sleeping together without sex

[adlai]

So I was in this weird situation recently. I had a one night stand with a girl, and I tried to string that into a reasonable relationship. Then, after a week and 2 encounters, we're in bed together and about to get it on, and she says to me, "I don't want to get hurt again" (re: old boyfriend), turns around, and goes to sleep! I guess there was some sort of communication problem or something: it ended up we slept together w/o sex for about 3 weeks. then I broke it off because I just couldn't take it anymore, and she doesn't understand why.

 

[Anubis]

impatient you are, good things come to those that wait

 

[Safeway]

Yes, I have slept with my girlfriend without sex.

You are just a horny idiot And a womanizer.

 

[dabuddha]

It'll be common when you get married.

 

[Safeway]

Originally posted by: dabuddha
It'll be common when you get married.

Yea The joys in life I get to look forward to.

 

[95SS]

She had something better on the side.

 

[J0hnny]

Originally posted by: Safeway
Yes, I have slept with my girlfriend without sex.

You are just a horny idiot And a womanizer.

How is he a womanizer when he slept with her w/o sex for almost 3 weeks! Every guy has needs and that woman didn't meet them.

Kick her to the curb where she belongs!

 

[Safeway]

Originally posted by: J0hnny

Originally posted by: Safeway
Yes, I have slept with my girlfriend without sex.

You are just a horny idiot And a womanizer.

How is he a womanizer when he slept with her w/o sex for almost 3 weeks! Every guy has needs and that woman didn't meet them.

Kick her to the curb where she belongs!

She was emotionally unstable. Boot her for her excess baggage, not because she didn't put out.

 

[0roo0roo]

she's sexually dead i guess

 

[sao123]

Originally posted by: Anubis
impatient you are, good things come to those that wait

QFAT

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: sao123

Originally posted by: Anubis
impatient you are, good things come to those that wait

QFAT

QFAT=?

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Safeway
Yes, I have slept with my girlfriend without sex.

You are just a horny idiot And a womanizer.

qft!

 

[Pepsei]

when you get married, prepare for months without sex.

 

[pepo]

Originally posted by: dabuddha
It'll be common when you get married.

haha...

Single and lonely or Married and bored there ain't no happines nowhere

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: Safeway
Yes, I have slept with my girlfriend without sex.

You are just a horny idiot And a womanizer.

QFT

Sometimes you gotta give it time before the girl is comfy with you. Not all girls are mindless sex slaves.

 

[pepo]

Originally posted by: Pepsei
when you get married, prepare for months without sex.

I am not married but you sound like there are times like "The Great Depression"

 

[PingSpike]

You can't retract the sex after a precedent of sex has been established. That calls into question the reliability of all aspects of the relationship! Plus you don't get any sex.

Did she bother giving you any further explaination than "I don't want to get hurt again"?

 

[Otaking]

Originally posted by: dabuddha
It'll be common when you get married.

Yeah, I'm already gettin that

 

[AmphibSailor]

Originally posted by: Pepsei
when you get married, prepare for months without sex.

Beat me to it....

 

[Pepsei]

Originally posted by: PingSpike
You can't retract the sex after a precedent of sex has been established. That calls into question the reliability of all aspects of the relationship! Plus you don't get any sex.

Did she bother giving you any further explaination than "I don't want to get hurt again"?

ha ha you sound like Larry David writing for George Costanza. :thumbsup:

 

[Pepsei]

Originally posted by: AmphibSailor

Originally posted by: Pepsei
when you get married, prepare for months without sex.

Beat me to it....

yeah times like that there's a lot of beating around the bush.

 

[Fritzo]

Originally posted by: adlai
sleeping together without sex

The technical term for this is called "marriage"

 

[JonnyStarks]

Yeah I've done it. So?

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: adlai
So I was in this weird situation recently. I had a one night stand with a girl, and I tried to string that into a reasonable relationship. Then, after a week and 2 encounters, we're in bed together and about to get it on, and she says to me, "I don't want to get hurt again" (re: old boyfriend), turns around, and goes to sleep! I guess there was some sort of communication problem or something: it ended up we slept together w/o sex for about 3 weeks. then I broke it off because I just couldn't take it anymore, and she doesn't understand why.

smartest thing you ever did! Relationships that start with sex are doomed for failure.

 

[AdamSnow]

I sleep with my girlfriend every night, and it does not happen every night...

Becomes less important the longer the relationship is... It happens when it happens