Originally posted by: pontifex
why can't your gf pay for it?
this.
oh, and from what I've read of the thread, but refuse to read it all, this thread is full of :laugh:
first, it's the GF's pet. If she cannot afford to take care of it, she doesn't deserve to raise a pet. Sorry, that's the ugly truth. If you cannot afford to take care of your pet, you risk harming that pet in the long run versus never having owned it in the first place. With a pet, you have to go into a purchase with the notion that vet/medical bills are a very real possibility, and if you envision that won't be an easy task, don't put the pet in that situation.
On another note, unless the bird cost a bit of coin, I guess I'm a heartless bastard and will say I probably wouldn't go for such imaging costs. Pets get certain financial treatment based on the quality of the pet imho. And that's also why I will choose to only own dogs, unless a future SO has a different opinion, unless its a cat. I do not want cats. Ever. But moving on...
as a dog person, I know dogs are not cheap. And I expect, unless it's healthy and just drops dead running around the yard one day, that medical and vet bills will tally up over the years, especially later in life. Medication, imaging, etc. But I'd accept that because of the return you get from said type of pet. Dogs are wonderful, emotional, affectionate, and provide a damn fine service to the house all at the same time, unless raised terrible but then again, people who cannot raise animals don't deserve them. Again, moving on..
certain pets, unless it was some kind of valued bird that cost hundreds if not a thousand or more, I just wouldn't pay for expensive procedures and medical care. Novelty pets I just don't think are worth that kind of money sink. Instead, they are more of a enjoy and replace when necessary type imho. That goes for all types of pets, again, unless they are a valued species of pet. Rare birds, lizards, snakes, if they cost a lot, then one has to imagine there is some smart financial planning going on with an understanding that medical costs will be acceptable to keep said expensive pet alive.
And unless I was rich, I wouldn't even bother owning such expensive novelty pets. I want a useful pet that character. Birds can have character, but are utterly worthless and in the end are still a novelty. This is all a big IMHO, of course, as everyone wants something different in their pets. Me, I love pets that I can consider one of the family, and I get so much in return for a little time and money. Dogs you get the character, they are affectionate, and hell, a well raised dog is going to be extremely loyal. It's like a child that's also your best friend, and lifeline if ever necessary, not to forget the protection some breeds and proper handling will see. Protection of property is a great bonus, if not a major reason, to own a dog.