14 - or whatever - it's that the guys they're doing it with are 20, 22, or older. Can't these assholes get girls their own age, or do they have to stoop to having sex with children. Yes, these are children. I don't know any culture that would consider 14 a "fully privledged adult".

- M4H

I provided an Age of Consent link earlier in the thread. While that link doesn't define "fully priviledged", it does specify a certain "priviledge"..
 

compudog

Diamond Member
Apr 25, 2001
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Not cool. 8 years difference isn't the problem. 14 years old is... Too young to be dating a 22 year old.
 

xSauronx

Lifer
Jul 14, 2000
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Originally posted by: caitlion
Originally posted by: Schadenfroh
one of my friends that is a girl says her ex boyfriend is dating a 14 year old. She is 17 and her ex is 22. Her and her ex are still in contact. The 22 year old was talking about the 14 year olds feet and stuff and im like what the hell does the the guy have for her feet. I mean, what do you guys think of a 22 year old dating a 14 year old? i mean, am i the only guy that thinks this is fvked?

i dont think he should have even dated the 17 year old :-/

 

Turin39789

Lifer
Nov 21, 2000
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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: ISO
That is disgusting ... and illegal.

Not everywhere in the world it's not (and it might not be illegal everywhere in the US, either). See: here..

While I agree with you that it's wrong, yours and my personal feelings on the matter do NOT equal law, nor do they equal the cultural norm worldwide.

I suppose in many places in the world a 22 year old male is not expected to be more mature than a 14 year old girl .

Bully! Bully!
 
Jan 31, 2002
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Originally posted by: SammySon
Just about everyone but America's?

Hey, don't be leaving out America-Lite. We hate diddlers up here in Canada too. And frankly, compared to the problems of the rest of the world, I think America's pretty well off.

- M4H
 

GhettoBlaster

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Dec 1, 2000
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This a bit of difference in age. I am 21 and I was hanging out with a girl that was 17 and it never really worked out cause there wasn't much to have in common. I am a senior in college and worrying about real world type stuff for the near future while she is worried about the Intro to Biology exam. Other than a sexual attraction I can't see a 22 and a 14 year old having much in common. A 22 year old has to worry about stuff like rent, a job, school(if in college) and bills. A 14 year old's biggest worry is who she is going to the homecoming dance with.
 

Descartes

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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I remember being 13-15 and knowing girls who were having sex with older guys, and it still puzzles me how someone in their 20s would be able to withstand a 14yo girl long enough to copulate with her. He has some serious growing up to do, but calling him a rapist, child molester, or anything else like that is a horribly emoted response, imo.

It really makes you wonder what both of them are missing in their lives to bring them together. How is it possible for a 14yo to even be in a situation of continued privacy to copulate with a man of that age? Parents aren't doing their job these days...
 

Viper GTS

Lifer
Oct 13, 1999
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It all depends on the definition of "dating."

My g/f "dated" a 22 year old when she was 15 - He never touched her.

While I would still have to question WHY a 22 year old wants to date someone that age (some SERIOUS maturity issues) it does not become a legal problem until sexual contact is present.

If you'll notice on Perverted-Justice, the guys they bust express the desire to have sex with the PJ staff - That is the difference between someone who is immature & someone who is a pedophile.

Viper GTS
 
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