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[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: wiredspider
I'm 17 (but will be 18 in just 2 weeks) and my bf is 23. I've got to say there is nothing wrong with it, if they are both mature about it.

your bf is a loser. he can't meet the expectations of girls his age, so he goes after younger girls who don't know any better.

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Shut the fsck up you fscking prick.

I mean what the hell?

Would you say the same thing if it was 28 and 33?

Don't be such an asshole, and grow up.

don't like the truth, eh? what the hell does a girl know at 17? absolutely nothing - she doesn't know enough about herself, let alone know enough about relationships to know what she wants. at 23, the guy is just a loser taking advantage of a younger girl, plain and simple. when i met my g/f (we were both 15) she was dating a 19 year old. at the time, she thought that the relationship was fine. but now (at 22) she see's how wrong it was.

that's the difference. at 17, the girl is young, immature, impreshionable, and thinks that it's "cool" to have an older bf. at 23, the guy should have enough of a brain to realize this and not be such a loser ass homo, get some balls, and learn how to satisfy a girl his own age. at 30 you can go ahead and date a 24 year old - the woman is, well.....a WOMAN. not a 17 yr old TEENAGER.


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[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: MuffD
I don't care if he looks 16 or younger, he's 23 and dating a minor. That's against the law! Can't he meet someone his own age? Assuming she was under 18.

Sorry, didn't read the whole thread, but....

Dating a minor is probably just fine. It's having sex with the minor that's the issue... (of course, the two just sort of go together)

Someone who is 23 and someone who is 16 just don't have a whole hell of a lot in common, and any kind of meaningful relationship is difficult/impossible.

How can you say that they dont have anything in common...
thats just close minded bs..
you dont know the people involved..
maybe in your life you have not met anyone 5 years younger that has your same intrests but to say that globally thats impossible?
thats just close minded and ignorant..
at 33 i have alot in common with people that are in thier 20s and up.. over 10 years and there is alot that clicks with peeps in the age range...

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: dabuddha

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: dabuddha

Uh no he wouldn't say the same thing BECAUSE IT'S NOT THE SAME THING. Anyone with half a brain cell can see that. The guy is a loser, plain and simple. He should stick with girls that are a tad bit closer to his age.

Says who? You? :roll:

I kindly disagree. Five years is five years. They're both adults, it doesen't fscking matter.

What the hell is wrong with you people?

You do realize that young adults have different levels of maturity, right? I would've never been able to date my girlfriend if she had the brain of a 13 year old at 17 when I met her.

If you like eachother and get along, what the hell is the big deal?.

You think being 16 makes you an adult? BWHAHAHAH WTF are you smoking and please pass it over!

Huh?! Where did I say that?

I thought we were talking about someone who was 17 and 2 weeks from turning 18 dating someone who is 23.

Yes, I consider that an adult.

Perhaps the OP needs to be more precise about the girl's age. He said he thinks she's between 16 and 18.

Regardless, the difference in age makes more of a difference the younger the 2 people involved are.
If a 18 year old started dating a 11 year old, that'd just be wrong. A 23 year old and a 16 year old is still wrong. A 29 year old and a 22 year old is better. And a 40 year old and a 33 year old is a lot better. Sorry I can't explain it to you if you don't understand.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: wiredspider
I'm 17 (but will be 18 in just 2 weeks) and my bf is 23. I've got to say there is nothing wrong with it, if they are both mature about it.

your bf is a loser. he can't meet the expectations of girls his age, so he goes after younger girls who don't know any better.

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Shut the fsck up you fscking prick.

I mean what the hell?

Would you say the same thing if it was 28 and 33?

Don't be such an asshole, and grow up.

don't like the truth, eh? what the hell does a girl know at 17? absolutely nothing - she doesn't know enough about herself, let alone know enough about relationships to know what she wants. at 23, the guy is just a loser taking advantage of a younger girl, plain and simple. when i met my g/f (we were both 15) she was dating a 19 year old. at the time, she thought that the relationship was fine. but now (at 22) she see's how wrong it was.

that's the difference. at 17, the girl is young, immature, impreshionable, and thinks that it's "cool" to have an older bf. at 23, the guy should have enough of a brain to realize this and not be such a loser ass homo, get some balls, and learn how to satisfy a girl his own age. at 30 you can go ahead and date a 24 year old - the woman is, well.....a WOMAN. not a 17 yr old TEENAGER.


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But where do you draw the line? Would it be OK if she was 18 and he was 24? I mean WTF?

You just don't go around saying stupid sh!t about people like that. You don't know him. Who are you to judge?

So am I a loser because I met my girlfriend when she was 16 and a month from turning 17 when I was 20? I sure as hell don't think so, and we've been in a healthy, happy relationship for 3 years now.

You are wrong. Why don't you just let people live their lives? Who are you to say that at 17, this girl is immature, impressionable and thinks that it is "cool" to have an older bf?

Asshole.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: wiredspider
I'm 17 (but will be 18 in just 2 weeks) and my bf is 23. I've got to say there is nothing wrong with it, if they are both mature about it.

your bf is a loser. he can't meet the expectations of girls his age, so he goes after younger girls who don't know any better.

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Shut the fsck up you fscking prick.

I mean what the hell?

Would you say the same thing if it was 28 and 33?

Don't be such an asshole, and grow up.

don't like the truth, eh? what the hell does a girl know at 17? absolutely nothing - she doesn't know enough about herself, let alone know enough about relationships to know what she wants. at 23, the guy is just a loser taking advantage of a younger girl, plain and simple. when i met my g/f (we were both 15) she was dating a 19 year old. at the time, she thought that the relationship was fine. but now (at 22) she see's how wrong it was.

that's the difference. at 17, the girl is young, immature, impreshionable, and thinks that it's "cool" to have an older bf. at 23, the guy should have enough of a brain to realize this and not be such a loser ass homo, get some balls, and learn how to satisfy a girl his own age. at 30 you can go ahead and date a 24 year old - the woman is, well.....a WOMAN. not a 17 yr old TEENAGER.


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Again with sweeping generalizations...
you cannot say this about every 17 year old on the planet..
I have met 17 year olds that carry wisdom and maturity well beyond thier years...
male and female..
then again I have met 17 year olds that i woulda swore were 5...

same goes for any age...
people mature at differnet rates..

 

[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: Eli
Asshole.

pedophile.


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[spidey07]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: MuffD
I don't care if he looks 16 or younger, he's 23 and dating a minor. That's against the law! Can't he meet someone his own age? Assuming she was under 18.

Sorry, didn't read the whole thread, but....

Dating a minor is probably just fine. It's having sex with the minor that's the issue... (of course, the two just sort of go together)

Someone who is 23 and someone who is 16 just don't have a whole hell of a lot in common, and any kind of meaningful relationship is difficult/impossible.

How can you say that they dont have anything in common...
thats just close minded bs..
you dont know the people involved..
maybe in your life you have not met anyone 5 years younger that has your same intrests but to say that globally thats impossible?
thats just close minded and ignorant..
at 33 i have alot in common with people that are in thier 20s and up.. over 10 years and there is alot that clicks with peeps in the age range...

But that has no bearing. In her 20s a lady is a woman (or quickly becoming one)

In teens, she's just a little girl. Its just sick for a twenty something to be with a little girl whose biggest concern in life is if Michelle is saying stuff to Tommy behind her back in english class.

Its just sick, man. Wrong. Disgusting. The fact that there are laws that discourage this kind of behavior should tell you something.

Ask this question on a board with adults on it and we'll see a BIG swing in how people respond.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli
Asshole.

pedophile.


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In Texas and California hes not.. if shes over 16...
so grow up...

 

[Ameesh]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli
Asshole.

pedophile.


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hey don't sh!t on Eli in this thread Yzzim is ATOT's resident grandmaster chimo, he dated a 13 year old when he was 18.

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli
Asshole.

pedophile.


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What the fsck? That was absolutely uncalled for. :|:|:|

Yeah, I'm a pedophile because I met a mature 17 year old when I was a whopping 3 years older at 20 and we fell in love. Right.

Again, why can't you just let people live their lives? I would agree with you if we were talking about a 13 year old, but you absolutely cannot say that about every teenager. WTF?

I have met 30 year old women that are less mature than my girlfriend.

You can take your sweeping generalizations about people under the age of 18 and shove them up your ass.

 

[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: Ameesh

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli
Asshole.

pedophile.


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hey don't sh!t on Eli in this thread Yzzim is ATOT's resident grandmaster chimo, he dated a 13 year old when he was 18.

i'm not even going to touch yzzim. his actions are punishable by death IMO.


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[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: Eli
Yeah, I'm a pedophile because I wanted to fvck a virgin 17 year old because i ejaculate prematurely and girls my age would laugh in my face? Right.

Again, why can't you just let people live their lives? I would agree with you if we were talking about a 13 year old, but you absolutely cannot say that about every teenager. WTF?

I have met 30 year old women that are less mature than my girlfriend.

You can take your sweeping generalizations about people under the age of 18 and shove them up your ass.

fixed.


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[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Ameesh

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli
Asshole.

pedophile.


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hey don't sh!t on Eli in this thread Yzzim is ATOT's resident grandmaster chimo, he dated a 13 year old when he was 18.

Chesterriffic. My youngest sister just turned 13 - thanks for the reminder to keep an eye out for the sick bastards.

/goes to sharpen his knives

- M4H

 

[CVSiN]

CENTRE ISLAND, New York (AP) -- Singer-songwriter Billy Joel married his fiancee, 23-year-old Kate Lee, in a ceremony Saturday at his Long Island mansion, his record label said
hes 55..

guess yall really hate this then...
this is ultimate cradle robbing..

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli
Yeah, I'm a pedophile because I wanted to fvck a virgin 17 year old because i ejaculate prematurely and girls my age would laugh in my face? Right.

Again, why can't you just let people live their lives? I would agree with you if we were talking about a 13 year old, but you absolutely cannot say that about every teenager. WTF?

I have met 30 year old women that are less mature than my girlfriend.

You can take your sweeping generalizations about people under the age of 18 and shove them up your ass.

fixed.


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Hey man, shut the fsck up. You've gone WAY too far with this.

For the record, we dated for 7 months before we had sex.

It has nothing to do with age. Absolutely nothing. It has everything to do with two individuals deciding that they like eachother. I dated an older woman before I met my current girlfriend.

So just shove it up your ass, OK?

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Why do you put so much imporance in an arbitrary number? It all depends on the persons maturity level. Like I said, there are older women with the maturity level of a teenager, just like there are teenagers with the maturity level of an older women. If you don't believe that, then you are blind.

Do you think I would have even given her a second look if she was a stupid ditzy teenager with the brain of an amoeba? Of course not.

Grow up.

 

[theNEOone]

Originally posted by: Eli
Grow up.

i would, but then you wouldn't want to fvck me anymore.


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[Eli]

Originally posted by: theNEOone

Originally posted by: Eli
Grow up.

i would, but then you wouldn't want to fvck me anymore.


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Grow up.

 

[CVSiN]

wow the moron meter is pegged today....
mr. neo the matrix wants you back...
more than I can say for us...

 

[azazyel]

Not to get in the middle of this but there is a huge difference between a 17yr old and a 23yr old. I am not sure if you have ever read them but the mindset list by Beloit makes me cringe

Text

For me my late teens and early 20's were the times that I changed/grew the most as a person. But hey if you think you can make it work good for you.


(16-18)
-in highschool
-live w/ parents
-involved in school activites/part time job
-planning on college
-planning senior trip/ Prom
-might have a credit card/ some bills
-does not drink or has to steal/bootleg alcohol


23+
-lived without parents for ~5 years
-pays bills (rent, phone, util, etc)
-graduated college
-has had sex with more than 5 people
-been able to buy booze for 2 years

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: CVSiN
CENTRE ISLAND, New York (AP) -- Singer-songwriter Billy Joel married his fiancee, 23-year-old Kate Lee, in a ceremony Saturday at his Long Island mansion, his record label said
hes 55..

guess yall really hate this then...
this is ultimate cradle robbing..

If you can't tell the difference then you really have no clue.

 

[maziwanka]

some of these responses are ridiculous - you cannot compare a 30 yr old dating a 24 yr old with a 23 yr old dating a 17 yr old.

if he's dating a 16 yr old he's an idiot and its just plain nasty. 19 yrs old would be better but she's still in hs no? ridiculous

 

[CVSiN]

How is that any less evil in your eyes?
she is only 23.. he is a 55 year old man..
that should be illegal..
how is a 23 year old dating a almost 18 year old any different?
you guys said it was intrests..

what could this 23 year old possibly have in common with Billy Joel... except maybe HIS MONEY...

I dont see the good vs bad line... here.. i see Billy Joel as much more the dirty old man than I see the posters friend...

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: PremiumG
23 year old dude i know is dating a girl who's at least 16 but doesn't look much older than 18 (if that). Is there a problem w/ that? He seems to like her and not just try to get into her pants.

YaCRT- Yet another Cradle Robbing thread

And if there's grass on the field, play ball!

 

[FoBoT]

that guy is a child molestor/sex offender

 

[Tom]

it might not be smart for a 17 year old to get too involved with anyone, regardless of age, depends on circumstances, but i don't think its any of my business, unless she's my daughter.

not sure why, but there seems to be an awful lot of people here that feel it's their place to decide all kinds of stuff for other people..