I'm getting so annoyed by the fact that she always wants me to go over to her house. Yea she goes over mine as well, but I sleep over at hers...She can't sleep over at mine because her parents are more strict on her, but I can sleep at hers, go figure.
You're spending at least 5 days a week at her house and she is still complaing that you don't spend enough time with her? She sounds a bit...needy if you ask me. I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you that needy women do not become 'less needy' the more you devote yourself to them. Its never enough, if you crawled into her womb and spent the next 6 months in there, she'd find some way to complain that you're not spending enough time with her. That's my experience, anyway.
One of my girlfriends was clingy and needy. She ultimately wanted me to spend every waking free minute with her. For a while, I responded to her concerns because I loved her and at first she wasn't asking all that much, just a little more time here and there she said, but there was no end to it.
Before I knew it, I had cut all ties to my friends and was spending 95% of my free time outside of work and school with her and she still wanted that 5% she didn't have. She twisted all of our discussions and disagreements into "well if you loved me you would want to spend your time with me", or she'd lay the 'I need you' sympathy bit on me, which made me feel guilty so I'd keep caving in.
Ultimately, I got to a point where I couldn't stand the sight of her and I'd look for any excuse to start a fight so I could go home and just be someone who wasn't surgically attached at the hip to someone else. Hell, 95% of all MARRIED couples don't spend that much time together.
Finally, I told her that I wanted my own time and if that was going to be a problem, then there is no point in continuing the relationship because I am the way I am and I wasn't going to change. We broke up and it was like...FREE!!! I can pick my nose in private if I want without someone being there to say "don't pick your nose".