Originally posted by: AdamSnow
I gave one to my (now) Fiance when I was 20 and she was 18... she wanted something - and I was in no position in any way - especially financially to buy her a real engagement ring... we were both too young at the time anyway for that... so it was a cute, cheap way for her to show her friends and everyone else that she was taken...
It made her happy, looked great on her and only cost me about $200.00 so why not! If it puts a smile on her face for months on end while she patiently waits for the big one - I'm all for it.
Originally posted by: Crazyfool
Originally posted by: AdamSnow
I gave one to my (now) Fiance when I was 20 and she was 18... she wanted something - and I was in no position in any way - especially financially to buy her a real engagement ring... we were both too young at the time anyway for that... so it was a cute, cheap way for her to show her friends and everyone else that she was taken...
It made her happy, looked great on her and only cost me about $200.00 so why not! If it puts a smile on her face for months on end while she patiently waits for the big one - I'm all for it.
Exactly, and now I am looking at buying a cheap engagement ring. Luckily I have a friend in the biz but it's still gonna cost more than I can afford.
I've already told my grrl I will buy her a freaky rock once I am established and making mad bank. By that time I can afford a large flawless diamond and perhaps I can persuade her to put it towards another house, lol.
I find diamonds to be a very difficult investment and very few come out on top except the diamond dealers.
promise rings shouldn't be diamondsOriginally posted by: Scarpozzi
Well....my plan backfired.
I bought one of these on the October Zales coupon. The deal was about $150 fro a extremely small diamond ring. She loved it and asked what it meant....I told her it was a token of my affection, yada yada....
Now, she's been saying. I want a REAL ring now. So.....the moral of the story is....don't get a promise ring unless you're prepared to get a real one.
cigar band ftw!Originally posted by: anxi80
id just use a twisty-tie from a bag of bread or something.
Originally posted by: RGN
What does it mean when you grab her hand during the act and feel her promise ring?
Originally posted by: Crazyfool
Well, I got my grrl a promise ring only because I can't really afford a decent engagement ring yet and it made her happy. I consider myself engaged although I haven't actually formally proposed but there is no doubt what the answer would be.
I never looked highly on the promise ring deal until this so I can understand the negative but if you want to show your grrl she is yours until you can afford a proper ring I recommend it. :thumbsup: