YAGT: Confused :S

[FooKilla]

UPDATE: We'll I dumped her today, told her I just want to be single. She once again got all emotional, started crying, said she loved me etc etc. I just told her sorry. She's hurt yeah I felt bad, however theres not much else I can say. She's dumped me several times before, I was in the same position shes in now, and she didn't care that she hurt me. I'm happier now however.

Been dating this girl on/off for 8 months now. The first three were perfect then she broke up with me.. Ever since then it's been arguments, her going out with other men and me pretty much being the fallback guy. Unfortunately I always wanted her back. In the end she met this dude and I walked away for good. It didn't work out and she tried getting back with me for weeks. I ignored her. I finally decided to give it another chance.

Everything is the same as it was the first three months when we dated now. I just don't feel happy. It's everything I wanted before but now that I have it.. I cannot stand being around her and I have no idea why. I tried breaking up with her last night and she got all emotional. Should I just walk away? She treated me like crap, I think thats whats turning me off from the relationship. Thinking the same ****** will happen again down the road. Idk what to do, I feel bad hurting someones feelings.

It's alot of running around too.. Im 22, shes 20 and she cant drive. It's always me driving her places/picking her up. Im sick of it :/

 

[BoldAsLove]

put YAGT in your title...you should know better

 

[BoldAsLove]

and we need pics.

 

[JohnAn2112]

Walk away, yo. Just walk away.

 

[ojai00]

Originally posted by: BoldAsLove
and we need pics.

:thumbsup:

 

[Hyperlite]

You would be right to ask for advice...i, however, have none to give. How old are you? if you're still young, go for it, unless you think that a threepeat will leave you emotionally shattered...

 

[rgwalt]

It sounds like she is USING you.

Look up the song Self Esteem by The Offspring.

Seriously, if you are with her but not happy, then you should consider leaving her.

R

 

[dirtboy]

Hump it & dump it.

You're being used, AGAIN.

 

[IBuyUFO]

Well, she's using you to get around. You feel that the same thing is going happen and you have a right to feel that way because she will do it to you again. Screw the beotch and kick her to the sidewalk.

 

[Jassi]

Don't be a wussy,
Dump that pussy.

Slightly off topic but I also have one piece of advice for ladies with man trouble:

If he's a prick,
Dump that dick.

 

[compnovice]

Originally posted by: JohnAn2112
Walk away, yo. Just walk away.

No........................ RUNNNNNNNNNNN!!

 

[KarenMarie]

Tell her that you sold you car and bought a 10 speed bike and you will see EXACTLY why your gut feeling is correct when it tells you to dump her.

 

[LookingGlass]

You need to listen to what your gut is telling you, you aren't happy, get out. So what if she gets emotional. You are young, time to move on, she used you for awhile, you already know the answer, as much as it hurts, you'll hurt even more staying. Time to move on.

If you want, tell her how you feel, you feel used, all the bullsh!t you went through, things have changed, there is no going back. She needs to go find someone else she can use.

 

[PaNsyBoy8]

if she doesn't make you happy, why are u with her....just leave.

man up!

 

[BlancoNino]

Originally posted by: JohnAn2112
Walk away, yo. Just walk away.

No, she'll have to walk away. He can drive away...but she'll have to walk.

 

[Maximilian]

This is your chance to get 1 up on her! You know what to do....

Depending on how mean you are:

A: Break up

B: Sleep with her sister/other girl

 

[JS80]

if she's hot:
1) stay emotionally far
2) bang bang bang
3) dump when you find another chick

if she's not hot
1) dump

 

[elektrolokomotive]

You were branded a chump the 1st time you took her back.

 

[Viperoni]

Take her to dumpsville, population: her.

 

[randay]

Originally posted by: Jassi
Don't be a wussy,
Dump that pussy.

Slightly off topic but I also have one piece of advice for ladies with man trouble:

If he's a prick,
Dump that dick.

If she's a screamer,
Cleaveland Steamer?

 

[Shadowknight]

I think it's pretty obvious what you KNOW what you should do... the question is whether you WILL go through with it. Posting this on AtoT, giving the obvious answer (plus the demand for pics) is just going to give you the hard answer; dump her. You know it, everyone in this thread knows it, and after 8 months of a hot/cold relationship, she definetly knows it - she's using you, man. You're her fallback guy. Don't talk to her anymore, delete her phone numbers from your cell phone, erase her e-mail and AIM info from your computer, give back or sell any reminders of her. Wash your hands of it completely. A good way to help getting over it is to hit the gym; this has been a tried and true method to get over some girl while feeling better while getting fit, or at the very least, using your spare time to get in physical shape instead of moping around, even if you havee trouble getting her out of your head.

 

[mrrman]

time to walk away and find someone else...if all else fails, just ignore her completely....she will get the hint

 

[ZOOYUKA]

Originally posted by: FooKilla
Been dating this girl on/off for 8 months now. The first three were perfect then she broke up with me.. Ever since then it's been arguments, her going out with other men and me pretty much being the fallback guy. Unfortunately I always wanted her back. In the end she met this dude and I walked away for good. It didn't work out and she tried getting back with me for weeks. I ignored her. I finally decided to give it another chance.

Everything is the same as it was the first three months when we dated now. I just don't feel happy. It's everything I wanted before but now that I have it.. I cannot stand being around her and I have no idea why. I tried breaking up with her last night and she got all emotional. Should I just walk away? She treated me like crap, I think thats whats turning me off from the relationship. Thinking the same ****** will happen again down the road. Idk what to do, I feel bad hurting someones feelings.

It's alot of running around too.. Im 22, shes 20 and she cant drive. It's always me driving her places/picking her up. Im sick of it :/

What woman can?

 

[randay]

Originally posted by: ZOOYUKA

Originally posted by: FooKilla
Been dating this girl on/off for 8 months now. The first three were perfect then she broke up with me.. Ever since then it's been arguments, her going out with other men and me pretty much being the fallback guy. Unfortunately I always wanted her back. In the end she met this dude and I walked away for good. It didn't work out and she tried getting back with me for weeks. I ignored her. I finally decided to give it another chance.

Everything is the same as it was the first three months when we dated now. I just don't feel happy. It's everything I wanted before but now that I have it.. I cannot stand being around her and I have no idea why. I tried breaking up with her last night and she got all emotional. Should I just walk away? She treated me like crap, I think thats whats turning me off from the relationship. Thinking the same ****** will happen again down the road. Idk what to do, I feel bad hurting someones feelings.

It's alot of running around too.. Im 22, shes 20 and she cant drive. It's always me driving her places/picking her up. Im sick of it :/

What woman can?

Danica Patrick?

 

[SuperSix]

How do those other guy's cocks taste?

Cmon men - have some pride!!!