My wife left me tonight.

[mcveigh]

We've been married almost 3 years. she is living at her parents with the kids. She wants to take up to a year to try and see if things will improve. She feels I'm not there for her and I spend too much time on the computer. I work 2 jobs, 3 nights a week in a Sleep clinic, working with people with sleeping disorders and the other days I have my own computer business, usually on the road going to business locations. it's hard trying to balance everything.

For those that pray please pray for us. I still love her.:brokenheart:

 

[Ronin]

Good luck, man :| I hope things resolve themselves.

 

[clamum]

Sorry to hear that. I hope things take a turn for the better for you in the future.

 

[Zim Hosein]

Good luck mcveigh :beer:

 

[pulse8]

Wow...that sucks

I can understand her feelings, but it doesn't sound like divorce is the answer. I hope it all works out well in the end.

 

[Ranger X]

Does taking time off ever help couples? I think it would draw them further apart but that's just me.

Stay strong and don't let this stop you from living your life.

 

[Chompman]

Originally posted by: mcveigh
She feels I'm not there for her and I spend too much time on the computer.

And yet you are posting here when you should be with her?

 

[Zim Hosein]

Originally posted by: Chompman

Originally posted by: mcveigh
She feels I'm not there for her and I spend too much time on the computer.

And yet you are posting here when you should be with her?

:roll:

 

[AgentEL]

good luck

 

[shiner]

Does she work or is she a housemom?

 

[Slappy00]

man what a downer...

My gf had a guy friend (i went to their reception) and they got married. Anyways they moved out to a farm somewhere and the guy worked as an EMT while she was going to law school. As soon as she finished school she diveorced him and went to live somewhere else.

The world has changed I guess... two generations ago divorce was frowned on now its just another speedbump in life I guess.

 

[BatmanNate]

Originally posted by: Ranger X
Does taking time off ever help couples? I think it would draw them further apart but that's just me.

Stay strong and don't let this stop you from living your life.

I've always thought that about time off and 'breaks' too. Doesn't seem like it would help the underlying issues, just alleviate them for the time being. Good luck guy, do what you need to do.

 

[Ausm]

She wants to take up to a year to try and see if things will improve

Which translates into she wants to bang another dude for a while...been through that before!!


Marriage sux ass!


Ausm

 

[mcveigh]

Originally posted by: Chompman

Originally posted by: mcveigh
She feels I'm not there for her and I spend too much time on the computer.

And yet you are posting here when you should be with her?

instead of sinking into despair I have a feeling of determination to get her back. I don't like to lose.

 

[rh71]

how could you do all that at once and still feel you love her ? You'd want to spend more time around her if you did, no ? Is money that tight ?

 

[Chompman]

Originally posted by: Ausm

She wants to take up to a year to try and see if things will improve

Which translates into she wants to bang another dude for a while...been through that before!!


Marriage sux ass!


Ausm

Or maybe she wants to try swinging the other way.

Who knows she could invite you then

 

[Azraele]

I'm sorry.

If she's feeling like you're not there for her, is there anything you can do to try to help that?

Had she communicated these feelings to you before now?

Best of luck to you. The road ahead is rough, but things will get better.

 

[neonerd]

thought this was a parody thread at first, cuz there was one a while ago where someone said their wife left them because they installed service pack 2....

sorry to hear it, hope everything works out for the best... have a cold :beer: for now

 

[silverpig]

Sorry to hear that man, but does she work at all? If not, why doesn't she get a job so you don't have to have 3?

 

[jjones]

That sucks. I hope it works out for you.

 

[Ausm]

Originally posted by: Chompman

Originally posted by: Ausm

She wants to take up to a year to try and see if things will improve

Which translates into she wants to bang another dude for a while...been through that before!!


Marriage sux ass!


Ausm

Or maybe she wants to try swinging the other way.

Who knows she could invite you then

Dude ,You are way off base I don't think this sh!t is funny at all!

Ausm

 

[Ameesh]

why dont you quit one of the jobs? Does she work?

 

[Chompman]

Originally posted by: Ausm

Originally posted by: Chompman

Originally posted by: Ausm

She wants to take up to a year to try and see if things will improve

Which translates into she wants to bang another dude for a while...been through that before!!


Marriage sux ass!


Ausm

Or maybe she wants to try swinging the other way.

Who knows she could invite you then

Dude ,You are way off base I don't think this sh!t is funny at all!

Ausm

Didn't sound like it

 

[randomlinh]

gl and best of luck my friend :beer:

 

[Megatomic]

I'm sorry mcveigh. My wife and I have been struggling to keep our marriage together for years now. We're winning but it's tough. Keep your chin up and don't forget how you feel about her. It's easy to lose that feeling when you are deep in despair.