I am trying to catch up in this thread and am at this post of yours to which I feel a need to stop reading and respond to. I think you are a good and well intentioned person. I think you get screwed miss seeing how what some call pedantic inclinations, what I would call a fixation on some particular tree makes you miss the forest or the larger context in which you speak. I understand your point but your need to make sure everybody gets it kind of makes everything get off more important points. Not everybody is patient and willing to deal with that. Some of us are better at it, I think. I also know that having been described in a way that may be hard for you to actually see or agree with has caused you to test and seek deeper understanding. Personally, I don't really like people making fun of you. Hope this helps.
But I was not trying to talk about the larger context. I was answering a simple question. A question which seemed to be misunderstanding what the indictment was about. If I were not fixated on my point, then I would be accused of deflecting and buckshitting. If I stick to it, I'm pedantic but also more likely to stay on the original thing I wanted to talk about, so I choose to do the 2nd most often.
As for people making fun of me, meh. This is a tech forum where I am talking about non tech issues with people that I dont really know. I would assume I would get along with the vast majority of people here in RL, but, online people act differently. I do the same as the way I dig and pick at topics is to get to the things I'm interest in. Doing that type of thing in RL annoys people so I don't do it. So if people want to insult me, go ahead so long as you are staying on topic. I'm sure I might get upset a few times as I'm human, but generally I don't take it too personal. If people want to vent and take out their frustrations but keep on topic or having a good conversation then I'm game.