yagt: I'm scared of sex

[z0mb13]

Originally posted by: Yossarian
when in doubt, whip it out.

but dont whip out a limp one..

the girl will say: awwww so cute

 

[conjur]

Originally posted by: z0mb13

Originally posted by: Yossarian
when in doubt, whip it out.

but dont whip out a limp one..

the girl will say: awwww so cute

Or laugh hysterically.

 

[Murphy Durphy]

Just go for it when the time comes up. Is the girl your with a virgin too? That would help things ALOT...

The first time I ever had sex came at a time when I didn't think I was going to. I met this girl and we talked for a while, ended up renting out a few hotel rooms and had a little bash. Well I knew this girl was eager to find someone she liked so she could try sex, I didn't know that person was going to be me. We were making out and doing some heavy petting in a private room when all of a sudden I hear "How do you take your belt off?" We were both a little tipsy but things just started happening. It was clumsy of course, everyone's first time is. But that doesn't mean we both didn't have fun while doing it. Don't worry about lasting too short, chances are you'll be too worried about her to worry about that, if you can even orgasm at all.

But anyway, if this girl is someone you can be comfortable around and she is ready to take the next step too, I say why not? You'll only be in this same position again with another girl down the road if you don't do it with her. You gotta get it out of the way, and believe me, it won't be as bad as you think. It's SEX for christ sake!

(BTW, me and that girl are still together to this day (Happened over a year ago). She wasn't just a drunken one night stand, but those are fun too! )

 

[mattg1981]

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream
maybe part of it is that I see this girl as the type of girl that jumps from man to man -- always has a boyfriend -- I don't want to just be the next guy in line...

word!

 

[JupiterJones]

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream
bah.

I used to think that like people say, a man will always want to jump into the sack right away, but a woman will want to wait...Its not true for me right now and I'm confused.

I think that maybe I just need to actually start believing that a woman DOES want me...

She goes too fast...

I need foreplay...

bah...I sound like a girl now...

Unless you die prematurely you are going to have sex a bunch of times in your life. I am 14 years into my marriage (I'm 38). My wife and I share a Biblical view of sex, and so we are generally together three to four times a week, and will probably do so for the rest of our lives.

It is not something to overly worry about now. Regardless of what the children here on AT say, sex is best with your wife.

Loveless sex with some tramp is highly overrated.

Jup

 

[tm37]

Originally posted by: z0mb13

Originally posted by: Yossarian
when in doubt, whip it out.

but dont whip out a limp one..

the girl will say: awwww so cute

Experience speaks!~

 

[xXped0thugXx]

no fears my boy if it sucks which it might you can always get it back Get Virginity back Here!


but seriously you can always practice after the first time, it will get better.

 

[Aharami]

have a glass of wine. both u and the girl. that would really help

 

[z0mb13]

Originally posted by: tm37

Originally posted by: z0mb13

Originally posted by: Yossarian
when in doubt, whip it out.

but dont whip out a limp one..

the girl will say: awwww so cute

Experience speaks!~

DIEEEEE!!!!

 

[CraigRT]

I don't want it as bad as some other guys do, either

sometimes I have to say no when all I want to do is sleep...

it's probably not normal, but it ain't hurting me any

 

[BigKev]

Go gloryhole style ...

 

[Linux23]

Let me be a realist here.


Your first time will be a terrible, clumsy experience.


However, like many people stated that once you get experienced it will make your first time much more worth it.

 

[EmperorOfIceCream]

Originally posted by: JupiterJones

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream
bah.

I used to think that like people say, a man will always want to jump into the sack right away, but a woman will want to wait...Its not true for me right now and I'm confused.

I think that maybe I just need to actually start believing that a woman DOES want me...

She goes too fast...

I need foreplay...

bah...I sound like a girl now...

Unless you die prematurely you are going to have sex a bunch of times in your life. I am 14 years into my marriage (I'm 38). My wife and I share a Biblical view of sex, and so we are generally together three to four times a week, and will probably do so for the rest of our lives.

It is not something to overly worry about now. Regardless of what the children here on AT say, sex is best with your wife.

Loveless sex with some tramp is highly overrated.

Jup

well, she's most definately not a tramp, and we do have a lot of love between us...but she isn't the kind of girl I imagined I would feel this way about...she has tattoo's and short hair, but she's so sweet and we connect without saying anything...

I'll talk to her tomorrow...

 

[SmoochyTX]

Jeez! You aren't banned yet?

 

[sonambulo]

dont come back without sex stories

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: jjyiz28

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream
bah.

I used to think that like people say, a man will always want to jump into the sack right away, but a woman will want to wait...Its not true for me right now and I'm confused.

I think that maybe I just need to actually start believing that a woman DOES want me...

She goes too fast...

I need foreplay...

bah...I sound like a girl now...

i understand what u talkin bout. doesn't feel right when she is the agressor and not you. just tell her to slow down a lil thats all

What's wrong with her being the agressor? You can take turns and if she wants it more than you that's a good thing

 

[shimsham]

Originally posted by: sonambulo
dont come back without sex stories

and :camera:s

 

[cerebusPu]

shoot..my post got lost and never got posted. here's a retype.

i wanted my first time to be special, and with someone that i loved. well, that totally did not happen. when the opporturnity rose, i ripped off my undies and jumped in bed eagerly. I didnt even think about making it special....the fact that i was going to lose my virginity was special enough for me. And ididnt care if it was with some random girl that i didnt really care much about. she was hot and she wanted to fvck...so i just followed what my little head was telling me.

But thats me, you have a chance to do it whatever way you wanted.

The funy thing is, i didnt have a problem with premature ejactuation. in fact, my problem was i couldnt orgasm for the longest time. So for 45mins, i tried every pornostar move i couild think of. And all i could think of was "woah...i cant believe this is happening." I guess it was kind of fun that way. I have no regrets about not making it special.

 

[ShawnD1]

Can you elaborate on these pornstar moves? I'm always lookin to expand my knowledge

 

[cerebusPu]

Originally posted by: ShawnD1
Can you elaborate on these pornstar moves? I'm always lookin to expand my knowledge

haha...that was my first time. i had no previous hands on training whatsoever. To think now, i sucked really bad. but i had plenty of visual aid for years and years of surfing the web.

i didnt really do anything special. i just pretended i was in my own personal movie and enojyed myself.

 

[ShawnD1]

lol what a way of thinking, "my own personal movie". I'll try to keep that in mind when the situation arises.

 

[Dacalo]

If you have doubts, don't do it. If you think she is the one, then go for it.

Just don't rush your decision.

 

[EmperorOfIceCream]

Originally posted by: Dacalo
If you have doubts, don't do it. If you think she is the one, then go for it.

Just don't rush your decision.

what do you mean by 'the one'?

the one I'm going to have sex with?

or the one I want to spend the rest of my life with?

or the one I find foxy?

 

[Iron Woode]

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl

Originally posted by: EmperorOfIceCream

Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Whiskey...

tango foxtrot -- I know. This isn't what I expected...but I guess thats part of becoming an adult -- learning whats real as opposed to what they tell you growing up.

How old are you out of curiosity?

21...I've had a few girlfriends before with heavy petting and such...but they always moved slower and sex never came up...

I lost my virginity at 21. I actually wish I would have waited till I met my first real girlfriend first. My first GF was 18 and I was 23. She was a virgin and I had very little experience. We taught each other a lot when it came to sex. It made me the Stud Muffin I am now.

It feels great when you have sex with someone you really love, as opposed to some slut looking to get laid.