Need help talking to girl...

[slikmunks]

Originally posted by: zCypher
You're asking for dating advice on a computer tech forum? Ask friends/family for advice based on their experiences.

IMO.

Edit: Put it this way, if we have to tell you what to say, your chances of botching up the job are 10x greater. If you improvise, your chances are much better..

that's pretty good advice other than that, just be yourself!

 

[AtomicDude512]

Ok, tell me if this is right:

1. Be myself, talk normally. But not soley about sports and video games.
2. Dont be a push-over and dont be her shadow. Dont make her feel like your are chasing her.
3. Ask about herself and what she likes.

Is this it?

 

[isasir]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She is really nice and is interested in much of the same things I am. Only problem is, because I never usually date girls I dont know how to start a good conversation. The only time I really talk to her is at the choir, when we just say hi.

Any suggestions from a dating expert???

C'mon dude, your answer lies in your first post. Somehow you know she's interested in the same things you are, be it the choir, or music or whatever. Just use that to start your conversation, figure out what you talk to your male friends about (filtering out the women and flatulence discussions) and see if you two have other interests. School alone should provide ample conversation (complaining about math or the fight at your school the other day, or whatever)

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: RishiS

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She is really nice and is interested in much of the same things I am. Only problem is, because I never usually date girls I dont know how to start a good conversation. The only time I really talk to her is at the choir, when we just say hi.

Any suggestions from a dating expert???

C'mon dude, your answer lies in your first post. Somehow you know she's interested in the same things you are, be it the choir, or music or whatever. Just use that to start your conversation, figure out what you talk to your male friends about (filtering out the women and flatulence discussions) and see if you two have other interests. School alone should provide ample conversation (complaining about math or the fight at your school the other day, or whatever)

LOL! You are quite right. Thanks for pointing that out to me.

 

[isasir]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512

Originally posted by: RishiS

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She is really nice and is interested in much of the same things I am. Only problem is, because I never usually date girls I dont know how to start a good conversation. The only time I really talk to her is at the choir, when we just say hi.

Any suggestions from a dating expert???

C'mon dude, your answer lies in your first post. Somehow you know she's interested in the same things you are, be it the choir, or music or whatever. Just use that to start your conversation, figure out what you talk to your male friends about (filtering out the women and flatulence discussions) and see if you two have other interests. School alone should provide ample conversation (complaining about math or the fight at your school the other day, or whatever)

LOL! You are quite right. Thanks for pointing that out to me.

Basically just combine this with good listening skills (women generally do like to talk more than men), which shouldn't be a problem for you, since you seem to like her for her *gasp* mind, and you should be fine.

 

[ohtwell]

Originally posted by: RishiS

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512

Originally posted by: RishiS

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She is really nice and is interested in much of the same things I am. Only problem is, because I never usually date girls I dont know how to start a good conversation. The only time I really talk to her is at the choir, when we just say hi.

Any suggestions from a dating expert???

C'mon dude, your answer lies in your first post. Somehow you know she's interested in the same things you are, be it the choir, or music or whatever. Just use that to start your conversation, figure out what you talk to your male friends about (filtering out the women and flatulence discussions) and see if you two have other interests. School alone should provide ample conversation (complaining about math or the fight at your school the other day, or whatever)

LOL! You are quite right. Thanks for pointing that out to me.

Basically just combine this with good listening skills (women generally do like to talk more than men), which shouldn't be a problem for you, since you seem to like her for her *gasp* mind, and you should be fine.

Exactly! Just encourage her to talk. Women love to talk.


: ) Amanda

 

[AtomicDude512]

...like her for her *gasp* mind, and you should be fine.

Whats wrong with that, may I ask?

 

[isasir]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512

...like her for her *gasp* mind, and you should be fine.

Whats wrong with that, may I ask?

Heh, nothing man. You're posting on Anandtech Off-Topic, where most of the girl threads concern physical appearances of women. Your thread doesn't.

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: RishiS

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512

...like her for her *gasp* mind, and you should be fine.

Whats wrong with that, may I ask?

Heh, nothing man. You're posting on Anandtech Off-Topic, where most of the girl threads concern physical appearances of women. Your thread doesn't.

I admit that a couple of years ago I went for girls based on looks, but now my tastes have evolved. Not that good looking isnt bad.

 

[HomeBrewerDude]

Originally posted by: ohtwell

Originally posted by: Eli
Just talk to her. Be yourself. Seriously.

I mean, what else is there to do? You don't want to put on an act..

I agree! Start off by asking her about herself. Most girls like that because it makes them feel as if you are actually interested in them.


: ) Amanda

See bold above! ROFL!

 

[AtomicDude512]

As I said before, she has wonderful mind.

 

[LaLaLand]

Catch her sitting down if possible and just pull it out and place it on her shoulder. She'll understand.

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: LaLaLand
Catch her sitting down if possible and just pull it out and place it on her shoulder. She'll understand.

Ummm. I dont think that would make for a good start.

 

[LaLaLand]

Originally posted by: LordMaul
because I never usually date girls I dont know how to start a good conversation

Act just as you would if you were asking a guy out, then, in your case.

LMAO jsut as i was thinking

 

[LaLaLand]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

EDIT: Shes not unbelivably slim, put it that way...

LMAO, dude she's fat AND ugly.

Even you couldn't screw this up, hit that shEEt.

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
We both homeschool...

More proof that homeschooling is just wrong.............

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: LaLaLand

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

EDIT: Shes not unbelivably slim, put it that way...

LMAO, dude she's fat AND ugly.

Even you couldn't screw this up, hit that shEEt.

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
We both homeschool...

More proof that homeschooling is just wrong.............

LALA, you are really offending me. Bug off, OK?