Drag queen story hour is not a transgender controversy. You're conflating drag queens with trans people--do you think drag queens are trans? Most of them aren't. And a trans woman who puts on a dress is not a drag queen.
Are you saying you believe every person assigned male at birth is always better than every cis woman at every sport, forever? That doesn't seem to be what the small amount of available evidence shows. Perhaps we could allow the governing bodies of sports to develop their own rules?
The "Alliance Defending Freedom" is largely responsible for the amplification of the issue initially. I have some measure of personal experience with this, and the difference before and after their efforts was pretty striking. Conservatives didn't rabidly hate trans people until they were told to. Even the MAGA conservatives I was friends with pre-2020 before I moved generally followed the same typical mainstream behavior of "well, I don't get it, but okay" that most people do.
Leaked emails give a glimpse of the religious-right networks behind transgender health care bans.
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