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[doze]

Dude you already know what to do ... ditch her.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: FooKilla
Been dating this girl on/off for 8 months now. The first three were perfect then she broke up with me.. Ever since then it's been arguments, her going out with other men and me pretty much being the fallback guy. Unfortunately I always wanted her back. In the end she met this dude and I walked away for good. It didn't work out and she tried getting back with me for weeks. I ignored her. I finally decided to give it another chance.

Everything is the same as it was the first three months when we dated now. I just don't feel happy. It's everything I wanted before but now that I have it.. I cannot stand being around her and I have no idea why. I tried breaking up with her last night and she got all emotional. Should I just walk away? She treated me like crap, I think thats whats turning me off from the relationship. Thinking the same ****** will happen again down the road. Idk what to do, I feel bad hurting someones feelings.

It's alot of running around too.. Im 22, shes 20 and she cant drive. It's always me driving her places/picking her up. Im sick of it :/

take a dump on her head.

 

[Buck Armstrong]

Originally posted by: FooKilla
Been dating this girl on/off for 8 months now. The first three were perfect then she broke up with me.. Ever since then it's been arguments, her going out with other men and me pretty much being the fallback guy. Unfortunately I always wanted her back. In the end she met this dude and I walked away for good. It didn't work out and she tried getting back with me for weeks. I ignored her. I finally decided to give it another chance.

Everything is the same as it was the first three months when we dated now. I just don't feel happy. It's everything I wanted before but now that I have it.. I cannot stand being around her and I have no idea why. I tried breaking up with her last night and she got all emotional. Should I just walk away? She treated me like crap, I think thats whats turning me off from the relationship. Thinking the same ****** will happen again down the road. Idk what to do, I feel bad hurting someones feelings.

It's alot of running around too.. Im 22, shes 20 and she cant drive. It's always me driving her places/picking her up. Im sick of it :/

Her going out with other men? There's your problem. Nothing will ever be the same after that, no matter how hard you try...so just save yourself the time and heartache and move on. You learned your lesson (when you let people sh*t on you and keep coming back for more, they lose respect for you), now let her learn hers (when you cheat on people you claim to love, it ruins everything, and all the king's horses and all the king's men, cannot put Humpty-Dumpty together again).

Go find a girl worth having. Let this one find a new patsy to "treat like crap".

 

[Compton]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
take a dump on her head.

Wow! :shocked:

 

[Blazin Trav]

We've got a class 5 clinger.

 

[151528]

Originally posted by: Hyperlite
You would be right to ask for advice...i, however, have none to give. How old are you? if you're still young, go for it, unless you think that a threepeat will leave you emotionally shattered...

Your a tool, he stated the ages of him and his girl, he said he was 22 and she was 20, you obviosly didnt read much of it.

 

[151528]

Originally posted by: rgwalt
It sounds like she is USING you.

Look up the song Self Esteem by The Offspring.

Seriously, if you are with her but not happy, then you should consider leaving her.

R

I second that.

 

[reverend boltron]

Yeah man, I'm going to have to tell you that it is definitely time to move on. You don't want to be around that type of person for too long. There is something about that type of personality that leaves the recipient of their "affections" jaded. There are certain people you want to surround yourself with; if you keep yourself in the company of fools, you will fall into foolishness. If you keep yourself in the company of wisemen you will learn wisdom. My friend, this girl is not the bearer of wisdom that you should be seeking after.

Take some time alone, get to know who you are, and what you like. Not what your friends like, or what people are supposed to like. The more you start to get to know yourself and the more you start recognize who you really are, the better your relationships will be from then on. You won't be waiting around for manipulative people who will control you. Those people will be filtered out because they will recognize that they have no authority in your life because you aren't looking for approval.

I cannot stress that enough man, the more you go on a journey by yourself for a while, especially now, the better things will be for you. There is a dramatic difference in the maturity of a 20 year old and a 23 year old. Take a year off, get some revelation, and by all means stay away from this girl. She will continue to try to come back into your life because she knows she can. Take that authority back, don't be a victim, and don't allow that to happen.

I know why you don't like her too, it's because you're growing bitter towards her. I'm telling you man, kill that now. You don't want to harbor that in your heart, you do not want to carry around hate and become a negative person. It will seep into every single other area of your life until you find yourself complaining about everything and completely off the mark from where you wanted to be in life.

Read Proverbs and Ecclesiasties for more insights man. Esp Proverbs 5,6, and 7.

 

[IronWing]

Satellites are monitoring the earth's rotation by watching your L spin by.

 

[Ameesh]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: FooKilla
Been dating this girl on/off for 8 months now. The first three were perfect then she broke up with me.. Ever since then it's been arguments, her going out with other men and me pretty much being the fallback guy. Unfortunately I always wanted her back. In the end she met this dude and I walked away for good. It didn't work out and she tried getting back with me for weeks. I ignored her. I finally decided to give it another chance.

Everything is the same as it was the first three months when we dated now. I just don't feel happy. It's everything I wanted before but now that I have it.. I cannot stand being around her and I have no idea why. I tried breaking up with her last night and she got all emotional. Should I just walk away? She treated me like crap, I think thats whats turning me off from the relationship. Thinking the same ****** will happen again down the road. Idk what to do, I feel bad hurting someones feelings.

It's alot of running around too.. Im 22, shes 20 and she cant drive. It's always me driving her places/picking her up. Im sick of it :/

take a dump on her head.

BAM!

 

[AbAbber2k]

Originally posted by: dirtboy
Hump it & dump it.

You're being used, AGAIN.

 

[Eeezee]

You were right to leave, you were wrong to let her back into your life. Fix this

 

[Pabster]

Originally posted by: dirtboy
Hump it & dump it.

You're being used, AGAIN.

:thumbsup:

 

[MustangSVT]

Originally posted by: FooKilla
Been dating this girl on/off for 8 months now. The first three were perfect then she broke up with me.. Ever since then it's been arguments, her going out with other men and me pretty much being the fallback guy. Unfortunately I always wanted her back. In the end she met this dude and I walked away for good. It didn't work out and she tried getting back with me for weeks. I ignored her. I finally decided to give it another chance.

Everything is the same as it was the first three months when we dated now. I just don't feel happy. It's everything I wanted before but now that I have it.. I cannot stand being around her and I have no idea why. I tried breaking up with her last night and she got all emotional. Should I just walk away? She treated me like crap, I think thats whats turning me off from the relationship. Thinking the same ****** will happen again down the road. Idk what to do, I feel bad hurting someones feelings.

It's alot of running around too.. Im 22, shes 20 and she cant drive. It's always me driving her places/picking her up. Im sick of it :/

End it with her. It will be better for both of you. Cut all ties. You can move on faster if you have someone else.

 

[FooKilla]

We'll I dumped her today, told her I just want to be single. She once again got all emotional, started crying, said she loved me etc etc. I just told her sorry. She's hurt yeah I felt bad, however theres not much else I can say. She's dumped me several times before, I was in the same position shes in now, and she didn't care that she hurt me. I'm happier now however.

 

[MmmSkyscraper]

Originally posted by: FooKilla
I'm happier now however.

:thumbsup:

 

[Triforceofcourage]

Originally posted by: FooKilla
We'll I dumped her today, told her I just want to be single. She once again got all emotional, started crying, said she loved me etc etc. I just told her sorry. She's hurt yeah I felt bad, however theres not much else I can say. She's dumped me several times before, I was in the same position shes in now, and she didn't care that she hurt me. I'm happier now however.

Congratulations, dumping someone you love is probably the hardest thing one can do.

Today you are a man.

 

[FooKilla]

I'm still trying to be her friend, I just don't want to tie myself down at the moment. I live on a border town, she's canadian and has no vechicle. So the relationship was reliant of me crossing the border every night.

 

[altonb1]

Just let her go, but if she is hot, try to keep the door open for booty calls.

"Don't hate the playa, hate the game!"

 

[lokiju]

Good job.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

uhhh thats not love.

 

[SuperSix]

Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper

Originally posted by: FooKilla
I'm happier now however.

:thumbsup:

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

 

[j00fek]

thats the way to grow balls!

 

[LanceM]

Now, the key is to never, EVER get back with her.

 

[ColdFusion718]

Originally posted by: rgwalt
It sounds like she is USING you.

Look up the song Self Esteem by The Offspring.

Seriously, if you are with her but not happy, then you should consider leaving her.

R