Unixfreak is right

[Urinal Mint]

I do agree with him on this one... getting married before you're 30 is stupid. You're cheating yourself out of your wild years.

 

[UnixFreak]

definitely.

 

[loup garou]

All I'm gonna say is that I wouldn't take advice about love, sex, and relationships from a guy who identifies himself with an operating system.

 

[UnixFreak]

Then keep doing things by hand for all I care. Its not Like I am on a sidewalk in a chicken suit begging people to come to my site. When its running, they will come.

 

[SirFshAlot]

I do agree with him on this one... getting married before you're 30 is stupid

it all depends on the person and the frame of reference

I waited til I was 35 or so (can't remember right now) before I married because I thought that way when I was younger.
Now that I am older I have regrets of not settling down to have more kids when I had the energy for them.
I only have one child, 4 1/2, and I am 40 and feel too old to start having more.

For me, maybe not others, but my child brings more joy than any one nighter.

 

[Urinal Mint]

Heh... children are the ultimate side project/hobby.

 

[loup garou]

<< Then keep doing things by hand for all I care. Its not Like I am on a sidewalk in a chicken suit begging people to come to my site. When its running, they will come. >>



LOL, trust me--I don't need your help.

 

[UnixFreak]

Well, some people do. Thats what matters.

 

[bigd480]

Once you find the &quot;right&quot; person (which most people admittedly never will because they don't look for the right qualities) what's the point in waiting? And incidentally, we don't plan to &quot;procreate&quot; for at least 4-5 years...

Your ideas of marriage/commitment/relationships are obviously much different than mine... If you think marriage means no &quot;fun&quot; then you're screwed already and should never get married... I was happily single and having fun for quite a while before this relationship and am still so, so I don't see your point...

People change between 30 and 45 too, but you wouldn't know it cuz you haven't lived it yet... All the below says to me is that you're not ready for a serious relationship at your age, which is perfectly fine, but that doesn't mean that it applies to everyone... Like you said, you wouldn't consider dating a girl now that you did in high school, while some people are happily married to their g/f's from high school...

This isn't an issue anyone can be &quot;right&quot; about, it's all up to whatever makes you happy... And if you think you know what makes others happy more than they do you need to put down the crack pipe and smack yourself with it...


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<< own reservations (read: fears) regarding commitment.. >>



Explain to me why you would need to be married at your age? Its not fear, its good sense. a girl I dated in high school, I wouldnt even consider dating now- people change. When does the most change in your life take place? 0-25. Why get married? why settle down? If you love each other so much now, is that going to change when you are 30? So wait till then. If you dont procreate, or marry that person, or even move in with them, if things dont work out, you book. If you &quot;seal&quot; it, in any of these ways, you are screwed when you want to leave. I am just advocating fun. As much fun as you can have. Thats what life is all about. If you dont like fun, or you cannot live without someone in your life, dont listen to me. >>

 

[UnixFreak]

<< And incidentally, we don't plan to &quot;procreate&quot; for at least 4-5 years... >>



of course you dont plan to. Nobody plans to have them right away. I give you a year, maybe two. As soon as the rings hit the finger, the rubber box gets dusty... happens everyday.




<< And if you think you know what makes others happy more than they do you need to put down the crack pipe and smack yourself with it... >>




Well, I do know what makes people unhappy and I try to avoid it.

 

[pulse8]

When did this thread turn into one person praising a member to the member just praising himself?

 

[SirFshAlot]

for some reason I thought that's what it was all along, in a creepy, psychopathic, narcissistic sort of way

 

[UnixFreak]

Well, I dont see anyone proving me wrong, just criticizing (as usual). All I am doing is stating facts here. Obviously some people dont like facts.

 

[mikefromwa]

actually ill give some advice myself here, YOU dont plan to make babies, but that does not mean your girl doesnt (eventho she may say what you want to hear...things arnt what they seem with women).

I have lower intestinal pains something awful, i think im about to pass a liver/kidney/whatever stone out the ol piss tube

ow

 

[Elita1]

<< I do agree with him on this one... getting married before you're 30 is stupid. You're cheating yourself out of your wild years. >>



Wow!
Well that's it folks, I'm taking the advice of a Urinal Mint and dumping my fabulous husband, leaving my kid without a father, and running off with Mikefromwa and Unixfreak who seem to have something going on!


Actually seriously I have nothing against UF, but to say that ANYONE is always right is just plain silly.

 

[Yo Ma Ma]

Something tells me UnixFreak is a big Tom Leykis fan, LOL.

 

[Yeeny]

<< actually ill give some advice myself here, YOU dont plan to make babies, but that does not mean your girl doesnt (eventho she may say what you want to hear...things arnt what they seem with women).

I have lower intestinal pains something awful, i think im about to pass a liver/kidney/whatever stone out the ol piss tube

ow >>



Oh no, we have been found out! We all plan on bloating our bellies and getting fat, spending nine months with back aches and leg aches, feeling blah and sick for weeks on end and throwing away our freedom and peace for the next eighteen years, and all to keep our men. Cause God knows, you guys sure are worth doing all that to ourselves for..

 

[UnixFreak]

<< Wow! Well that's it folks, I'm taking the advice of a Urinal Mint and dumping my fabulous husband, leaving my kid without a father, and running off with Mikefromwa and Unixfreak who seem to have something going on! >>



That would be pretty dumb. I dont know about mikefromwa, But I would only be good for a night or two, no fun to stick around with.


I have been wrong. One time I thought I was wrong about something, but I was actually right, which made me wrong about thinking I was wrong, which made me right and wrong at the same time.



<< Oh no, we have been found out! We all plan on bloating our bellies and getting fat, spending nine months with back aches and leg aches, feeling blah and sick for weeks on end and throwing away our freedom and peace for the next eighteen years, and all to keep our men. Cause God knows, you guys sure are worth doing all that to ourselves for.. >>




GF, you tell me this, why is it Job #1 with the majority of women out there, to go out and get a family started as quickly as possible >>

?? If its sooooo terrible (which you all complain about childbirth) then why is so important? Most women quick to throw out the rubbers as soon as they get their man. How many children do you have again?

 

[Urinal Mint]

<<

<< I do agree with him on this one... getting married before you're 30 is stupid. You're cheating yourself out of your wild years. >>



Wow!
Well that's it folks, I'm taking the advice of a Urinal Mint and dumping my fabulous husband, leaving my kid without a father, and running off with Mikefromwa and Unixfreak who seem to have something going on!


Actually seriously I have nothing against UF, but to say that ANYONE is always right is just plain silly. >>


I'm glad your fairy tale has worked out... why don't you come and ask all the divorced people I work with (93 out of 112) if they thought it was a good idea to get married so young.

 

[mikefromwa]

tom is more right than unixfreak, hes a pro

 

[ChrichtonsGirl]

<< pussy, pussy, pussy >>



How many times are you going to use that word, Urinal Mint? For the record (not that many people care, I'm sure), that's as offensive to me as some of the racial slurs that crop up here occasionally. Call it getting laid, making love, having sex..whatever. But do you have to call it &quot;getting pussy&quot; all the time? We do have other assorted body parts that most of us use when having sex.

 

[Yeeny]

GF, you tell me this, why is it Job #1 with the majority of women out there, to go out and get a family started as quickly as possible >>

?? If its sooooo terrible (which you all complain about childbirth) then why is so important? Most women quick to throw out the rubbers as soon as they get their man. How many children do you have again?

I have three beautiful wonderful children, who I adore. And I have them why? Because I wanted to have kids, not because I needed them to keep my man around. I don't need anything to keep a man by my side, if he doesn't want to be here, then I will hold the door to make sure it doesn't hit him on the way out.

That would be pretty dumb. I dont know about mikefromwa, But I would only be good for a night or two, no fun to stick around with.

There are creams and such to help those kinds of problems. Perhaps if you used one, you could keep a woman around longer than a night or two.

 

[UnixFreak]

<< I have three beautiful wonderful children, who I adore. And I have them why? Because I wanted to have kids, >>



Which is exaclty what I just said. I never implied you did it to &quot;keep your man around&quot; you did. I was just responding to:



<< Oh no, we have been found out! We all plan on bloating our bellies and getting fat, spending nine months with back aches and leg aches, feeling blah and sick for weeks on end and throwing away our freedom and peace for the next eighteen years, and all to keep our men. Cause God knows, you guys sure are worth doing all that to ourselves for..
>>





<< There are creams and such to help those kinds of problems. Perhaps if you used one, you could keep a woman around longer than a night or two. >>



What If I dont care to?

 

[Yeeny]

Right, which was not directed at you at all, it was to the other person who insinuated women sneak around and try to get knocked up behind their mans back.

 

[UnixFreak]

<< tom is more right than unixfreak, hes a pro >>




there goes my radio career. Maybe I should try for a TV show. I'll have to find that guy.