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If he isn't lying then what is he doing? He is either mistaken or telling the truth.As I said before, you should not conclude he was lying. What makes my position different was that I also saw nothing to conclude he was telling the truth. We don't have to know why he did it to know that what he claimed was a lie. Now, it would be nice to have a motive, but, motive is not required.
What I and others tried to explain is that until there is evidence to show one way or another, that it was faulty to believe either. You seem to take the position that you should believe until proven otherwise. That is silly.
Turns out in this case he was lying. You can still believe someone yet wait for facts to come in before concluding case closed.
If you kids school sends you a note with some accusation and your child denies it, is your child lying? If it doesn't sound plausible I would be default to believing my child but still contact the school to get more details. If it turns out my child was lying there would be hell to pay, for the incident and lying about it.
Blacks, LGBTQ people and Hollywood empathized with the story. That was my position.
I had no problem with people not believing him. There were people in the above group who doubted the story. I had a problem with the same knee jerk cast of characters who never believe claims of black people. You know who they are in this forum.