Yesterday I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to go to this aquarium store with me today to look at some stuff for the reef aquarium we are setting up, she said sure. Knowing that she has to work at 4:30pm (and her job is a 40 minute drive), I'm thinking 11:00am-12:00pm or so is a good time to take off to the store.
So, I wake up around 9:45. I figure I'll let her sleep in until 11:00 or so, and then wake her up so we can leave. 11:15 rolls around, and I decide to wake her up. Immediately she gets pissed at me for trying to wake her, so I ask if she even still wants to go with me, she goes "no, I need to sleep." Whatever, I proceed to get ready to go. At Noon, after getting dressed, and messing around on the computer some more, I again ask if she wants to go, she still says no. I tell her fine, I can't stick around waiting for you to wake up, I have things to do. So I left.
I get home about ten minutes ago, and she's pissed at me for leaving. She's pissed that I took off and didn't spend the day with her. I go, "I gave you two opportunities to come with me, and you said no twice, plus you knew yesterday we were going, not like it was a surprise." I then ask her what she expects me to do, wait around until like 2:00pm when she decides to get out of bed so I can spend time with her? Her answer was that I should have waited for her to wake up, spent time with her, and then gone and done the stuff I needed to do after she left for work. She said she got up like 45 minutes after I left, and we could have spent time together. Well how was I supposed to know that? She was dead to the world at noon, pissed at me for waking her, and I'm supposed to wait around? For I know, she could have slept until like 3:00pm.
I can't believe her, the fact that she would get pissed at this is ridiculous. The fact she would expect me to sit around the house waiting for her to wake up is plain absurd. It's not like I was trying to get her up at 7:00am, it was noon!! And it's not like we never see each other, we live together and see each other every day.
Women sometimes, jeez. All you lonely young geeks on her pining for a girlfriend, give it up, sometimes a relationship can be more trouble than it's worth.
Thanks for listening to my rant, needed to vent.....
So, I wake up around 9:45. I figure I'll let her sleep in until 11:00 or so, and then wake her up so we can leave. 11:15 rolls around, and I decide to wake her up. Immediately she gets pissed at me for trying to wake her, so I ask if she even still wants to go with me, she goes "no, I need to sleep." Whatever, I proceed to get ready to go. At Noon, after getting dressed, and messing around on the computer some more, I again ask if she wants to go, she still says no. I tell her fine, I can't stick around waiting for you to wake up, I have things to do. So I left.
I get home about ten minutes ago, and she's pissed at me for leaving. She's pissed that I took off and didn't spend the day with her. I go, "I gave you two opportunities to come with me, and you said no twice, plus you knew yesterday we were going, not like it was a surprise." I then ask her what she expects me to do, wait around until like 2:00pm when she decides to get out of bed so I can spend time with her? Her answer was that I should have waited for her to wake up, spent time with her, and then gone and done the stuff I needed to do after she left for work. She said she got up like 45 minutes after I left, and we could have spent time together. Well how was I supposed to know that? She was dead to the world at noon, pissed at me for waking her, and I'm supposed to wait around? For I know, she could have slept until like 3:00pm.
I can't believe her, the fact that she would get pissed at this is ridiculous. The fact she would expect me to sit around the house waiting for her to wake up is plain absurd. It's not like I was trying to get her up at 7:00am, it was noon!! And it's not like we never see each other, we live together and see each other every day.
Women sometimes, jeez. All you lonely young geeks on her pining for a girlfriend, give it up, sometimes a relationship can be more trouble than it's worth.
Thanks for listening to my rant, needed to vent.....