Unixfreak is right

[UnixFreak]

Ok, Let me break it down for you.

I post a statement. In this statement, I post my (correct?) opinion about how men should act to attract women. I post THIS IS NOT JUST TO GET SEX, BUT APPLIES TO RELATIONSHIPS AS WELL.

People respond with replies, stating basically "you are all about screwing girls and dumping them" "your way only works if you are looking for sex" "you are telling us to have sex with girls, and leave them".

So I feel reposting the same thing 5 times might get the hint across that you people dont understand what I am saying, I am not trying to make it seem like its more true, by repeating it.




<< Nice guys get nice girls, not nasty bar skanks. >>



Nice guys pay lots of money for these &quot;nice girls&quot; and get used, 9 times out of 10. When someone like me bangs them on the second date, does that make them a bar skank? Just curious. Ask you current girlfreind about her ex's. When she says &quot;he was an @sshole' you know you are with a &quot;bar skank&quot;, at least by these standards. I thank you for throwing that in, nobody else in this thread was smart enough to make the generalization, there, saying I only sleep with bar skanks.

 

[SirFshAlot]

UnixFreak thinks he has this astounding insight that has eluded the rest of mankind.

If only he could step back and have an objective look at his principals.


Yes there are women who will jump jerks/arsholes/pricks.
That is not all women.
What does that tell you about those women?

To me, it fits well. Those women BELONG with those types of guys.
Keep it that way.

But to think that it's going to be that way with the entire gender of females is no more than bigotry at it's finest.
Narrowmindedness is nothing to be &quot;right&quot; about.

 

Yea, its like your telling us that water is wet.

You must be a genius! Do you do development for fbsd?

 

[UnixFreak]

<< What does that tell you about those women? >>



That they are bar skanks. Please remember, this covers every woman who has ever been attracted to a jerk. This could be your mother, sister, aunt, or girlfreind. all bar skanks.



<< You must be a genius! Do you do development for fbsd? >>



I may not be a genius, but I can read.

 

[Nil]

Everybody has their own way of doing things. UnixFreak isn't wrong (god, did I just say that!), women like a$$holes! My wife dated a$$holes her whole life until she met me, and even went back to one that used to hit her. She even asked me once to be mean to her so it would be easier for her to love me (still don't understand that one)!

Now, I'm not saying all women are like this, if your not consider yourself a rare and special bird, but I know lots that would rather be degraded than be showered with love.

 

[SirFshAlot]

This could be your mother, sister, aunt, or girlfreind.

troll-like statements do nothing for your biased, unsupported theory

in fact, those who read that and say to themselves, &quot;my mother, sister, et. al. don't fit that category&quot; can conclude that you are wrong, and therefore, your opinion must be wrong

 

[mikefromwa]

<< in fact, those who read that and say to themselves, &quot;my mother, sister, et. al. don't fit that category&quot; can conclude that you are wrong, and therefore, your opinion must be wrong >>



my mother doesnt fit that and i dont have a sister, but hes not wrong...not in the least

 

[Urinal Mint]

<< And Urinal mint, your petty insults would hurt a lot more, if you werent a pathetic crybaby. If one had to guess, they would probably say you were breast fed far past 8 years old. >>


I guess you missed the included in that post, which means it was meant in jest. I know for a fact now that you are just sputtering off pages of sh|t onto that yet-to-be-scoffed-at website. It's on geocities for Christ's sake, at least go register a domain like i_am_bullsh1tting_you.com or something. I have a feeling the website will be just a single page with that same paragraph you've pasted about 14 times in this thread alone, but in 36-pt blinking red font so that the point REALLY comes across.

I would imagine that you're the type of punk that the dude in this thread disposed of last weekend. Granted, you probably don't hit them, but the mental anguish you put them through is the same.

I'll say it again... the type of girl I want lives in a world where people respect one another. Your &quot;barefoot and pregnant&quot; mentality will end up hurting you a lot later. Yeah, you get tail now, but that doesn't mean your immature tactics will get you the woman of your dreams... unless she was on Springer last week.

Oh, btw, trying to use my depression as a ploy to get at me doesn't work. Have fun when life passes you by at 25.

 

[SirFshAlot]

women like a$$holes

if you were to simply add &quot;some&quot; to the front of that, it wouldn't reek of narrowminded stereotyping

but I know lots that would rather be degraded than be showered with love.

try getting to know more of the latter, then

your limited exposure to an element doesn't validate their nonexistance/existance

I've never encountered a wild tiger in the wilds, but that doesn't mean I can conclude that they don't exist.

 

[Urinal Mint]

BTW, I never said the guy was wrong either... I just wanted to point out the fact that while there are women out there willing to drop their pants for the first schmuck to tell them lies, there are another handful who know better and can discern quality from quantity.

Two schools of thought, and there are plenty of women who subscribe to each. Some to both. Plenty of room in the world for both of us, so this argument doesn't really need to take place, does it?

 

[mikefromwa]

i think its great reading while i work


just remember all these exceptions you guys speak about prove the rule, its really simple (and unixfreak is right, maybe he will post his statements again)

 

[Stark]

How is this thread still going? Unixfreak is going to feel like a legend after all this attention.

Yes, if you act like an ass you can screw sluts (and that's what they are). Also, if you have money or power, you can usually nail good looking, easy women. If you don't have money or power, you need to act like an ass.

If you aren't normally an ass, it probably won't work and women will see right through you, so don't bother. You'll have to settle for a woman who values herself and her relationships.

 

[Tauren]

I have never had a problem and I am a nice guy. IMHO - women want a man with confidence and a little arogance. Nothing says &quot;I'm a wuss&quot; better than a man who has no self esteem and is OVERLY sensitive. Ego-maniacs have this appearance at first, but their true collors usually show up soon enough and by that time the woman may be completely blind to it. Eventually she will see it and HOPEFULLY walk away and learn from it.

 

[UnixFreak]

<< Yes, if you act like an ass you can screw sluts (and that's what they are). >>




Thank you for shedding the light here... nobody else in this thread has even mentioned that, that all I do is screw sluts. Let me guess, I am telling you to screw girls and leave them, right? Use your own logic. Ask your girlfreind about her ex boyfreinds. If she says one of them was a &quot;jerK&quot; or an &quot;@sshole&quot; that means, by her being attracted to these type of men, that she is a slut. And a &quot;bar skank&quot;. So maybe you should reconsider who you date. I am merely making a statement here, and you people attack me, as if I created the situation, rather than just some guy making an observation. It's really pretty funny to me.

 

[UnixFreak]

<< Nothing says &quot;I'm a wuss&quot; better than a man who has no self esteem and is OVERLY sensitive >>




Somebody gets what I am trying to say. OMG tauren, you are a genius. At least in comparison with most posters in this thread. You get the &quot;good listener' award of the day.

 

[goshdarnindie]

Ladies and Gentlemen,

This thread is old, but the discussion is not. Please ignore this thread (so that I never have to see UnixFreak's name again when I refresh my OT page) and go to LINK and continue your discussion there. Thank you.

 

[Urinal Mint]

<< I have never had a problem and I am a nice guy. IMHO - women want a man with confidence and a little arogance. Nothing says &quot;I'm a wuss&quot; better than a man who has no self esteem and is OVERLY sensitive. Ego-maniacs have this appearance at first, but their true collors usually show up soon enough and by that time the woman may be completely blind to it. Eventually she will see it and HOPEFULLY walk away and learn from it. >>


I'll agree with every word here, and thought this was the point I was arguing from the beginning without saying it so eloquently.

Of course, this point comes from a guy with some maturity and a marriage under his belt. Three cheers for experience and common sense.

 

[SirFshAlot]

<< Nothing says &quot;I'm a wuss&quot; better than a man who has no self esteem and is OVERLY sensitive >>

Somebody gets what I am trying to say


How the hell do you equate not being a wuss with being an as*hole?

Help me not think of you as an idiot here, please. I dare you.

 

[Urinal Mint]

<< How the hell do you equate not being a wuss with being an as*hole?

Help me not think of you as an idiot here, please. I dare you. >>


In a simpleton's world, there are only 2 extremes for every situation...

 

[UnixFreak]

<< How the hell do you equate not being a wuss with being an as*hole?

Help me not think of you as an idiot here, please. I dare you.
>>



Because you have 2 choices. Be a nice guy, and let girls walk all over you, or stand up for yourself, and be an @sshole. Its as simple as that. If you are a wuss, you will hold open doors, kiss your girls feet, and pay out your @ss, for movies and dinner, and she will hold sex in front of you like a carrot on a string, which you will be chasing for months, sometimes years. Then she dates some guy with self respect, who doesnt put up with this crap, (he qualifies as an @sshole) and he bags her in the first week. You people think I am wrong. You think your girlfreinds are all sweet and perfect because it took you a year to get in her pants, but when one, just of one of you, breaks up with them, and they bang some guy they have known for a week, you will seriously consider what I say. Then you will say &quot;maybe UF doesnt just bang bar whores.. maybe they are regular women..&quot; Naw... thats asking too much.

 

[Nil]

SirFshAlot, did you read the whole post? I said &quot;Now, I'm not saying all women are like this&quot;

And I don't think it's &quot;narrowminded stereotyping&quot; for me to give an example of what I've seen. I've known lots of women (I didn't say &quot;slept with&quot;!) and have seen this often. And I'm not judging them either. Like I said, just stating an observation.

 

[Urinal Mint]

<< Because you have 2 choices. Be a nice guy, and let girls walk all over you, or stand up for yourself, and be an @sshole. Its as simple as that. If you are a wuss, you will hold open doors, kiss your girls feet, and pay out your @ss, for movies and dinner, and she will hold sex in front of you like a carrot on a string, which you will be chasing for months, sometimes years. Then she dates some guy with self respect, who doesnt put up with this crap, (he qualifies as an @sshole) and he bags her in the first week. You people think I am wrong. >>



Dude, I still think you're full of sh|t. I just don't see how you can sit there and say a guy is either 1. a nice guy or 2. an asshole. There aren't just extremes, man. I'm a nice guy that stands up for himself. Yeah, I open doors for women and treat them with respect, but by no means do they dangle sex in front of me like a carrot. If they do, I move on. I have bigger and better things to do with my life than date a woman who wants to have a power struggle with me.

My last girlfriend, we were having sex within a month... which I feel is perfectly reasonable. I'm not the one-night-stand type of guy. She, on the other hand, had had 2 one-nighters before meeting me, and she regretted both of them. Yeah, she had done some &quot;slutty&quot; things in her past, but I'm not one to judge.

Like I said, I'm willing to be friendly and share a difference in our approach to women. I have a few friends who are just like you, and we get along great... we just pursue women differently. Oddly enough, we each have gotten what we wanted without having to overlap.

 

[UnixFreak]

<< She, on the other hand, had had 2 one-nighters before meeting me, and she regretted both of them >>



Yeah, she regretted it so much she did it twice

You tout your girlfriend like she is pure gold.

BTW, according to the logic of the folks in this thread, she is a slut, and a bar skank.

 

[Urinal Mint]

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<< She, on the other hand, had had 2 one-nighters before meeting me, and she regretted both of them >>



Yeah, she regretted it so much she did it twice

You tout your girlfriend like she is pure gold.

BTW, according to the logic of the folks in this thread, she is a slut, and a bar skank. >>


I'll agree with that... their logic is flawed to be so obtuse and judgmental.

My ex-gf wasn't pure gold... I'm not either. Nobody is. We've all done immature things we're not proud of. I'm just trying to make the case that as people mature, they grow out of the &quot;bang em and leave em&quot; mentality and move on to a &quot;I want to settle with the right person&quot; ideology. It becomes a question of maturity at this point, really.

I think a lot of women do one-nighters for the same reason guys go to strip clubs... attention. You get that one quick, intense impulse of attention. That 2-3 hour stretch where you're the center of the world... and in the blink of an eye it's back to normal. Some people like living that way... I, on the other hand, don't.

 

[UnixFreak]

<< they grow out of the &quot;bang em and leave em&quot; mentality >>



Posted Earlier, but repeated to see if people grasp it the sixth time around.


I hope so. You know, it doesnt just work for getting laid, you need respect in a relationship also. You wont &quot;get the girl&quot; if she thinks of you &quot;like a brother&quot; or a &quot;really good freind&quot;. If you are a bit of a jerk, she will think she &quot;earned&quot; you, or &quot;changed&quot; you in some way, &quot;settled you down&quot; or whatever, and will respect you in your relationship. So nice guys dont win in that way, either, if you are super nice to her when you meet, she is going to think that you are super nice to every girl, and being with you wont make her feel &quot;special&quot;. It makes sense. If you are &quot;unattainable&quot; in some way, that increases your property value, in a woman's eyes. Ask any Honest woman. She'll tell ya.


I am going to be calling guiness soon.. I just know it.