Looks like you found a reason why men and women choose different careers there. Men are more willing to sacrifice by taking crappy/hard jobs in order to provide for their family.
Traditional gender roles at work.
Willing is not the same as choosing. Again, that is an example of coercion.
Nehalem256,
The only answer I can give you regarding my beliefs is because, like everyone else, my knowledge and personal experiences have led me to the conclusion that gender is less a factor in restricting individual liberty than are social/cultural institutions. I've seen men and women excel in a variety of roles. For example, I went to training with
this woman while I was pursuing a career as an Air Force officer. During our version of basic training, I saw her successfully marshal 350 cadets to complete training objectives in an extremely intense environment that was specifically designed to have the person leading it fail. She was exceptional far before she became an officer and successfully lead people in battle, which earned her that award. I mean, really, that's what beliefs boil down to: our knowledge and experiences. You may judge me and toss labels if it suits you, that is your right, but I am not ashamed of who I am or what I believe.
Psychologically speaking gender differences have been vastly exaggerated. Research today demonstrates that the brains of each gender are neurologically nearly identical. The differences can be explained as environmental effects that impact brain development. For example, women are taught to be more emotionally expressive, so certain areas of the brain develop differently. I'll ignore the issue of transgenderism for the moment, which throws a lot of unique challenges at the idea of traditional gender roles. Physically speaking each gender conveys unique strengths and limitations, but as I indicated above I have seen women excel in physically demanding roles.
The reason I support gender equality (and equality across the board) is because these social/cultural institutions harm not only women, but men as well. We could argue who is harmed more, but at the end of the day both sides are being hurt. Men are discouraged or prevented from pursuing certain areas of life or career fields because they are "women's roles." For example, stay-at-home fathers are frowned upon. I'm a male therapist, which usually raises a few eyebrows. Men receive all sorts of messages about needing to be "strong" and to restrict their emotional expressions, which over the long term causes substantial psychological harm. Similarly, women are prevented from tearing down certain barriers and face tremendous discrimination for being in a "man's field." I am not suggesting that I want everyone running around crying in the street, I am merely stating that denying aspects of our humanity does not do us any favors. It all too frequently ends in death via suicide.
At the end of the day these discourses ultimately hurt the vast majority of both men and women. The only individuals helped are the minority who are interested in maintaining traditional discourses for their own gain. And to me, sacrificing greater happiness for the majority in order to please the few is not beneficial towards society as a whole.
I will point out a final time that you have again attributed beliefs to me that I do not possess. I am not one who believes a woman should not allowed to be a mother and be forced to pursue a career. There is nothing wrong with being a mom. It's a challenging, essential, and wonderful role and if that is a person's decision I respect it. If anything I believe we should make motherhood easier by supporting programs that make it more manageable, especially for single moms.