Need help talking to girl...

[Keego]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
Only problem is, because I never usually date girls I dont know how to start a good conversation.....

So who else do you date?

 

[IBuyUFO]

The rule for a successful relationship is to talk about yourself. The more you talk about yourself the better. She wants to say something then just put up your finger and tell her to be quiet cause you're talking. That way you show her that you're confident and that you don't take any BS from anyone!

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: TourGuide

Yes. Definitely. It's definitely impossible to think about or consider anything else! Booty rules all. Booty pwns j00 too! ...... get your sarcasm-o-meter fixed.

I think you missed my point, I'm with you on this. He says - "I AM NOT OUT TO MAKE LOVE TO HER." and everyone here is going - ahhh, yah. THAT is why it is so important for you to have a deep and meaningful conversation with her. Not because you'd like to knock her down and poke her, but because you want to communicate with her. Yeah, that is it.

At least someone here understands...

 

[pgebhard]

"Dude it might pop up soon as she starts talking to you!"

Hrmm...I think that a little sexual there, huh... He said he isnt out to do that, jeez.

 

[jaydee]

"I like your ears"

 

[AtomicDude512]

She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

EDIT: Shes not unbelivably slim, put it that way...

 

[rawoutput]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

She probably knows this and will put out easier, since thats what your after if I understand this thread correctly. She'll probably be thrilled that a guy is talking to her, ask her out for ice cream bars or whatever choir people eat and your golden from there!

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: ElFenix

Originally posted by: ohtwell

Originally posted by: idNut
Are you always so perky and happy?

Yes!

: ) Amanda

perky is good

LOL!

Dude, Amanda's gonna hurt you for that one...

But yes, perky is indeed good...

Hopper

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: zCypher
Don't listen to this *man-to-hug-and-kiss* P).. we're ALL suggesting you want to get in her pants.

Why else would you want to talk to her?

Because he wants, oh I don't know, maybe a REAL relationship.

If that develops, "getting in her pants", as you so colorfully put it, will happen in due course.

Then again, when I was 16, that was all I could think about, so what would I know.

Hopper

 

[ohtwell]

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27

Originally posted by: ElFenix

Originally posted by: ohtwell

Originally posted by: idNut
Are you always so perky and happy?

Yes!

: ) Amanda

perky is good

LOL!

Dude, Amanda's gonna hurt you for that one...

But yes, perky is indeed good...

Hopper

Why would I hurt him for that? I agree that perky is good.


: ) Amanda

 

[DaiShan]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She is really nice and is interested in much of the same things I am. Only problem is, because I never usually date girls I dont know how to start a good conversation. The only time I really talk to her is at the choir, when we just say hi.

Any suggestions from a dating expert???

My take on the whole dating thing is, what do you have to lose? Just ask, you get may get shot down a lot, but you will always have a date on sat night...

 

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

by what standards? If you are going by the standards of this forum, unattractive usually means hot, and hot means god-like IRL.

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: FallenHero

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

by what standards? If you are going by the standards of this forum, unattractive usually means hot, and hot means god-like IRL.

Umm...my standards, not yours. I wasnt looking for a comparison on body types, just some advice.

 

[PunDogg]

Originally posted by: rawoutput

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

She probably knows this and will put out easier, since thats what your after if I understand this thread correctly. She'll probably be thrilled that a guy is talking to her, ask her out for ice cream bars or whatever choir people eat and your golden from there!

Yeah dude, ask out for some ice cream or something like that

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: PunDogg

Originally posted by: rawoutput

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

She probably knows this and will put out easier, since thats what your after if I understand this thread correctly. She'll probably be thrilled that a guy is talking to her, ask her out for ice cream bars or whatever choir people eat and your golden from there!

Yeah dude, ask out for some ice cream or something like that

We both homeschool...

 

[PricklyPete]

Originally posted by: Eli
Just talk to her. Be yourself. Seriously.

I mean, what else is there to do? You don't want to put on an act..

Listen to Eli...just be yourself.

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

ouch...

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: Yield

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
She isnt physically attractive, but mentally...

ouch...

OUCH?! :| I dont want to be stuck with a dumb blonde...

 

[chipy]

Don't get too emotionally into it in the beginning, just in case it doesn't work out. I don't want to get you down or anything, but it happened to me and it hurt. So just take it nice and slow . . . make casual talk... "how's it going?" "Have you seen that movie...?" "I went to that presentation, it was great!" And if it doesn't seem like it's getting anywhere, I would stop. Why? Because if you keep dreaming about her, in the end you're gonna be really disappointed when it doesn't turn out the way you wanted. But we can only hope for the best. Good luck, have fun, and like the other guy said, be yourself.

Chipy

 

[AtomicDude512]

Because if you keep dreaming about her, in the end you're gonna be really disappointed when it doesn't turn out the way you wanted. But we can only hope for the best. Good luck, have fun, and like the other guy said, be yourself.

Chipy

Good point, thanks.

 

[AtomicDude512]

I DONT WANT TO SPARK A RELIGIOUS CONFLICT HERE.

::edited:: How would this go over?

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
I DONT WANT TO SPARK A RELIGIOUS CONFLICT HERE.

::edited:: How would this go over?

Anyone?

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512

Originally posted by: AtomicDude512
I DONT WANT TO SPARK A RELIGIOUS CONFLICT HERE.

::edited:: How would this go over?

Anyone?

I didnt mean to offend anyone...

 

[ElFenix]

Originally posted by: ohtwell
Why would I hurt him for that? I agree that perky is good.


: ) Amanda

 

[AtomicDude512]

Originally posted by: ElFenix

Originally posted by: ohtwell
Why would I hurt him for that? I agree that perky is good.


: ) Amanda

You people are getting useless and if you dont stop a Moderator will block this thread, which I would prefer not to happen as I still want advice. So please, dont turn this into a Nef Fest.