sleeping together without sex

[MikeMike]

i slept with my now current gf the first date we went out on and we did nothing, kissed maybe, but nothing. and it took about a month before we had sex, but we would still sleep together. its not that difficult. jesus ppl.

 

[Willoughbyva]

Relationships are about more than sex. One of the main things for women is an emotional connection. If I was serious about a girl I would not sleep with her for a while after first getting together. One of my priorities is to figure out if we are compatable on other levels. Sex is important, but not the most important thing. I think loyalty and caring are the most important things in a relationship. Granted there are limits to everything, but i want someone who has my back and won't run off at the first sign of trouble.

 

[summit]

j00 got pwn3d

 

[mi xiao]

Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
That's exactly what i meant to say... the insurance part means that he shouldn't have a confrontation with her, he should just gradually fall off the side of the planet... I mean she still hangs out with him (in the same bed, haha) meaning she enjoys his company (perhaps only platonically), by making himself scarce he can increase his novelity... who knows there could be a friday night 3-4 weeks down the road when she has nothing to do, flips her phone open, browses her phone book and gives this guy a call...

Bottom line, stop calling her, find some new prospects.

you know the way of the womens, eh?

 

[Jadow]

"I don't want to get hurt again

maybe she means your hardware is too big and it physically hurt her the first time you did it

 

[mi xiao]

Originally posted by: Jadow
"I don't want to get hurt again

maybe she means your hardware is too big and it physically hurt her the first time you did it

riiiight....

 

[ifoundthetao]

Originally posted by: adlai
So I was in this weird situation recently. I had a one night stand with a girl, and I tried to string that into a reasonable relationship. Then, after a week and 2 encounters, we're in bed together and about to get it on, and she says to me, "I don't want to get hurt again" (re: old boyfriend), turns around, and goes to sleep! I guess there was some sort of communication problem or something: it ended up we slept together w/o sex for about 3 weeks. then I broke it off because I just couldn't take it anymore, and she doesn't understand why.

hey man, just to let you know, i have found that trying to "string" a relationship out of a one night stand is pretty hard. like, i find myself lacking respect for a chick that would have a one night stand.. especially with me! and i *obviously* see the sick double standard.. but like, back in my "wilder" days.. there were chicks and slucks.. chicks were for dating, and sluts were for banging.. obviously that isn't how i do things now.. but every relationship i've tried to wrangle from a one night stand, or even a relationship where we had sex very very quickly has ended up in ruin. i would find my attention elsewhere, and i am not that interested in the chick.. its because i was living for the moment.. ya know? i wasnt letting my feelings mature for her... so we ended up missing out on a lot of special times.. plus, once you have sex things definitely change. especially right after you have sex.. because like, you've opened the gates to sex.. anyone else have any experiences like that?

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Fritzo

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: Fritzo

Originally posted by: adlai
sleeping together without sex

The technical term for this is called "marriage"

man yall got some crappy marriages...
we were married for 10 years and were still doing it 3-4 times a day still!

man i cant imagine a sexless marriage.. im 34 and still want sex at least 3x a day..
maybe im just a sexaholic..

:Q 3-4 times...A DAY???!!!! Either this is shens or you have some kind of hormone imbalance. Wow....she must be bowlegged!

he's out there...I can see at times 3-4 times a day, or we had sex a lot...but seriously for most people even if they want to, working 9-5 ish makes 3-4 times a DAY pretty difficult over a 10 year term.

However, he is mentioning it in past tense...probably a lot of delusions he had for her to bounce.

 

[amcdonald]

I've slept with plenty of girls without having sex

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: amcdonald
I've slept with plenty of girls without having sex

Metro?

 

[oogabooga]

a case of "my girlfriend isn't putting out, and * I * am not satisfied hence this isn't worth it".

I wonder if some people could maintain stable relationships if they wanted to given how unwilingly they are to yield or even communicate...

 

[Vich]

Originally posted by: Safeway
Yes, I have slept with my girlfriend without sex.

You are just a horny idiot And a womanizer.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: joshsquall

Originally posted by: mi xiao
any girl will want "the pipe" in a relationship or pre-relationship.
it is all part of a girl-insecurity thing (if he bags me, it means he wants me. wheee!)

Date a conservative Christian and then tell me that again.

Why the hell would anybody want to date a conservative Christian?

i can agree with how the chick could fit well into someone's life plan.

However, at anytime if the chick doesn't want sex eventually it's a deal breaker for me.

Any christian is free to have wanton abandon with their spouse. God will say "IT IS GOOD!" :beer::evil::beer:

 

[Geekbabe]

"sleeping together without sex ?"

yeah, it's called being married

 

[lavagirl669]

I've slept with a guy with no sex before.

We are great friends and nothing more. It was harmless
and neither of us expected any more than that.

 

[thirdlegstump]

Almost everyday I guess.

 

[shilala]

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
I've slept with a guy with no sex before.

We are great friends and nothing more. It was harmless
and neither of us expected any more than that.

No, you didn't expect any more than that. He did, but was too pussified to act on it.

 

[teckmaster]

my girlfriend and I tried that. We ended up having sex and have now been together over a year.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
"sleeping together without sex ?"

yeah, it's called being married

that's sux, want a married friend?

I still get it, just a little boring.

 

[ChooChooChooseMe]

Originally posted by: adlai
So I was in this weird situation recently. I had a one night stand with a girl, and I tried to string that into a reasonable relationship. Then, after a week and 2 encounters, we're in bed together and about to get it on, and she says to me, "I don't want to get hurt again" (re: old boyfriend), turns around, and goes to sleep! I guess there was some sort of communication problem or something: it ended up we slept together w/o sex for about 3 weeks. then I broke it off because I just couldn't take it anymore, and she doesn't understand why.

Are you sure it was a woman?

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: shilala

Originally posted by: lavagirl669
I've slept with a guy with no sex before.

We are great friends and nothing more. It was harmless
and neither of us expected any more than that.

No, you didn't expect any more than that. He did, but was too pussified to act on it.

pussified? sleeping (as in cuddling and nothing more) is a deal accepted by both sides.

you lost your *man*card even doubting it.

My advice is build up your WOW character and maybe live vicariously through it.

In reality both men and women are in the same boat, of cource you have to go *OUTSIDE*!

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: ChooChooChooseMe

Originally posted by: adlai
So I was in this weird situation recently. I had a one night stand with a girl, and I tried to string that into a reasonable relationship. Then, after a week and 2 encounters, we're in bed together and about to get it on, and she says to me, "I don't want to get hurt again" (re: old boyfriend), turns around, and goes to sleep! I guess there was some sort of communication problem or something: it ended up we slept together w/o sex for about 3 weeks. then I broke it off because I just couldn't take it anymore, and she doesn't understand why.

Are you sure it was a woman?

so how did waking up with a man go for you?

 

[LS20]

feels almost as good

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: dabuddha
It'll be common when you get married.

I've been married seven years and I don't have this problem.
Sure there are times when it's not viable, but we both regret it....

 

[Albis]

sure if you both pass out , there is no sex