yagt: I'm scared of sex

[EmperorOfIceCream]

bah.

I used to think that like people say, a man will always want to jump into the sack right away, but a woman will want to wait...Its not true for me right now and I'm confused.

I think that maybe I just need to actually start believing that a woman DOES want me...

She goes too fast...

I need foreplay...

bah...I sound like a girl now...

 

[sonambulo]

still a virgin?

 

[EmperorOfIceCream]

Originally posted by: sonambulo
still a virgin?

sure

 

[sonambulo]

just take the plunge. it's the first in a seemingly neverending stream of disappointments.

 

[flxnimprtmscl]

Whiskey...

 

[EmperorOfIceCream]

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Whiskey...

tango foxtrot -- I know. This isn't what I expected...but I guess thats part of becoming an adult -- learning whats real as opposed to what they tell you growing up.

 

[FrustratedUser]

Just do it. It's fun and I whish I got laid much more.

 

[flxnimprtmscl]

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Whiskey...

tango foxtrot -- I know. This isn't what I expected...but I guess thats part of becoming an adult -- learning whats real as opposed to what they tell you growing up.

How old are you out of curiosity?

 

[Sid59]

practice with the hole in the wall.

 

[EmperorOfIceCream]

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Whiskey...

tango foxtrot -- I know. This isn't what I expected...but I guess thats part of becoming an adult -- learning whats real as opposed to what they tell you growing up.

How old are you out of curiosity?

21...I've had a few girlfriends before with heavy petting and such...but they always moved slower and sex never came up...

 

[sonambulo]

oh thast nice. they passed new laws in the british isles saying you're busted if you shag outside.

tae fvck.

 

[flxnimprtmscl]

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Whiskey...

tango foxtrot -- I know. This isn't what I expected...but I guess thats part of becoming an adult -- learning whats real as opposed to what they tell you growing up.

How old are you out of curiosity?

21...I've had a few girlfriends before with heavy petting and such...but they always moved slower and sex never came up...

Well, that makes a bit more sense I guess. Just go for it. Best advice there is. NOW. While you still have the oportunity. You'll hate yourself if you end up a 40 year old virgin like that guy who was posting here a few months ago about his first real girlfriend that he met through yahoo.

 

[Whitecloak]

practice on some apple pie first

 

[jjyiz28]

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream
bah.

I used to think that like people say, a man will always want to jump into the sack right away, but a woman will want to wait...Its not true for me right now and I'm confused.

I think that maybe I just need to actually start believing that a woman DOES want me...

She goes too fast...

I need foreplay...

bah...I sound like a girl now...

i understand what u talkin bout. doesn't feel right when she is the agressor and not you. just tell her to slow down a lil thats all

 

[EmperorOfIceCream]

maybe part of it is that I see this girl as the type of girl that jumps from man to man -- always has a boyfriend -- I don't want to just be the next guy in line...

 

[EmperorOfIceCream]

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Whiskey...

tango foxtrot -- I know. This isn't what I expected...but I guess thats part of becoming an adult -- learning whats real as opposed to what they tell you growing up.

How old are you out of curiosity?

21...I've had a few girlfriends before with heavy petting and such...but they always moved slower and sex never came up...

Well, that makes a bit more sense I guess. Just go for it. Best advice there is. NOW. While you still have the oportunity. You'll hate yourself if you end up a 40 year old virgin like that guy who was posting here a few months ago about his first real girlfriend that he met through yahoo.

Thanks for putting things in perspective...

 

[MAME]

aren't you banned yet?

 

[compuwiz1]

oh, you have no experience, my lad. Want me to cum over and check, to be sure it's safe?

 

[Whitecloak]

Originally posted by: compuwiz1
oh, you have no experience, my lad. Want me to cum over and check, to be sure it's safe?

:shocked:

 

[MAME]

Originally posted by: compuwiz1
oh, you have no experience, my lad. Want me to cum over and check, to be sure it's safe?

please report to your sig

 

[murphy55d]

I recently lost mine...and let me tell you, for the longest time, I was sort of afraid of it too. (im also 21 btw). I wanted to wait until I found the right girl I wanted to do it with... and when I found her, and we ended up doing it, it was like...nothing. I don't mean it meant nothing, it just came REALLY easily, and I wasn't the least bit nervous. I know this doesn't always happen for everyone, but if you do find the right girl, it'll take care of itself.

 

[luvya]

Dear EmperorOfIceCream,

Your state of doubt and perplexity, while not rampant in ATOT, is nevertheless of great magnitude to us. What you have been experienced is not merely a psychological tumult, although such possibility cannot be discounted, but a physical one. One that we describe as 'ejaculation difficulty'. Don't not be worried, my dear, for ejaculation difficulty simply means unable or difficult to ejaculate during sexual intercourse. It does not mean impotence.

For more information about your quandary, please refer to the following links:

this might help

in a similar boat?

finally, a good read

I ask you, my dear, to be contented with this very sketchy outline; the state of your health does not permit you to waste more sperm than needed.

Respecfully,

Luvya

 

[Whitecloak]

Originally posted by: luvya
Dear EmperorOfIceCream,

Your state of doubt and perplexity, while not rampant in ATOT, is nevertheless of great magnitude to us. What you have been experienced is not merely a psychological tumult, although such possibility cannot be discounted, but a physical one. One that we describe as 'ejaculation difficulty'. Don't not be worried, my dear, for ejaculation difficulty simply means unable or difficult to ejaculate during sexual intercourse. It does not mean impotence.

For more information about your quandary, please refer to the following links:

this might help

in a similar boat?

finally, a good read

I ask you, my dear, to be contented with this very sketchy outline; the state of your health does not permit you to waste more sperm than needed.

Respecfully,

Luvya

Listen to Luvya. He is the resident expert on foreplay as his cousin can testify. :laugh:

 

[rival]

wtF? my first time was with a hooker, what are you worried about?

 

[EmperorOfIceCream]

Originally posted by: murphy55d
I recently lost mine...and let me tell you, for the longest time, I was sort of afraid of it too. (im also 21 btw). I wanted to wait until I found the right girl I wanted to do it with... and when I found her, and we ended up doing it, it was like...nothing. I don't mean it meant nothing, it just came REALLY easily, and I wasn't the least bit nervous. I know this doesn't always happen for everyone, but if you do find the right girl, it'll take care of itself.

Thanks for the reply Murphy55d...one thing I've noticed is that I'm not nervous around this girl, like you say...it all seems so easy, and yet, I'm scared...It's not the adrenaline kind of fear...it's just that she's not the kind of girl I imagined would be so good for me...and yet she is...