My girlfriend has a twin sister and I swear all they do is fight. The thing that causes it mostly is they will come to an agreemnt on something, and then a few weeks later her sister will decide that she isnt satisfied with her end of the deal and demand more. Unfortunately my GF doesnt have much of a say in the matter because in this case, her sister holds the power.
Tiff (my gf) asks me what to do and I give her the best advice I can think of. A big part of me wants to sit Teresa (her sister) down and tell her exactly what I think about the situation. because as siblings sometimes do, each of them thinks that the other is trying to manipulate the situation. In this case my gf is clearly in the right.
Should I say something to her sister or just keep giving advice to my gf and stay neutral. I would appreciate anyone's advice who has had similar expereince when dealing with your SO's family matters. I of course want to help out my woman as much as possible, but messing with family issues waves a big red flag for me. I just dont want to feel as if there is somethign I can do, but I dont do anything for fear of getting my hands dirty.
Tiff (my gf) asks me what to do and I give her the best advice I can think of. A big part of me wants to sit Teresa (her sister) down and tell her exactly what I think about the situation. because as siblings sometimes do, each of them thinks that the other is trying to manipulate the situation. In this case my gf is clearly in the right.
Should I say something to her sister or just keep giving advice to my gf and stay neutral. I would appreciate anyone's advice who has had similar expereince when dealing with your SO's family matters. I of course want to help out my woman as much as possible, but messing with family issues waves a big red flag for me. I just dont want to feel as if there is somethign I can do, but I dont do anything for fear of getting my hands dirty.