Where women are concerned anyway. And I don't mean by being dumped or rejected. Those don't count as regrets in my book at all. My regrets involve women that could have been, but were not because of my own inaction. Here're two that stand out:
Blond real-estate lady about 25. I'd been chasing after her for about a year. We went on dates, movies, dinners, baseball games, etc. Thats all..nothing intimate. I was beginning to think her a lost cause. One day I promised to help install a burgler alarm system in her new apartment. Friday night I had a hot date that turned into an all-nighter(some other woman). Showed up at this blond's apt. Saturday morning beat as hell, tired, could hardly walk. She greets me at the door in a skimpy outfit, horny as hell. On a quick decision, I say "Lets get this alarm done" then we'll have the rest of the day. Need-less-to-say, when the alarm was installed, she wasn't horny anymore. I never had another opportunity with that woman again....I regret that one big-time.
Two sisters about 25 and 29. I dated the older one when she was 21, chased her for a long time. She got married and divoced. I started going out with her again. But by then I was just a friend to her, nothing more. I still had my hopes though. Now her sister gets divorced...I'm hauling the two of them around. Baseball games, bars, country music dance halls, etc. I've known this younger sister since she was a kid..even taught her to drive a car. The three of us are in a bar one day...it's late, I'm leaving. The younger sister wants me to walk her back to her car....older sister stays behind with some other friends. The younger sister throws herself on me, wants me to follow her home. Dummy me, still faithful to the older sister, turn her down. Well it turns out I never had another opportunity with either sister. Although I still chase after the older one...stupid.
Moral of all this....When you get the chance, go for it. You could very well spend a life-time regreting your inaction. I do.
Blond real-estate lady about 25. I'd been chasing after her for about a year. We went on dates, movies, dinners, baseball games, etc. Thats all..nothing intimate. I was beginning to think her a lost cause. One day I promised to help install a burgler alarm system in her new apartment. Friday night I had a hot date that turned into an all-nighter(some other woman). Showed up at this blond's apt. Saturday morning beat as hell, tired, could hardly walk. She greets me at the door in a skimpy outfit, horny as hell. On a quick decision, I say "Lets get this alarm done" then we'll have the rest of the day. Need-less-to-say, when the alarm was installed, she wasn't horny anymore. I never had another opportunity with that woman again....I regret that one big-time.
Two sisters about 25 and 29. I dated the older one when she was 21, chased her for a long time. She got married and divoced. I started going out with her again. But by then I was just a friend to her, nothing more. I still had my hopes though. Now her sister gets divorced...I'm hauling the two of them around. Baseball games, bars, country music dance halls, etc. I've known this younger sister since she was a kid..even taught her to drive a car. The three of us are in a bar one day...it's late, I'm leaving. The younger sister wants me to walk her back to her car....older sister stays behind with some other friends. The younger sister throws herself on me, wants me to follow her home. Dummy me, still faithful to the older sister, turn her down. Well it turns out I never had another opportunity with either sister. Although I still chase after the older one...stupid.
Moral of all this....When you get the chance, go for it. You could very well spend a life-time regreting your inaction. I do.