why is having pci-e lan important? you're not going to get any more throughput unless you're building a server, and then I'd be questioning why you're using P35 or x38 for that task in the first place. hopefully i'm not reading your post correctly and you're looking for a new mobo for a different reason, and pci-e lan is just a factor in your decision criteria.
as far as the question goes, I'd go x38 now, and here's why: x38 BIOSes are just now becoming somewhat mature, and it'll be another six months to a year after x48's come up that they'll be worth buying. so unless you buying window extends into next year, I'd go with the x38.